{"id":132,"date":"2013-01-21T06:54:00","date_gmt":"2013-01-21T13:54:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/itsallinyourdreams\/?p=132"},"modified":"2013-01-21T00:59:10","modified_gmt":"2013-01-21T07:59:10","slug":"heros-dream-journey-stage-3-refusal-of-the-call","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/itsallinyourdreams\/2013\/01\/heros-dream-journey-stage-3-refusal-of-the-call\/","title":{"rendered":"Hero&#8217;s Dream Journey Stage 3: Refusal of the Call"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/240\/2013\/01\/blog3pic.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-133\" title=\"blog3pic\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/240\/2013\/01\/blog3pic-300x151.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"151\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Resistance is something every dreamer and every dream group experiences. We either address our reluctance unconsciously (i.e. with passive aggressive behavior or with plain ol\u2019 rebellion), or we can address it consciously. When you shine a spotlight on resistance\u2014just like with any good shadow\u2014it loses its power.<\/p>\n<p>Often the reason for the reluctance (or the out and out refusal) is simply because the call to adventure is inconvenient or in conflict with the ordinary person\u2019s agenda. Consider that the ordinary person has a mile-long list of demands for life, whereas a true hero asks only what life demands of them.<br>\nContemplate the following questions:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>In what ways do you resist dreamwork?<\/li>\n<li>Do you think you don\u2019t have enough time or energy to contemplate your dreams?<\/li>\n<li>Does your morning routine take you deeper in or further away from your dreamwork?<\/li>\n<li>Is there any part of you that may still believe dream work is superfluous, indulgent, or frivolous?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Whatever your resistance is, identify it, shine a light on it, and allow it to dissolve so that that you may move on to the next stage.<\/p>\n<p>***<br>\nIn this episode of weekly radio show, The D-Spot (Mondays at 11am PST on www.AwakeningZone.com), I discuss Stage 3 of the Hero\u2019s Dream Journey (The Refusal of the Call) in more depth.<br>\nhttp:\/\/www.kellysullivanwalden.com\/robert-hoss-2.html<br>\nStay tuned for next week where we explore The Hero\u2019s Dream Journey Stage Four: \u201cMeet the Mentor\u201d\u2026<br>\n****<br>\nKelly Sullivan Walden (a.k.a. Doctor Dream) is a certified clinical hypnotherapist, founder of Dream-Life Coach Training, and author of seven books, most notably the Amazon.com #1 bestselling, I Had the Strangest Dream and Discover Your Inner Goddess Queen. A sought after inspirational speaker, Kelly has spoken, by invitation, at the United Nations. Kelly hosts \u201cThe D-Spot\u201d weekly radio show where she explores Dreams, Desires, and Destiny. Kelly has appeared on over 1,000 media outlets including the Ricki Lake Show, and you can see her regularly as FOX news\u2019 Dream Expert. As the past President of Women\u2019s National Book Association (LA Chapter), Kelly has served as a United Nations NGO representative, which inspired her to create The Dream Project\u2014 an educational program that empowers young people to dream to solutions to world issues. Receive free dream gifts from Kelly by going to: www.KellySullivanWalden.com.<\/p>\n<p>****<\/p>\n<p>This blog has been excerpted from It\u2019s All In Your Dreams\u20265 Portals to an Awakened Life (Red Wheel-Weiser, Spring 2013).<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Resistance is something every dreamer and every dream group experiences. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1127,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[35],"tags":[9,10,8,26],"class_list":["post-132","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dreams-2","tag-doctor-dream","tag-dreams","tag-kelly-sullivan-walden","tag-strange-dreams"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.1 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Hero&#039;s Dream Journey Stage 3: Refusal of 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