{"id":2685,"date":"2014-08-07T17:22:14","date_gmt":"2014-08-07T23:22:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/johnbeckett\/?p=2685"},"modified":"2014-08-07T17:27:05","modified_gmt":"2014-08-07T23:27:05","slug":"nurturing-polytheism","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/johnbeckett\/2014\/08\/nurturing-polytheism.html","title":{"rendered":"Nurturing Polytheism"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/243\/2014\/07\/Danu-by-Tesa.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-2650\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/243\/2014\/07\/Danu-by-Tesa-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"Danu by Tesa\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\"><\/a>The response to the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/johnbeckett\/2014\/07\/portrait-of-danu.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">Portrait of Danu<\/a> was overwhelmingly positive, even if the volume wasn\u2019t what it is when I write on controversial topics. Friends and other commenters thought the painting was beautiful \u2013 I obviously agree.<\/p>\n<p>But in a private comment, a very knowledgeable Pagan friend (who wishes to remain anonymous) said:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Thanks for the post on Danu today. it\u2019s nice to see advocacy of devotion to a Mother Goddess from a polytheist perspective. Sometimes it seems like the nurturing Goddesses and Gods are largely ignored in polytheist-identified circles.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I hadn\u2019t thought about that, but my friend is right. A quick, informal survey of devotional polytheist blogs, books, and social media conversations shows a focus on deities of sovereignty, of transformation, of inspiration, of crafts, and of battle. Mother Goddesses and other nurturing deities? It wouldn\u2019t be accurate to say They\u2019re absent, but They\u2019re certainly in the minority.<\/p>\n<p>Why is that, and what does it mean?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Aggressive Gods are more aggressive<\/strong>. If we accept the basic polytheistic concept that Gods are independent beings with goals, desires, and personalities of Their own, then it stands to reason that Gods with more aggressive personalities would be more active in calling priests and other devotees. Nurturing deities are worshipped less because They\u2019ve called fewer worshippers.<\/p>\n<p>Until someone figures out a way to survey Olympus and its many equivalents in other pantheons we have no way of knowing whether this is true or not, but it\u2019s a reasonable projection.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/243\/2014\/08\/Isis-06.15.14.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-2686\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/243\/2014\/08\/Isis-06.15.14-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"Isis 06.15.14\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\"><\/a>There aren\u2019t that many nurturing deities<\/strong>. I\u2019m reminded of the meme I see going around Facebook with some regularity: \u201cJesus loves you \u2013 Odin wants you to grow up.\u201d Read the stories of the Old Gods \u2013 how many Great Mothers and Devoted Fathers do you see? There\u2019s Isis, for sure. And probably Demeter. I see Danu as a nurturing Mother Goddess, but there are no stories of Her, so it\u2019s hard to say.<\/p>\n<p>The ancient world was a much more harsh place than the 21<sup>st<\/sup> century West. Perhaps our ancestors needed more nurturing deities, but what they wanted was victory over enemies, good hunts and harvests, wisdom, love, and a successful family to continue their names after they were gone. Nurturing adults wasn\u2019t high on their list of priorities and that\u2019s reflected in the Gods they worshipped.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The Gods are complex beings<\/strong>. We tend to put Gods into nice little boxes that explain who They are and what They do in just a few words. But how well can <em>you<\/em> be described in just a few words? How much more complex are Gods who are older, wiser, and more powerful than humans?<\/p>\n<p>While there aren\u2019t a lot of purely nurturing deities, many deities can be a loving mentor or caregiver\u2026 at least when They see fit to do so. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/johnbeckett\/2014\/06\/cernunnos.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">Cernunnos<\/a> is a Wild God who has shown me what it means to be strong and free, but I have experienced Him as a nurturing God as well. When I think of His role (one of His roles, not His complete identity) as God of the Forest and Lord of the Animals I can\u2019t imagine how He could <em>not<\/em> be a nurturing God. If you love these places and the creatures who live in them, you want to nurture and protect them.