{"id":221,"date":"2014-03-08T13:53:09","date_gmt":"2014-03-08T18:53:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/jenniferfitz\/?p=221"},"modified":"2015-08-25T21:09:14","modified_gmt":"2015-08-26T02:09:14","slug":"sundays-101-giving-up-the-work-habit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/jenniferfitz\/2014\/03\/sundays-101-giving-up-the-work-habit\/","title":{"rendered":"Sundays 101: Giving Up the Work Habit"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><figure style=\"width: 291px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/commons.wikimedia.org\/wiki\/File%3AHealWomanSabbath.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" \" title=\"By History2007 at en.wikipedia [Public domain], from Wikimedia Commons\" src=\"https:\/\/upload.wikimedia.org\/wikipedia\/commons\/a\/a5\/HealWomanSabbath.jpg\" alt=\"Christ heals a women on the Sabbath\" width=\"291\" height=\"384\"><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">By History2007 at en.wikipedia [Public domain], from Wikimedia Commons<\/figcaption><\/figure>Let\u2019s talk impossible penances. From <a href=\"http:\/\/usccb.org\/bible\/readings\/030814.cfm\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\">this morning\u2019s readings<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>If you hold back your foot on the sabbath from following your own pursuits on my holy day; if you call the sabbath a delight, and the LORD\u2019s holy day honorable; if you honor it by not following your ways, seeking your own interests, or speaking with malice, then you shall delight in the LORD . . .<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>And now for a quick <a href=\"http:\/\/www.vatican.va\/archive\/ENG0015\/__P7N.HTM\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\">peek at the Catechism<\/a> before anyone starts in with the, \u201cBut that was the old law! Catholics don\u2019t have to do that!\u201d:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>2172 God\u2019s action is the model for human action. If God \u201crested and was refreshed\u201d on the seventh day, man too ought to \u201crest\u201d and should let others, especially the poor, \u201cbe refreshed.\u201d<span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;\"><sup>96<\/sup><\/span> The sabbath brings everyday work to a halt and provides a respite. It is a day of protest against the servitude of work and the worship of money.<span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;\"><sup>97<\/sup><\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>And another one:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>2185 On Sundays and other holy days of obligation, the faithful are to refrain from engaging in work or activities that hinder the worship owed to God, the joy proper to the Lord\u2019s Day, the performance of the works of mercy, and the appropriate relaxation of mind and body.<span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;\"><sup>123<\/sup><\/span> Family needs or important social service can legitimately excuse from the obligation of Sunday rest. The faithful should see to it that legitimate excuses do not lead to habits prejudicial to religion, family life, and health.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>The discussion of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.vatican.va\/archive\/ENG0015\/__P7O.HTM\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\">what makes up a reasonable Sunday is somewhat nuanced, so read the whole thing<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>Bad Arguments Against Sunday Rest<\/h2>\n<p>All that nuance, combined with the real demands of our vocations even on Sundays, combined with a persistent desire to do whatever we feel like, can lead to some extraordinarily weak reasoning:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Jesus healed people on the Sabbath, so that means I should go to the mall.<\/li>\n<li>My grandmother slaved away all day to cook Sunday dinner.\u00a0 Therefore I have a moral obligation to eat out every Sunday after Mass.<\/li>\n<li>Hospitals and pharmacies have to be open on Sundays, and Our Lord turned water into wine, therefore the liquor store . . .<\/li>\n<li>Mowing the lawn is my hobby.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>That last one is admissible for about three people.\u00a0 Everyone else, we aren\u2019t fooled and you\u2019ve just violated <a href=\"http:\/\/www.vatican.va\/archive\/ENG0015\/__P8H.HTM\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\">another commandment<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Why the bad arguments? Because observing Sunday as a day of rest and worship is completely <a href=\"http:\/\/www.autoguide.com\/auto-news\/2014\/02\/cadillac-elr-ad-sticks-europe.html\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\">contrary to our cultural values<\/a>.