{"id":1983,"date":"2011-06-20T06:09:06","date_gmt":"2011-06-20T10:09:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/growmama.com\/?p=1983"},"modified":"2011-06-20T06:09:06","modified_gmt":"2011-06-20T10:09:06","slug":"implementing-quranic-verses-and-ahadith","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/growmama\/growmama-roundup\/implementing-quranic-verses-and-ahadith\/","title":{"rendered":"Implementing Qur’anic Verses and Ahadith"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<\/head>

\"\"We asked some of our GrowMama writers to\u00a0share a hadith<\/em> or aya<\/em> from the Qur\u2019an that they have used to help their children develop a good habit. Here is what they had to say:<\/p>\n

S writes<\/strong>:<\/p>\n

Inna Allaaha ma\u2019 as-saabireen, \u201c<\/em>Indeed Allah is with the patient.\u201d\u00a0At times life is hard for young kids. Learning to write their name or tie shoe laces can bring on the biggest tears. I remind them that not everything can come easily. Allah is always with the mindful believer who remains steadfast and patient. It\u2019s nice for them to know that a certain type of behavior is loved by Allah SWT and that His help will come insha\u2019Allah.<\/p>\n

M writes:<\/strong><\/p>\n

With three little girls in the house, it\u2019s all about fancy dresses, jewelry, and sparkles of any kind (even though I deliberately try to avoid this stereotypical regimen of girlhood\u2013I\u2019m almost ready to admit defeat). So I tried to share this hadeeth in that light. The Prophet (saw) said, \u201cWherever gentleness is present, it adorns. And whenever it is absent, it tarnishes.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

I try to use this hadeeth to teach gentleness in interacting with siblings. When you are gentle with your annoying little sister, you are acting with beauty. Do you want to be more beautiful? It is not how you dress or look in the mirror, but how you act. The true queen is kind to everyone, and helps her sister when she is crying and picks her up and brushes her off when she stumbles. When you want a toy, do not grab or shout. Be beautiful in your actions by practicing gentleness in every little thing.<\/p>\n

I remind them when they dress up, because the point doesn\u2019t always get through.\u201dWould you like to be even more beautiful than just wearing clothes? Your dresses and necklaces are pretty but\u2013\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cAnd bracelets.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cYes-\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cAnd earrings.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cYes, and earrings, but there\u2019s something that will make you much more beautiful-\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cA crown.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cA crown too, but when you are gentle, you become the most beautiful you can be.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cDon\u2019t forget a bee-yooooooo-ti-ful skirt.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/p>\n

U.N. writes:<\/strong><\/p>\n

My five-year old is a perfectionist, whether that\u2019s good or bad depends on the day! She<\/p>\n

was mesmerized after hearing the story of the companion she was named after. A few minutes later she asked me who the best person was. Was it this companion? Was it the Prophet? She decided that it was Allah and so she was going to be like Allah (may Allah subhanahu wa ta\u2019ala<\/em> be exalted of any comparison). After I explained to her that it wasn\u2019t possible, she decided the Prophet was the best of role models. With this understanding that I think she grasps to a certain degree, even if theoretically, I attempt to interject the Prophet\u2019s (peace be upon him) sayings or ahadith as often as possible. When she\u2019s angry (and sometimes really can\u2019t control her emotions) I remind her of the following hadith, \u201cThe strong is not the one who overcomes the people by her strength, but the strong is the one who controls herself while in anger.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

In the middle of preparing a gift for a friend, I remind her of the saying of the Prophet (peace be upon him), \u201cExchange gifts and mutual love arises.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n

<\/em>One day after an incident happened and I was trying to explain to my daughter the consequences of her actions, she looked over with what I think was a semi-smirk and said, \u201cand what did the Prophet say about that?\u201d \u2013 I refuse to think she was being sarcastic!<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

We asked some of our GrowMama writers to\u00a0share a hadith or aya from the Qur\u2019an that they have used to help their children develop a good habit. Here is what they had to say: S writes: Inna Allaaha ma\u2019 as-saabireen, \u201cIndeed Allah is with the patient.\u201d\u00a0At times life is hard for young kids. 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