{"id":7636,"date":"2012-03-05T10:57:58","date_gmt":"2012-03-05T16:57:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/holyrover\/?p=7636"},"modified":"2012-03-05T10:57:58","modified_gmt":"2012-03-05T16:57:58","slug":"compassionate-service","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/holyrover\/2012\/03\/05\/compassionate-service\/","title":{"rendered":"Compassionate Service"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><figure id=\"attachment_7637\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-7637\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-7637\" title=\"Compassione_(1603),_Cesare_Ripa,_Iconologia\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/628\/2012\/03\/Compassione_1603_Cesare_Ripa_Iconologia-300x233.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"233\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-7637\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Allegory of Compassion by Cesare Ripa (Wikimedia Commons image)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/p><p>As the calendar turns to March, it\u2019s time to revisit the gratitude practice inspired by Angeles Arrien\u2019s <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/160407082X\/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=spiritrave0a-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=160407082X\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Living in Gratitude<\/a><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"border: none !important;margin: 0px !important\" src=\"https:\/\/www.assoc-amazon.com\/e\/ir?t=spiritrave0a-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=160407082X\" alt=\"\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" border=\"0\">. In February I vowed to be more deliberate in sending compassionate thoughts to those who irritate me. This practice, alas, proved harder than I thought it would be. I could blame others for ramping up their irritation level, but honestly, I think the fault actually lies with me. Mea culpa. Time to start anew.<\/p>\n<p>In Arrien\u2019s book, this month\u2019s chapter\u00a0is an invitation to practice\u00a0<em>compassionate service<\/em>. Just as spring brings warmth, new life, and a blossoming of the earth, Arrien invites us to nurture the burgeoning fruits of our gratitude practice. She quotes the advice given by Ram Dass and Mirabai Bush in their book <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/051788500X\/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=spiritrave0a-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=051788500X\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Compassion in Action: Setting Out on the Path of Service<\/a><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"border: none !important;margin: 0px !important\" src=\"https:\/\/www.assoc-amazon.com\/e\/ir?t=spiritrave0a-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=051788500X\" alt=\"\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" border=\"0\">:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>be brave<\/li>\n<li>start small<\/li>\n<li>use what you\u2019ve got<\/li>\n<li>do something you enjoy<\/li>\n<li>don\u2019t overcommit<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Much of compassionate service, then, is about discernment. We have to discern both what is inside our hearts and what needs doing in the larger world. If we miss the mark with the first, we end up feeling over-committed, frustrated, and burned out. If we miss the mark with the second, our efforts are largely wasted (I\u2019m reminded of C.S. Lewis\u2019 comment about a woman who \u201cspent her life helping others\u2026 you could tell the others by their hunted look\u201d).<\/p>\n<p>I like those first two directives best of all: Be Brave. Start Small.<\/p>\n<p>Sign me up for March!<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As the calendar turns to March, it\u2019s time to revisit the gratitude practice inspired by Angeles Arrien\u2019s Living in Gratitude. In February I vowed to be more deliberate in sending compassionate thoughts to those who irritate me. This practice, alas, proved harder than I thought it would be. 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