{"id":16999,"date":"2020-05-08T12:00:03","date_gmt":"2020-05-08T18:00:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/janetheactuary\/?p=16999"},"modified":"2020-05-08T12:00:03","modified_gmt":"2020-05-08T18:00:03","slug":"what-do-we-do-when-coronavirus-lockdowns-destroy-our-community-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/janetheactuary\/2020\/05\/what-do-we-do-when-coronavirus-lockdowns-destroy-our-community-life.html","title":{"rendered":"What do we do when coronavirus lockdowns destroy our community life?"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><figure id=\"attachment_3299\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3299\" style=\"width: 1024px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-3299\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/533\/2015\/11\/FEMA_-_44431_-_Boy_scouts_Place_Flags_at_Tennesse_National_Memorial_Cemetery-1024x682.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-3299\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">By David Fine (This image is from the FEMA Photo Library.) [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons<\/figcaption><\/figure>If I had a nickel for every time I\u2019ve seen a pseudo-inspirational report of someone making face masks or collecting for a food pantry or sending letters of encouragement to first responders . . . well, to be honest, I\u2019m getting rather tired of them; you can keep the nickels.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s a tweet, like so many others, that came across my twitter feed just now:<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"500\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">the lockdown is the closest most americans now living have come in spirit to the collective sacrifices of \"the greatest generation.\" unsurprisingly, the people who venerate them most hated it<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Christopher Hooks (@cd_hooks) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/cd_hooks\/status\/1258803225752412161?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">May 8, 2020<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>Can you guess what word in this tweet sparked my ire?<\/p>\n<p>Yes, of course, \u201ccollective.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/knowyourmeme.com\/memes\/you-keep-using-that-word-i-do-not-think-it-means-what-you-think-it-means\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">You keep using that word, I do not think it means what you think it means.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Also,<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe\u2019re all in this together.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>No, we are not.<\/p>\n<p>What is so insidious about the pandemic lockdowns are that they are sapping our collectiveness, or togetherness.\u00a0 Zoom calls and social media cannot replace in-person coming-together \u2014 and I say that even though I am a massive introvert.<\/p>\n<p>Heck, we were treated to images of people in Italy forming communities by gathering on their balconies in streets narrow enough that one could reasonably greet a neighbor this way.<\/p>\n<p>In the U.S.?\u00a0 Nope!<\/p>\n<p>Here in the Chicago area, Catholic churches are locked even for private prayer, and Cardinal Cupich has banned even parking-lot masses; a week ago, the <a href=\"https:\/\/chicago.suntimes.com\/politics\/2020\/5\/1\/21244519\/catholic-masses-resume-chicago-archdiocese-covid19-pritzer-religion-church\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><em>Sun-Times<\/em><\/a> reported that the Archdiocese\u00a0 issued a statement (not available on the Archdiocese website):\u00a0 \u201cWe are engaged in planning for the resumption of Masses and other liturgies within the CDC guidance for 10-person attendance.\u201d\u00a0 But apparently there are too many committees and subcommittees or maybe the Cardinal has better things to do because nothing further has been released.\u00a0 But according to the governor\u2019s plan, it\u2019ll be, I\u2019m guessing, late summer before up-to-50 person gatherings are permitted, and far further into the future before everything is back to normal (a vaccine?\u00a0 a treatment? for the governor to let go of these expectations?) \u2014 and, to be honest, I don\u2019t know whether the Cardinal will allow parishes to craft intermediate solutions or place an all-or-nothing demand and then whine that people aren\u2019t mailing in their offerings like good sheep.<\/p>\n<p>But even before the pandemic, at the local level, well, I\u2019d been lamenting my struggles trying to get people to volunteer to help serve coffee &amp; donuts (hey \u2013 sliver lining \u2013 that will be called off for so long that we\u2019ll all forget it even existed) and my husband had been struggling to get parents to volunteer with Boy Scouts.\u00a0 Yesterday I had a further conversation with one of the leaders in Cub Scouts, who had tremendous difficulty recruiting for Cub Scouts, and that reminded me of my own prior observation that getting kids to come after school was easy enough, because parents looked at it as extra babysitting, but evening pack meetings were always supposed to be parent-and-child and somewhere along the way the parents started just dropping off their kids.\u00a0 What\u2019s more, in that conversation, I learned that a church\/school family that had been pretty involved was leaving the school for greener pastures of public schools \u2014 he didn\u2019t quite know the whole story and it seemed in part to be disputes with other families in a way that I really have no sense of.<\/p>\n<p>In other words, community spirit in America had already been hanging by a thread.\u00a0 (See <em>Alienated America<\/em>, the book, and my <a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/janetheactuary\/2019\/03\/secularism-and-community-a-few-words-on-alienated-america.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">blogpost about it<\/a>.)\u00a0 Will that thread be severed?<\/p>\n<p>And everyone complaining that we Americans are all just a bunch of whiners for complaining about not being able to socialize in the ways we\u2019re accustomed to?\u00a0 In addition to the fact that these people are indecently shrugging off real struggles with poverty that people are facing as a result of job loss, it is also a grave mistake to write off the community institutions which will vanish, as if they were of little importance.\u00a0 The \u201ccan-do\u201d spirit with which we defeated Germany 75 years ago today had much to do with the ability to bond together in community, whether literally in the \u201cband of brothers\u201d on the battlefield, or in all the ways in which Americans on the home front did so.\u00a0 Communities provide support, and the online version of such is a weak substitute.<\/p>\n<p>Thus endeth the rant.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If I had a nickel for every time I\u2019ve seen a pseudo-inspirational report of someone making face masks or collecting for a food pantry or sending letters of encouragement to first responders . . . well, to be honest, I\u2019m getting rather tired of them; you can keep the nickels. 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