{"id":4559,"date":"2016-10-08T08:53:51","date_gmt":"2016-10-08T15:53:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/irreverin\/?p=4559"},"modified":"2016-10-08T08:56:17","modified_gmt":"2016-10-08T15:56:17","slug":"how-trump-is-making-misogyny-great-again","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/irreverin\/2016\/10\/how-trump-is-making-misogyny-great-again\/","title":{"rendered":"How Trump is Making Misogyny Great Again"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Last week, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/entry\/donald-trump-is-triggering-domestic-violence-survivors-with-textbook-abusive-behavior_us_57ed0bafe4b082aad9b959fa\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">women\u2019s\u00a0health experts<\/a> and other commentators detailed the\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/everydayfeminism.com\/2016\/09\/trump-emotional-abuse-tactics\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">\u201cabusive behaviors\u201d<\/a> exhibited in Trump\u2019s debate performance. And all the lights came on. <em>So THIS is why he\u2019s so hard to watch<\/em>, I thought. This is why our stomachs turn when he talks; when he belittles opponents and unleashes verbal tirades and refuses to stay on topic. He\u2019s not just unpleasant. He is a predator. And any woman who\u2019s ever been in an abusive relationship\u2013physical or otherwise\u2013can see it a mile away. <\/span><\/p>\n<p>So when the tapes were released yesterday\u2013the ones in which Trump and \u00a0Billy Bush say some <a href=\"http:\/\/www.politico.com\/story\/2016\/10\/trump-wapo-229299\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">appalling things about women<\/a>\u2013it was no surprise. We\u2019ve known this is who he is. Also not surprising was his \u2018sorry-not-sorry\u2019 sort of apology. The one that basically says boys will be boys and dumb bitches can\u2019t take a joke. Typical Trumpiness.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_4560\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4560\" style=\"width: 400px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-4560\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/333\/2016\/10\/723px-Donald_Trump_by_Gage_Skidmore_5_cut-e1475940513681.jpg\" alt=\"by Gage Skidmore, via Wikimedia Commons\" width=\"400\" height=\"498\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-4560\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">by Gage Skidmore, via Wikimedia Commons<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Even after these two recent revelations, I don\u2019t have much to say about Trump himself that I haven\u2019t already said. But still, I posted the thing about the \u201cmoving on her like a bitch\u201d and \u201cyou can do anything you want when you\u2019re famous\u201d and the \u201cgrab \u2018em by the pussy\u201d remarks, because there are deeper issues here than just the guy running for President.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While I don\u2019t have anything to say about him that I haven\u2019t said before, I would like to share with you my foray into the world of his followers. Because it is a dark, angry, woman-hating place. And we need to shed some light on it, unless we want to find ourselves dwelling there for eternity. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here\u2019s how I found myself spending a Friday evening with a Basket of Deplorables: After following mutliple social media threads about this latest implosion of misogyny, I started to see a common thread\u2026The people defending him, from famous people to friends of mine to HIGH PROFILE CHRISTIAN LEADERS (do not get me started) had the same unconscionable defense: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">all men talk like this about women. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And, it occurred to me, that in some people\u2019s worlds that is true. I was deeply saddened and angered by that truth, so I tweeted the following: <\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-lang=\"en\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">If you believe \"that's how all men talk,\" then might I suggest you need an upgrade of the men in your life. <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/TrumpTapes?src=hash\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">#TrumpTapes<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/rapeculture?src=hash\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">#rapeculture<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u2014 erin wathen (@iRreverin) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/iRreverin\/status\/784599639727214593\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">October 8, 2016<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p> <script async src=\"\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>And the trolls started rolling in.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Over the next hour, I got called the following: <\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Ignorant<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Idiot<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>\u201cWoman\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Sweetheart<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>FemiNazi\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Hysterical Loon<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Bitch<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I also got told to shut up. As women do, who say things. There were also suggestions about my obvious lack of sexual opportunity\/experience\/enjoyment, if no man has ever talked to me like that before. It was suggested that my Friday night involved 9 cats and a tub of ice cream.\u00a0It went on like that for awhile.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>At some point, I went to bed. And woke up this morning to an even longer list of new titles I can add to my resume. I blocked the guy who called me a bitch. I also blocked a guy whose Twitter handle is <em>@TwatSlayer<\/em>, whose mother I\u2019m sure is so proud of her baby boy.<\/p>\n<p>But this is not all. The underlying message of all these Tweets\u00a0was an insistence that, yes, <em>all men DO talk like that<\/em>. Which makes it ok, which makes me an ignorant, hysterical female for expecting otherwise. Meanwhile, the men who commented in agreement or support of me were called:<\/p>\n<p><b>Pussies<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>not real men<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>gay<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Lapdogs<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> And, my favorite, <\/span><b>\u201cwhimps\u201d\u00a0<\/b>(Note: sexist trolls LOVE it when you correct their spelling or grammar. Try it sometime).<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m preaching to the choir here, but it needs to be said in the light of day: <em><strong>There is a big difference in being crude, in a locker room kind of way; and being predatory, in an \u201cI take what I want and bitches just roll over\u201d kind of way.<\/strong><\/em> Those who don\u2019t know where that line is, fall into the latter category; and lots of predator types outed themselves last night when they insisted, for all the world to see, that \u201call men\u201d talk like this.<\/p>\n<p>Truth is, the names I got called last night are no more than women bloggers, TV personalities and political leaders of higher profile get called on a daily basis. But it was a frightening glimpse into the underworld of men who support Trump, not in spite of his treatment of women\u2026but because of it.<\/p>\n<p>You can tell me that not all Trump supporters are like this, and I almost believe that. Folks have many reasons, however misguided they may seem, for supporting this monster of a man.<\/p>\n<p>But at this point, a vote for Trump, for any reason, is a step towards a dangerous normalizing of more than just casual \u201clocker room\u201d banter. It is an affirmation of rape culture, sexual assault, and the kind of male entitlement that, until a few decades ago, kept women from even having a voice in the election. Those days are not so long past. And it would not take much to put us back in those dark ages, Susan B. Anthony forgive us.<\/p>\n<p>Make no mistake\u2013there may be some other kinds of voices voting for Trump, but the men I heard from last night are his target demographic. The middle-of-the-night Tweeters, who know their discourse is not fit for daylight; the secretly terrified bullies who use big scary words (frequently misspelled) to make themselves feel powerful; and the predators who hide behind their computer screens by night, but make themselves known to us in a thousand other ways once they venture into the public sphere.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Just as the Trump campaign has normalized and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/irreverin\/2016\/03\/the-trump-rally-is-the-new-klan-rally\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">affirmed the kind of overt racism<\/a> that had previously been relegated to the darker corners of polite society, his public performance makes\u00a0it clear that overt sexism has never really left us\u2026it\u2019s just been wearing a nice suit. <\/span><\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last week, women\u2019s\u00a0health experts and other commentators detailed the\u00a0\u201cabusive behaviors\u201d exhibited in Trump\u2019s debate performance. 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