{"id":45034,"date":"2013-11-10T09:24:43","date_gmt":"2013-11-10T15:24:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/jesuscreed\/?p=45034"},"modified":"2013-11-06T18:26:37","modified_gmt":"2013-11-07T00:26:37","slug":"anns-wisdom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/jesuscreed\/2013\/11\/10\/anns-wisdom\/","title":{"rendered":"Ann&#8217;s Wisdom"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>From <a href=\"http:\/\/www.aholyexperience.com\/2013\/11\/how-the-hidden-dangers-of-comparison-are-killing-us-and-our-daughters-the-measuring-stick-principle\/?utm_source=feedburner&amp;utm_medium=feed&amp;utm_campaign=Feed%3A+HolyExperience+%28Holy+Experience%29\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><strong>Ann Voskamp<\/strong><\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cThere will always be people who see everything in the world as a measuring stick of their worthiness, instead of as a burning bush of God\u2019s gloriousness.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If your life looks like a mess \u2013\u00a0<em>to them<\/em>\u00a0\u2014 they whip out a measuring stick and feel confident of their own worthiness<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If your life looks like a monument \u2013\u00a0<em>to them<\/em>\u00a0\u2014 they whip out a measuring stick \u2013 and start cutting for their own empowerment<\/strong>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She leans over and I want to gather her close. I rub her back in these slow circles.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe thing is, Hon?,\u201d I knead out a tight knot in her shoulder, loosening the muscles.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe world isn\u2019t a forest of measuring sticks. The world is forest of burning bushes.\u00a0<strong>Everything isn\u2019t a marker to make you\u00a0<em>feel<\/em>\u00a0behind or ahead; everything is a flame to make you\u00a0<em>see\u00a0<\/em>GOD is here<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>That God is working through this person\u2019s life, that God is redeeming that person\u2019s life, that God is igniting this work, that God is present here in this mess, that God is using even this.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Hope lays her head on my shoulder.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cKnow what, Hon?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Walk through life with a measuring stick \u2013 and your eyes get so small you never see God.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She nods. And then whispers: \u201cWhy does anybody compare at all? Why do we do it \u2013 why do\u00a0<em>I<\/em>\u00a0do it?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She exhales this sigh like she\u2019s trying to relieves the swelling in her soul.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOh girl \u2014 \u201d I want to make this all go away for her. \u201cRemember when you guys were little? And I\u2019d have a couple measuring sticks out when I was piecing together a quilt? What would you guys would do with the measuring sticks?<\/p>\n<p>She says it slow, laying back on the bed. \u2014 \u201cUse them as swords?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Exactly.\u00a0<strong>Measuring sticks always become weapons<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>I want to tell her, and every woman browsing through a fashion magazine, standing on a scale, scrolling through Pinterest, clicking through blogs, looking in a mirror:\u00a0<strong>Every yardstick always becomes a billystick<\/strong>\u2026.<\/p>\n<p>I whisper it to her like a heart\u2019s battle cry, like it could rally a generation of daughters and women and sisters:<\/p>\n<p>Girls rival each other. Women\u00a0<em>revive<\/em>\u00a0each other.<br>\nGirls<a href=\"http:\/\/www.thefreedictionary.com\/empale\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\">\u00a0empale<\/a>\u00a0each other. Women\u00a0<em>empower<\/em>\u00a0each other.<br>\nGirls compare each other. Women\u00a0<em>champion<\/em>\u00a0each other.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>From Ann Voskamp: \u201cThere will always be people who see everything in the world as a measuring stick of their worthiness, instead of as a burning bush of God\u2019s gloriousness. If your life looks like a mess \u2013\u00a0to them\u00a0\u2014 they whip out a measuring stick and feel confident of their own worthiness. 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