The background: \u00a0Colin Collette, who had worked for Holy Family Church in Inverness as Music Director for 17 years, announced his engagement \u2014 to a man \u2014 on Facebook in 2014. \u00a0The reports at the time were that it was well-known that he was gay, and the parishioners were split between those who supported Collette and those who considered his situation to be a matter\u00a0of \u201cdon\u2019t ask, don\u2019t tell\u201d, as long as he kept his private life private. \u00a0(Left unsaid is that the Facebook announcement was a \u201cpublic\u201d announcement, not restricted to friends only, beyond any extent to which his Facebook friends list included Holy Family parishioners and associates.)<\/p>\n
Well, there\u2019s a new update: \u00a0Collette is suing the Archdiocese. \u00a0It\u2019s highly unlikely\u00a0that his suit will succeed, when the right of churches to uphold moral standards in its hiring has never been at risk legally, and a music director is surely presumed to have a \u201cministerial\u201d sort of role rather than just a neutral function like a janitor. \u00a0Holy Family, in particular, is known in the area for having a very contemporary style of music, and, from what I understand, intentionally was designed to be a Catholic alternative to the \u201cworship music\u201d at Willow Creek and similar Protestant churches, which means that the music selection and performance is an important part of the ministry there, and far more than an organist playing a prescribed list of songs.<\/p>\n
Colin Collette, who worked at Holy Family Catholic Community in Inverness for 17 years, said in the suit that the church violated the federal Civil Rights Act, the Illinois Human Rights Act and the Cook County Human Rights Ordinance when he was dismissed as music director in 2014.<\/p>\n
The church\u2019s \u201cdiscriminatory conduct was intentional, willful and wanton,\u201d the suit states. . . .<\/p>\n
Collette\u2019s suit, though, claims he was treated differently than other people \u2014 both homosexual and heterosexual \u2014 who are employed by churches within the archdiocese but have also entered into marriages that are not sanctioned by the church.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
Which seems to be making two claims: \u00a0first, that, in order to qualify for a \u201cministerial exemption,\u201d the archdiocese must consistenly apply the same rules across all churches, rather than individual parishes making decisions, and, second, that the Catholic church must apply its rules in what appears to outsiders to be a consistent manner across all types of sins, in order to qualify for the exemption. \u00a0With respect to the latter, it would seem that Collette is insisting that, to be fair and even-handed, a church must demand marriage certificates of all prospective employees, to identify any which were not performed in the Catholic church \u2014 which is moving from something that\u2019s clearly visible (a gay marriage announced on Facebook) to something that would be entirely hidden from the congregation, barring rumors and gossip.\u00a0 Would Collette go further and\u00a0demand that, in the interest of fairness, the church has no business objecting to a gay-married employee unless they also check the NFP charts of their married employees or spouses of employees, to confirm they\u2019re following church teaching on contraception?<\/p>\n
There is such a concept as \u201ccausing scandal\u201d \u2014 that is, sinning in such a way as to be visible and public about it, or even not sinning, but giving the community the impression that you are. \u00a0And this does matter.<\/p>\n
(Clarification: \u00a0I don\u2019t mean \u201cscandal\u201d in the sense of Making the Church Look Bad, but more in the sense of Setting a Bad Example for those around you.)<\/p>\n
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