{"id":1737,"date":"2011-05-16T15:25:15","date_gmt":"2011-05-16T15:25:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wp.patheos.com\/community\/karenspearszacharias\/?p=1737"},"modified":"2011-05-16T15:25:15","modified_gmt":"2011-05-16T15:25:15","slug":"lessons-from-survivors","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/karenspearszacharias\/2011\/05\/16\/lessons-from-survivors\/","title":{"rendered":"Lessons from Survivors"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><em><strong>\u201cWe may be a global village, but instant communication often isolates us from each other, rather than uniting us.\u201d \u00a0L\u2019Engle <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Tim and I have been texting each other all morning. He\u2019s at home. I\u2019m in Bend. The text go like this:<\/p>\n<p>Him: \u00a0Clean sweep. Our next boy will be named Boston Rob.<\/p>\n<p>Me: Natalie is a 19-year-old moron.<\/p>\n<p>Him: She made it to the Final 3. Touche!<\/p>\n<p>Me: She was as a sycophant.<\/p>\n<p>Him: She\u2019s only 19, what else was she going to do? Of course she was.<\/p>\n<p>Me: I wasn\u2019t like that at 19 and neither were ur daughters.<\/p>\n<p>Him: And u would have been booted off the island.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\">#<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">For all the uninitiated, Tim and I are arguing by text over the last television episode of <strong>Survivors Island. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">Boston Rob took home the million dollars after his 4th go at the money. In order to do that he had to outwit all the other teammates \u2014 not a difficult job with this bunch, thus my references to 19-year-old Natalie, who was as googly-eyed over the married Rob as any girl I\u2019ve ever witnessed.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">Yes, I know it\u2019s only a reality TV, but as far as reality TV goes, it\u2019s pretty good fare.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">In fact, there were some powerful lessons in it this year.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">Matt, the kid from Nashville who spent 27 days on Redemption Island by himself, spoke about the emotional difficulty of life alone: \u201cEverything was a chore. Cooking the rice. Washing the pans. Everything about it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">God, he said, sustained him.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"God Got Me Through It\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/SVa1ORHn98k?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">We are built for community. When we are cut off from it, everything about life is hard. When we are part of it \u2014 or think that we are \u2014 life becomes an adventure.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">During one emotional moment the 50-year-old Julie told the 22-year-old Matt that his witness as a Christian had convinced her to go back to church. \u00a0She lost the million but Julie says she came away with something far more valuable.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Julie The Day After\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/VJK9PTo8fqQ?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">In the end, the thing that won Boston Rob the title of Survivor was his ability to connect with every person in the tribe. He spoke to each tribe member and made them feel as though they were the Chosen One to accompany him to the final four.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">Boston Rob said it best in the finale: \u00a0<strong><em>We all want to be loved and listened to<\/em><\/strong>. <em>That\u2019s not always an easy thing to do. <\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">And his good ol\u2019 Boston try is a reminder that even when luck isn\u2019t on our side, endurance counts. In Rob\u2019s case, it adds up to a million dollars.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"&quot;Boston&quot; Rob Mariano on &quot;Survivor&quot; win\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/tpb_vCgl5Xo?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cWe may be a global village, but instant communication often isolates us from each other, rather than uniting us.\u201d \u00a0L\u2019Engle Tim and I have been texting each other all morning. He\u2019s at home. I\u2019m in Bend. The text go like this: Him: \u00a0Clean sweep. Our next boy will be named Boston Rob. 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