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(An illustration of St. Mark from the 9th-century, Carolingian Ebbo Gospels. Source: Wikimedia, Creative Commons License).<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/p>

As readers of my blog may know, I am a person prone to anxiety, even depression\u2014not for any fault of mind or character, but from depth of feeling. Perhaps it\u2019s a congenital condition, half-curse and half-blessing, some of us can\u2019t help but find aching within. Perhaps it\u2019s a product of life and experiences\u2014early deaths, illnesses, and a concomitant stirring, an inability to be comfortable with a happy middle-class life. Most likely it\u2019s a bit of both.<\/p>\n

Regardless, this capacity to experience often feels isolating, a barrier between myself, my thoughts and feelings, and the abyss of another\u2019s mind and body. Isolation is debilitating. It\u2019s a loneliness at once glutted with pride, disdainful of difference, and damp with a self-critical pity.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s in this state\u2014after a few weeks of paper writings as well as artistic and personal disappointment\u2014that I began reading Dorothy Day\u2019s autobiography, The Long Loneliness<\/a><\/em>. And what an apt title it is! My edition contains a preface. This drew me in\u2014a lovely tribute, a hymn, to Day, by none other than Daniel Berrigan, S.J.<\/p>\n

As many know, Fr. Berrigan died recently<\/a>. His testament is written in a mixture of Beat prose, anti-Vietnam sloganeering, and Catholic sensibility (if Catholics may be said to have sense). For what it lacks in the overt piety of that ancient Christian\u2019s afterword to the Passion of Saints Perpetua and Felicity<\/a><\/em>, it makes up for in the raw zeal of Christianity after Christendom. Midway through, Berrigan quotes Day:<\/p>\n

Going around and seeing such sights is not enough. To help the organizers, to give what you have for relief, to pledge yourself to voluntary poverty for life so that you can share with your brothers is not enough. One must live with them, share with them their sufferings too. Give up one\u2019s privacy, and mental and spiritual comforts as well as\u00a0physical [\u2026] Yes, we have lived with the poor, with the workers, and we know them not just from the streets, or in mass meetings, but from years of living in the slums, in tenements, in our hospices [\u2026]<\/p>\n

We have lived with the unemployed, the sick, the unemployables [\u2026] Going to the people is the purest and best act in Christian tradition and is the beginning of world brotherhood.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

I wept over these words. I felt a sense of immense peace in reading them time and again.<\/p>\n

Why? When a man feels alone, depressed, or otherwise without the comfort of any, save a few friends, love is hard. Love presents itself as an impossible gambit. When a man feels deeply and can\u2019t help but express that profundity of experience, attempting to communicate it only reopens his wounds. His audience remains silent\u2014either because sincerely and absolutely other in temperament or because plunged in thought and sparing with words. Day felt it. Her long loneliness sublimated, an Augustinian longing. Well-read, even erudite, but not scholarly, Day found her faith in the experience of love. If the theologians had made Christianity a thought experiment, she was determined to prove their hypothesis, transforming it in the process.<\/p>\n

What Day seemed to say was \u2018take the leap.\u2019 \u2018Fear not.\u2019 \u2018Worry not.\u2019 \u2018The ache remains as long the self does.\u2019 She loved both the Gospels and the Pslams. She loved our Lord.<\/p>\n

Yet her expression goes beyond her words; these are merely the skeleton for an aching love. To read her autobiography is to participate in tradition, to feel the pulse of Catholic life as it passes from generation to generation, pilgrimming in a world filled with hate, violence, and\u2014worst of all\u2014the insidious indifference of Christians. To read Day (and to read Berrigan on Day) is a pleasure of Christian love. It is a reminder that the world goes on, that we go on, trying to love in spite of it all. Day\u2019s lonely cry resonates in my heart and ears. She and I (and certainly Fr. Berrigan) are not the same. Each of us feels and felt intensely, though differently. Day brimming with anger in the slums of interwar New York, trafficking with Wobblies\u2014the product of a loving, if bourgeois, home. Berrigan the priest, brother to an ex-priest\u2014draft card burner, sneaking onto military bases to dent warheads. And I\u2014the confused graduate student\u2014happy in any worldly sense but not content, from a background equal parts folksy and Reaganite.<\/p>\n

And yet, each of us is a Christian, a participant in a tradition two millennia old, each of us infinitely different, but united by depth of feeling and the desire to have the courage to love.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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