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<\/a>Today was going along just fine \u2014 productive, happy, and relatively stress free \u2014 until a certain email crossed my desk.<\/p>\nThe name and subject of the email will be withheld so that hopefully I can forget this dialogue ever happened. Suffice it to say, I read the initial email which was a request for action. I held it in my inbox, not responding as I was working on other items, and soon received a second email. The second email contained a renewed request, more strongly worded than the first. Without pausing to pray, I concluded the action that had been requested and fired off a relatively curt response. The two initial emails were \u201cfiled\u201d, taking them away from my attention.<\/p>\n
About thirty minutes later, I received a third email, offering an apology. The emailer felt that they surely must have offended me, to receive such an\u00a0officious\u00a0response. This emailer knew me well enough to note that an email containing not a single \u201c!\u201d or \u201clol\u201d was surely out of character.<\/p>\n
Emails flew back and forth between the two of us, apologizing for offending and having been offended. I fessed up to an overabundance of work and tried to lighten the mood, but in reality I actually was offended. In the end, I prayed, for the emailer, and for my own forgiveness in having overreacted.<\/p>\n
Oh what a tangled web we weave with our modern forms of communication. So easy to jump to false conclusions, so quick to judge and be judged. So simple to \u201cwrite off\u201d relationships simply because we\u2019ll likely never meet in real life. So many words, so little true feeling\u2026<\/p>\n
The interaction has me feeling a bit dirty and a lot in need of the Sacrament of Penance.<\/p>\n
Was it my fault? Who knows.<\/p>\n
Will I let it happen again any time soon? Hopefully not.<\/p>\n
How do you avoid miscommunication in your online endeavors?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Today was going along just fine \u2014 productive, happy, and relatively stress free \u2014 until a certain email crossed my desk. The name and subject of the email will be withheld so that hopefully I can forget this dialogue ever happened. Suffice it to say, I read the initial email which was a request for […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":142,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12,10],"tags":[86,87,85],"class_list":["post-361","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-catholic-geek-stuff","category-good-measures","tag-communication","tag-email","tag-manners"],"yoast_head":"\n
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