\u00a0 The idea of not using Sundays to catch up on chores and errands is utterly foreign.\u00a0 Hasn\u2019t Sunday been set aside as the sacred day when we can work and shop undisturbed?<\/p>\n<h2>Planning.\u00a0 It always comes back to planning.<\/h2>\n<p>The other argument, the almost-persuasive one, is the, \u201cBut it\u2019s impossible!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It is not impossible, especially in light of the very grounded and vocation-respecting teaching of the Church.\u00a0 It does, however, require changing your life.\u00a0 Having made the change, however imperfectly and inconsistently, here is what we found was necessary:<\/p>\n<p><strong>1. Decide it\u2019s important<\/strong>. As long as you are persuaded this is one of those bonus-teachings, it will forever be your hair shirt.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2<\/strong>. <strong>Figure out what \u2018work\u2019 is.<\/strong>\u00a0 Take birthday parties, for example.\u00a0 Sometimes they are relaxing and restful, the perfect way to enjoy a Sunday afternoon with a few friends.\u00a0 Other times not.\u00a0 Just not.\u00a0 Exercise is the same way: Is it rest and relaxation? It all depends.\u00a0 You have to start thinking about what is true leisure and what is laborious, and ordering your life so that the labor happens Monday \u2013 Saturday, and the leisure gets pride of place on Sundays.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. Remember you aren\u2019t the center of the universe.<\/strong> The Lord hears the cry of the minimum wage earner.\u00a0 If it\u2019s relaxing for you but laborious for someone else, you\u2019d better have a really good reason for wrecking someone\u2019s Sunday.\u00a0 There are good reasons.\u00a0 There are mitigating circumstances.\u00a0 \u201cBecause I feel like it,\u201d however, is not in itself sufficient reason to rouse the servants from their day of rest.\u00a0 If your hobby is \u2018going shopping\u2019, I\u2019m going to gently suggest you investigate other hobbies.<\/p>\n<p><strong>4. Do more work on Saturdays<\/strong>.\u00a0 (And all the other days of the week.) If you are going to take Sundays off, you\u2019ll either have to do less work overall, or move your Sunday work to a different day.\u00a0 Some of this you can pull off by a simple schedule-change: Invite the friends over for beer and snacks on Sunday afternoon instead of Saturday afternoon.\u00a0 Some of it, though, is going to make Saturday a little busier.\u00a0 Think <a href=\"http:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Exodus%2016&amp;version=NRSVCE\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\">manna in the desert<\/a> \u2013 you\u2019ve got to prep ahead if you want Sunday off.<\/p>\n<h2>Is it really that hard?<\/h2>\n<p>It all depends.\u00a0 What\u2019s your life like?\u00a0 What are the social pressures you have to navigate?\u00a0 How much control of your life do you really have?\u00a0 If you can pretty much do what you like on the weekend, taking Sundays off is a piece of cake.\u00a0 No problem.\u00a0 Reorganize a little, develop some new habits, and before you know it, it will be second nature.<\/p>\n<p>If your pushy friends and relatives are sure you\u2019re a self-righteous prick for wanting to have lunch at home after Mass, that ugliness is going to come to the forefront one way or the other.\u00a0 Maybe it\u2019ll blow over in one quick thunderstorm, or maybe someone will smolder with hate because you have the audacity to not want to go to the mall, again, week after insufferable week.<\/p>\n<p>If you have to feed your family, or you have to be home from the trip by Monday but can\u2019t leave until after Saturday . . . things happen.\u00a0 Keep working on it.\u00a0 Just because you can\u2019t have your Sunday quite how it should be doesn\u2019t mean you throw out the whole notion of the Lord\u2019s Day.\u00a0 Be discerning: Don\u2019t scruple over legitimate vocational demands; forgive yourself and try again when it\u2019s really just your own fault.<\/p>\n<p>Fridays no meat, Sundays no work . . . there\u2019s a rhythm to it.\u00a0 It\u2019s like we\u2019re not robots.\u00a0 It\u2019s like maybe we were made to live this way.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let\u2019s talk impossible penances. 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