{"id":531,"date":"2019-10-04T12:59:52","date_gmt":"2019-10-04T17:59:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/joshlawson\/?p=531"},"modified":"2019-10-04T13:02:36","modified_gmt":"2019-10-04T18:02:36","slug":"do-you-need-help-navigating-waters-of-religious-deconstruction","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/joshlawson\/2019\/10\/do-you-need-help-navigating-waters-of-religious-deconstruction\/","title":{"rendered":"Do you need help navigating the waters of religious deconstruction?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<\/head>

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In that podcast interview<\/a> I gave last week, they asked me about my process of religious deconstruction. To use my own description, they wanted to know how my journey from evangelical to post-progressive Christian<\/a> (you read that right) took place.<\/p>\n

In case you\u2019re unfamiliar with the concept of \u201cdeconstruction,\u201d it\u2019s a term people use to describe the process of \u201ctaking apart\u201d their belief system. This process entails critically reevaluating their existing paradigm with fresh eyes. When it comes to religious faith, some people deconstruct and become atheist or agnostic. Others emerge from the rubble with a revised version of their faith that is more compatible with their new value system.<\/p>\n

As you might imagine, an authentic experience of religious deconstruction can be a troubling experience for most folks. It\u2019s not easy to pass through the valley of the shadow of death when it comes to your most cherished notions about God and faith.<\/p>\n

In fact, religious deconstruction can be such a harrowing experience that some people, like my friend Keith Giles, specialize in helping people get through it<\/a>. I do a little of that work myself on an informal basis. If you\u2019re like me, you know how helpful it can be to have someone assist you through such seasons of spiritual crisis.<\/p>\n

The causes of deconstruction<\/h2>\n

What causes people to deconstruct their deeply held religious beliefs? It varies, and it\u2019s not always a conscious choice. Some people experience deconstruction following an intense period of loss or even spiritual abuse. Others will go down this path after their first exposure to biblical criticism. Honestly, there are many different catalysts for this process that are all unique to the individual who experiences them.<\/p>\n

One of the main factors in my own deconstruction has been encountering the psychological and philosophical Other<\/em><\/a>.<\/em>\u00a0I\u2019ll try to relate what I mean by that from within my Christian tradition. Jesus liked to show his disciples how God was active in people outside their own faith tradition and theological box. Of one man he even said, \u201cI\u2019ve not found this kind of faith in all Israel\u201d (Matthew 8:10)! Imagine the blow that must have been to the disciples\u2019 egos.<\/p>\n

My journey has been a lot like that \u2014 being constantly surprised at the places and people among whom I have stumbled upon the activity of God. Many of whom I once believed could not<\/em> be part of God\u2019s activity because of \u2014 what, their \u201cunregenerate\u201d status, or the fact that they believed differently than me? The list goes on.<\/span><\/p>\n

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But God has forced me to see (I use the word \u201cforced\u201d with some hesitation, but I think it conveys what I mean to say well enough), and to become honest about what I see. This process has compelled me to re-evaluate the way I understand many of my old theological concepts. In other words, I\u2019ve had to recycle a lot of the old terminology in new light.<\/p>\n

I am still in the process of doing this, actually. I assume it will continue until the day I die.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time to look outside your circle<\/h2>\n

This is the journey God will take you on, if you allow it. I say, \u201cif you allow it,\u201d because we are all so stubborn and stuck in our ways that it\u2019s hard to accomplish any movement at all most days. But getting unstuck is necessary if you want to grow up, spiritually speaking. Most of what people call \u201cspiritual growth\u201d is just reinforcing what they think they already know and possess; however, this is not growth but religious refinement.<\/p>\n

Although this is a Christian blog aimed at a religious audience, I will add that I think this principle applies equally well to persons of non-faith. We all get stuck in our own heads, unable to see the forest of reality for the trees of our own personal concepts. I know many atheists who would be better served and who would better serve others if they could get past their hang-ups over traditional God-concepts and religious belief in general.<\/p>\n

So stop what you\u2019re doing today and look at what\u2019s going on outside your circle. To return to the language of my tradition, go visit the Samaritans. Listen to the Syro-Phoenician woman. Then get back with me, because I\u2019d love to help you process what you see. Part of what I do, after all, is provide spiritual care and coaching for people who are navigating the murky waters of religious deconstruction.<\/p>\n

Although it might feel like it, you don\u2019t have to walk the path alone. In fact, it\u2019s generally best if you don\u2019t.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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