{"id":998,"date":"2012-03-20T22:12:10","date_gmt":"2012-03-20T22:12:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/irreverin.com\/?p=998"},"modified":"2013-02-10T11:00:15","modified_gmt":"2013-02-10T18:00:15","slug":"998","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/irreverin\/2012\/03\/998\/","title":{"rendered":"A Primer for New Life: Painting Over Pastels"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>I have waited years for this.<\/p>\n<p>When i came to Foothills\u2013nearly 6 years ago\u2013i looked around and saw some things that needed doing. And i saw some things that needed changing. Some of them were tangible, physical things\u2013like the purple and turquoise walls in the sanctuary, the aging carpet, and the website. Other areas of concern had to do with infrastructure\u2013the death-by-committee\u00a0organization that is killing so many mainline churches, and the hit-or-miss quality of worship (including the preaching. I was pretty green). And then, of course, there were matters of identity to be explored\u2013this church was full of faithful, gifted people who drove for miles and miles to be here on Sunday morning. This is\u00a0major urban sprawl territory, so the trouble was not the commmute itself.\u00a0Trouble was, the church\u2019s leaders\u00a0lived everywhere EXCEPT the neighborhood the church actually serves. They had a vague and generalized image of the surrounding area\u2013mostly generated by a demographics service\u2013but the communal relationship was loose and complicated.<\/p>\n<p>For the life of me, I didn\u2019t know where to start. Although, I do believe that the outmoded committee structure took care of itself. We simply didn\u2019t have enough people to fill the many roles required, so we scrapped it. We took a new approach, developing a creative, organic Ministry Table that better suited our gifts and our needs.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m pretty sure the purple and teal walls went earthtone at around the same time. You see, when there\u2019s no money in the\u00a0 bank for a major remodel, the quickest, cheapest, most visible thing you can do is slap on a coat of paint.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, i know that churches have split over less than the pastor choosing a new paint color <em>without a committee vote.<\/em> But\u00a0I didn\u2019t do it the minute I walked in the door. I waited\u00a0a year or so, while we got to know each other. I also did it while some other important stuff was happening.<\/p>\n<p>And you know, in hindsight, I realize that we have lived in this same rhythm of <em>physical and spiritual transformation<\/em> for nearly 6 years. Every time we make some fundamental change in mission or vision, the property comes along with it. Some of this has to do with money in the bank\u2013we take a step of faith, we grow, we have money to spend\u2026 it is a simple equation.<\/p>\n<p>But I\u2019d say it has even more to do with <em>outward signs of inward transformation<\/em>. Change\u2013when it is spirit-filled and discerning\u2013can generate new life of its own. When you let go of that which does not give you life, you find there is room for new stuff to enter. When you\u2019ve built up your worship leaders, called a gifted musician, given your preacher the grace to learn effective preaching\u2013well, then you want a new sign out front to tell the neighbors about the great worship life inside.<\/p>\n<p>When you let go of a mainline pattern that has become dysfunctional, you free up people and resources to do actual ministry.<\/p>\n<p>When you quit passing the old brass offering plates around as a part of worship, you want a nice, new, important-looking box at the entrance, to receive people\u2019s gifts of faith.<\/p>\n<p>When you find the courage to welcome people with a radical hospitality statement, then you want a new website that shouts it from the rooftop\u2013with attractive images, relevant language, and up-to-the-minute information.\u00a0 [I swear by all that is holy, we had more tension around the new website than we EVER had about the Open and Affirming statement. Mark my word, folks,\u00a0when it comes to generating conflict, church web design is the new carpet color. You heard it hear first.]<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019ve got money in the bank\u2013money that you can actually spend feeding hungry people and not just keeping the doors open\u2013 then by God, you want a new sound system so that you can sing happy songs about it on Sunday.\u00a0\u00a0Without static.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019ve added a second worship service, and start to expand your staff, then\u2013and this one is huge\u2013it is time to get rid of the 16-year-old carpet. Because ultimately, at\u00a0that point\u00a0the place is alive and breathing, and the house itself has to say so.\u00a0It\u2019s not so much that we CAN afford to do these things\u2026it\u2019s that, there comes a time when\u00a0we can no longer afford not to.<\/p>\n<p>None of these things came quickly, or easily. Nor did they come from me. Something moves and breathes in this desert place that is bigger than any of us. Are we becoming a mega-church? Not by a long shot, and no thank you. Are we ready to build a large, state-of-the-art, multi-purpose building that will house dynamic youth programming and a sports league? Nah. Is the preaching great every single Sunday? Haha.<\/p>\n<p>BUT\u2026if you let go of stuff you don\u2019t need, life happens.\u00a0Neighbors come. Walls get painted and cell phone towers get built and\u00a0good music comes bursting out at the seems. Hungry people get fed.<\/p>\n<p>The faithful people who held this place up through some lean wilderness years, are still faithful. But now they are joined by others, many of whom live and work and shop and send kids to school in this neighborhood.\u00a0We are still becoming.\u00a0\u00a0But when I hold this place up to the one I first knew, nearly 6 years ago, I have to catch my breath a little.\u00a0We waited 5 years to build a new website; to lead an Open and Affirming movement; to call another pastor to the staff; to grow a second worship service\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Now all of a sudden,\u00a0the new life\u00a0comes rolling in waves.\u00a0So with all these things coming to pass,\u00a0is it\u00a0possible that i am really\u00a0this excited about <em>tearing up the daggone floors!?\u00a0 <\/em>Yes! Because really, the updated, transformed, lovely and inviting worship space is going to embody all this, and more.<\/p>\n<p>I lovingly called the outgoing stuff \u201cugly 80s tile,\u201d and someone said, \u201cHow can it be 80\u2019s tile when it wasn\u2019t installed until 1996?\u201d I had already thought of that. I\u2019m way ahead of you. And here\u2019s the answer:<\/p>\n<p>It occurs to me that some things can be outmoded before they are even born.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/333\/2012\/03\/tile-day-1.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-2374\" title=\"tile-day-1\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/333\/2012\/03\/tile-day-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\"><\/a>Kind of like how Gaither music from the 70\u2019s still counts as contemporary worship music.<\/p>\n<p>We are blessed, in these seasons of life,\u00a0when the dingy tile is the least of our worries; when we know how to let go the things that don\u2019t matter, and make room for the\u00a0ones that\u00a0do.\u00a0When I first got here, some years ago, I wondered\u2026perhaps the faded carpet, the low-energy worship, the aging facilities, the fledgling committees and the scary-looking bank statements were a true reflection of the congregation\u2019s soul? Or\u00a0were those\u00a0 just symbols of a wilderness place that was ripe for transformation?<\/p>\n<p>Like I said\u2013as of today,\u00a0that faded\u00a0tile and carpet\u00a0are history. Thanks be to God for courageous congregations that know when to hold on, when to let go, and how to open the doors in the meantime.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230;it is time to get rid of the 16-year-old carpet. Because ultimately, at that point the place is alive and breathing, and the house itself has to say so. 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