My afternoon with Dr. Borland [theology prof at Liberty University] was very enjoyable. He took me [a withdrawing gay student] on a tour of his house, showed me his enormous collection of antique books, and took me outside to chop some firewood. We had tea together, and discussed some theological concepts from class, like predestination and the difference between eternity and timelessness. When his wife came in, he introduced me to her, and then apologized to me for what he was about to do, which was grab her and kiss her on the mouth for about seven seconds.<\/p>\n
When I told Dr. Borland that I had to leave, he got up from his rocking chair and came over to me. We were both standing face to face, and I was now scared shitless. His brow furrowed a little bit, and I assumed he was going to tell me he was disappointed with my decision to drop out and come out.<\/p>\n
\u201cWell,\u201d he said, and then he thought some more. He took one step closer to me, and cleared his throat before continuing. \u201cI got your email, Brandon.\u201d<\/p>\n
He paused again, as he searched my face for who knows what.<\/p>\n
He spoke again, this time quieter than before. \u201cI just wanted to let you know that you\u2019re my friend and I love you.\u201d And with that, he nodded his head and then gave me a bear hug, before walking me to the driveway and telling me to make it home safely.<\/p>\n
I climbed into my car almost in slow-motion. I was shocked. I was expecting Dr. Borland to act differently towards me. I was expecting him to be\u2026 well, a homophobe. But as I put on my seatbelt, I realized that all that time, I was the one who was afraid. Not him. I\u2019d been warned my whole life about homophobia, but no one ever said anything about homophobiaphobia<\/em>.<\/p>\nI put my car in reverse and backed out of his driveway, still watching as he smiled and waved. I thought about the story of the whore, about her walking away from Jesus. How did the two of them part ways? Did he smile at her? Did she smile back? Or did she possibly distrust his smile and run? If I were her, I would have just stood there speechlessly, staring in astonishment at the empty hands of the bearded Rabbi who\u2019d just gone against an entire religious community and tradition for my sake.<\/p>\n
As I pulled out of Dr. Borland\u2019s driveway, I glanced back at him one more time. He was still there waving to me, this time with both hands. And as I made a left onto a winding country road, I looked down at the gravel path under his feet, and saw the only stones that had come my way.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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