{"id":6349,"date":"2017-04-03T07:36:16","date_gmt":"2017-04-03T13:36:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/janetheactuary\/?p=6349"},"modified":"2017-04-02T21:35:25","modified_gmt":"2017-04-03T03:35:25","slug":"latest-family-history-non-discoveries","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/janetheactuary\/2017\/04\/latest-family-history-non-discoveries.html","title":{"rendered":"My latest family history (non-)discoveries"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-5277\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/533\/2016\/09\/Ellis_island_1902.jpg\" alt=\"https:\/\/commons.wikimedia.org\/wiki\/File%3AEllis_island_1902.jpg; See page for author [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons\" width=\"551\" height=\"374\"><\/p>\n<p>Not long ago, I wrote about my discovery that the answer to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/janetheactuary\/2017\/02\/next-family-history-destination-zion-lutheran-church.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">all our family questions<\/a> was seemingly waiting to be uncovered at the St. Louis County Public Library genealogy department.<\/p>\n<p>And, over the weekend, as a small trip during the kids\u2019 spring break, we drove down to St. Louis, and spent some time looking at microfilm, to find . . .<\/p>\n<p>nothing.<\/p>\n<p>No evidence of church membership, baptisms, confirmations, or marriages, at what was supposedly the family church for generations.<\/p>\n<p>All we found were gravestones, at a visit later on to the family cemetery, Friedens Cemetery.<\/p>\n<p>So on the drive back (and, to answer your question, no, we didn\u2019t just look at the microfilm and come back; we had a proper tourist visit), we brainstormed.<\/p>\n<p>What we knew was this:<\/p>\n<p>Emile Schwartz married Wilhelm Wittkoetter in 1885, promptly gave birth to two daughters, and he died two years later, before the second child was even born.<\/p>\n<p>She then married Edward Debush, had 4 more daughters, two of whom died as infants, and then he himself died in 1897.<\/p>\n<p>One of those daughters, Amelia, then married Richard Stapleton, gave birth to a son who died in infancy in 1910, and a daughter, my grandmother, in 1913. \u00a0Then Richard died in 1917. \u00a0She eventually remarried, to Oscar Kostedt, gave birth to another died-in-infancy child and two more children who lived to old age.<\/p>\n<p>In the cemetery we found graves for, in one section:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>My grandmother and grandfather<\/li>\n<li>her father Richard Stapleton<\/li>\n<li>and her mother Amelia Kostedt.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>In another section we found<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Annie Debush, one of Emile\u2019s daughters, who survived infancy but died in 1906 at the age of 19.<\/li>\n<li>Emile herself, who died in 1908.<\/li>\n<li>And the baby Richard Stapleton, who died in 1910.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>But what about the earlier deaths \u2014 that of Wilhelm Wittkoetter, and Edward Debush and the two babies?<\/p>\n<p>Turns out, for Wilhelm there\u2019s only a death listing online, but for the Debushes there are death certificates, which list their place of burial, and this is not the Lutheran cemetery at all, but the Catholic cemetery Holy Trinity. \u00a0And this isn\u2019t just any Catholic cemetery, but is described at findagrave.com as a cemetery for the poor.<\/p>\n<p>Oh, and Holy Trinity is, or was (it seems to have been paved over and is now either a parking lot or the interstate) the cemetery in the Holy Trinity (now Most Holy Trinity) parish boundaries, and every address that Amelia, William, and Edward are listed as having lived at (according to census records, death certificates, and city directories) is in the very immediate vicinity of this church.<\/p>\n<p>So our new operating assumption is that she was Catholic, not Lutheran, during the 1880s and 1890s.<\/p>\n<p>Why, then, are the members of the family who died in the 1900s, buried in the Lutheran cemetery?<\/p>\n<p>Our only guess \u2014 and it really is just a guess \u2014 is that some benefactor came along, who provided financial assistance but also prodded the family, or Amelia at least, to become Lutheran. \u00a0We know that Lillie, another sister, was employed as a servant in 1910, and this was\u00a0a common occupation for young women at the time.<\/p>\n<p>So now we need to go back to St. Louis again, and look at the <em>Catholic<\/em> parish records!<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Image: \u00a0https:\/\/commons.wikimedia.org\/wiki\/File%3AEllis_island_1902.jpg; 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