{"id":3109,"date":"2015-03-16T09:24:15","date_gmt":"2015-03-16T14:24:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/jenniferfitz\/?p=3109"},"modified":"2015-03-16T09:24:15","modified_gmt":"2015-03-16T14:24:15","slug":"may-you-skip-your-penance-on-st-patricks-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/jenniferfitz\/2015\/03\/may-you-skip-your-penance-on-st-patricks-day\/","title":{"rendered":"May You Skip Your Penance on St. Patrick&#8217;s Day?"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>I have an irrational aversion to dressing matchy-matchy with the liturgical calendar, which backfired Sunday. \u00a0 I started to grab the pink sweater \u2014 nope, that won\u2019t do on Laetare Sunday. \u00a0Blue sweater. \u00a0What scarf? Purple scarves rejected, grabbed the green-print one, thought myself perfectly safe. \u00a0Not so. Apparently the Sunday before St. Patrick\u2019s day is when the die hard enthusiasts sport their green suits. \u00a0But I was okay with that, because: St. Patrick.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s just nothing wrong with accidentally being mistaken for someone who has a crush on St. Patrick.<\/p>\n<p>Meanwhile, this question came up in conversation a couple weeks ago: <strong>Can you be excused from your Lenten penance on St. Patrick\u2019s Day?<\/strong> \u00a0What with it being a feast and all?<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s my answer:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"color: #141823;\">\u00a0There\u2019s no obligation to fast or abstain on Tuesdays in Lent. What personal penances you do or don\u2019t do that day is your own business.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>And that\u2019s the way it works. \u00a0All the time. \u00a0Here\u2019s the calendar of obligations for you who live in the US:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Fridays that aren\u2019t <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Solemnity\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\">Solemnities<\/a>: Abstain from meat or do an alternate penance.<\/li>\n<li>Fridays within Lent: Abstain from meat.<\/li>\n<li>Good Friday and Ash Wednesday: Fast and abstain from meat.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>If you want to know whether it\u2019s a Solemnity, <a href=\"http:\/\/usccb.org\/calendar\/index.cfm?showLit=1&amp;action=month\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\">check the calendar at the USCCB\u2019s website<\/a>.<\/strong> \u00a0 A quick look tells us that March 19th (St. Joseph) and March 25th (Annunciation) are both shiny-white Solemnity days. \u00a0Since they don\u2019t fall on a Friday, they don\u2019t affect your obligations.<\/p>\n<p>\u2013&gt; FYI, since it\u2019s not explicitly marked on the USCCB\u2019s calendar at this writing, the Monday \u2013 Saturday following Easter Sunday are also Solemnities. \u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.ewtn.com\/library\/CURIA\/CDWLITYR.HTM\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\">You can read the fine print at EWTN to confirm<\/a>. \u00a0Even <a href=\"http:\/\/wdtprs.com\/blog\/2009\/04\/quaeritur-abstinence-on-easter-friday\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\">Father Z. admits<\/a> you could indeed have bacon that one Friday. \u00a0 \u00a0But let\u2019s not get ahead of ourselves, we\u2019re still being Lenten just now.<\/p>\n<h3>Does Frank <a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/yimcatholic\/2015\/02\/3-weird-things-im-doing-on-top-of-my-secret-lenten-penance-this-year.html\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\">Have to Drink His IPA<\/a>?<\/h3>\n<p>Doing penance is important. \u00a0It\u2019s important for the good of your soul, and it\u2019s important for the good of the whole world, seen and unseen.<\/p>\n<p>That said, if you\u2019ve ever met someone who\u2019s obsessive about following a particular book of diet advice, you know what it is to suffer through a meal. \u00a0<em>Oh, that\u2019s wonderful, you added almonds to your salad! Gosh, I\u2019d love to have that quiche, but I\u2019ve already eaten my egg for today. \u00a0I\u2019m allowed to have this slice of cake because it\u2019s part of my . . .<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Gets old. \u00a0Not because there\u2019s anything wrong with trying to eat well \u2014 quite the contrary. \u00a0But as a general rule, people will ask you if they want your advice on what to eat. \u00a0One reaches a certain age (children disagree with their parents on what this age is) and one must take charge, be one\u2019s own man, and decide for oneself whether to have grapes or grapefruit, or the beverages reminiscent thereof.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s okay to discuss your diet with people who are interested. It\u2019s okay to ask your friends for spiritual advice, or even better your spiritual director. \u00a0Obviously I don\u2019t think these things are forbidden topics or I wouldn\u2019t waste perfectly good bandwidth on what could be devoted to the internet\u2019s true purpose, <a href=\"https:\/\/drboli.wordpress.com\/2011\/03\/06\/ask-dr-boli-105\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\">propagating cat<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/drboli.wordpress.com\/2012\/05\/30\/dire-predictions-13-2\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\">photos<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>But the Church leaves us wide latitude in choosing the details of our personal penances specifically because they are\u00a0<em>personal.<\/em> \u00a0Your obligation is to cooperate with the grace of God in forming yourself into a more perfect Christian. \u00a0You\u2019ll naturally do penance as part of that formation process. \u00a0You\u2019ll naturally take advantage of Lent to be particularly penitential. \u00a0But within the broad bounds of morality and decency, how you observe your favorite feast days is between you and God.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/upload.wikimedia.org\/wikipedia\/commons\/9\/91\/Nuremberg_chronicles_f_145v_4.jpg\" alt=\"File:Nuremberg chronicles f 145v 4.jpg\"><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><strong>Related: \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Last Friday\u2019s Gospel was on the Great Commandment: <em>Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength<\/em>. \u00a0If you\u2019re looking for a free, self-paced retreat for personal discernment on that topic, <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/jenniferfitz\/publications\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\">check out my publications page for the\u00a0<em>Lord You Know I Love You\u00a0<\/em>retreat. \u00a0It\u2019s good. \u00a0And it\u2019s free.<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/catholicmom.com\/2015\/03\/16\/daily-gospel-reflection-for-march-16-2015\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\">Today at CatholicMom.com, I\u2019m writing about trust in God<\/a><\/strong>. That\u2019s about as good a topic as you could hope for on the vigil of St. Patrick\u2019s day. \u00a0You can get <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/o\/ASIN\/B00PMK5W2O\/catholicmom\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\">the whole year\u2019s set of reflections here<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><em>Artwork: Michel Wolgemut, Wilhelm Pleydenwurff (Text: Hartmann Schedel) (scan from original book) [Public domain], <a href=\"http:\/\/commons.wikimedia.org\/wiki\/File%3ANuremberg_chronicles_f_145v_4.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">via Wikimedia Commons<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have an irrational aversion to dressing matchy-matchy with the liturgical calendar, which backfired Sunday. \u00a0 I started to grab the pink sweater \u2014 nope, that won\u2019t do on Laetare Sunday. \u00a0Blue sweater. \u00a0What scarf? 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