<\/p>\n<p>Some people take this too far. I\u2019ve seen a Facebook group recently that worships Morrigan as a nurturing Mother Goddess. Morrigan is a very complex deity, but nothing I\u2019ve read or experienced has given me any indication nurturing is part of who She is\u2026 unless you consider guiding souls of the dead to the Otherworld to be nurturing.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Those who seek nurturing Goddesses and Gods may never make it to devotional polytheism<\/strong>. I want to be careful not to imply that devotional polytheism is at the top of some hierarchy of theological models or that monotheism to duotheism to soft polytheism to hard polytheism is a natural progression from less-right to more-right. That was my experience, though, and given how entrenched monotheism is in our wider culture I think it\u2019s a common experience.<\/p>\n<p>Those who most value nurturing may find what they\u2019re looking for in the Triple Goddess of Wicca or in a generic Great Mother. That many devotional polytheists find that view inadequate isn\u2019t the point \u2013 the point is that many people who would \u201cadvocate devotion to a Mother Goddess from a polytheist perspective\u201d simply never become polytheists.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Some of us desire aggressive Gods<\/strong>. I\u2019m reluctant to expand on this because I haven\u2019t given it much thought in my own life. Cernunnos has always been near me. Danu presented Herself to me at a time when I needed Her connection to Life. I approached <a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/johnbeckett\/2012\/07\/the-call-of-the-morrigan.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">Morrigan<\/a> because I needed Her assistance \u2013 She later approached me to pay my debts. I understand the concept of of approaching a warrior deity because you have battles to fight and you want the strength of Herakles or the wisdom of Athena. But my friend\u2019s comment implies some of us simply desire to have aggressive Gods in our lives, and I see how that conclusion could be reached.<\/p>\n<p>And yet\u2026<\/p>\n<p>The <a href=\"http:\/\/thracianexodus.wordpress.com\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Anomalous Thracian<\/a> is a priest of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sabazius.com\/about-sabazios.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Sabazios<\/a>, who is described as:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>a Solar-Chthonic nomadic Thracian mountain warrior horseman god of ecstasy, oracle and nocturnal thunderstorms, associated with all manner of mystical, totemic, and esoteric symbols, tools, and practices. Among His most prominent associations is the serpent, a spear or thyrsus-staff and His primary sacrificial animal, which seems to shift geo-culturally between the horned ram and the bull.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>In other words, not a nurturing God.<\/p>\n<p>This past Summer Solstice witnessed the <a href=\"http:\/\/thracianexodus.wordpress.com\/2014\/06\/29\/28-midsummer-miracles-of-sabazios\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">28 Miracles of Sabazios<\/a> \u2013 28 Argentine Boa Constrictors born from a Temple serpent who should not have been pregnant, but obviously was. They are considered the children of Sabazios and are treated \u201cwith the respect befitting living, incarnated divinities.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s the religious side. The practical side is that there are now 28 new baby snakes that have to be cared for. Boas are among the snakes that give birth to live young, but they do not feed their young like mammals and birds.<\/p>\n<p>While I\u2019m no <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Ophidiophobia\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">ophiophobe<\/a>, I am not particularly fond of snakes. But I have greatly enjoyed the Anomalous Thracian\u2019s on-going accounts of caring for the 28 Miracles: monitoring their progress, feeding them at appropriate times and taking extreme measures to provide for one young snake who didn\u2019t care for the standard offerings. Building habitats, and figuring out the most ethical and most economical way to feed all these snakes. Keeping meticulous records for both practical and sacred purposes.<\/p>\n<p>In other words, nurturing. Sabazios may not be a nurturer, but He has inspired nurturing in His priest.<\/p>\n<p>So what does all this mean? Honestly, I\u2019m not sure, even though I find this sort of theological speculation incredibly fascinating. I do think Mother Goddesses are underrepresented in devotional polytheism. It\u2019s worthwhile to ask ourselves if They\u2019re underrepresented in our lives, and if so, whether we might be better served by adding Someone to our regular devotions.<\/p>\n<p>But I\u2019m sure of one thing: what matters is that we honor the Gods who call to us, no matter who \u2013 and what \u2013 They are.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It seems like nurturing Goddesses and Gods are underrepresented in devotional polytheism.  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