{"id":179,"date":"2008-12-02T13:24:00","date_gmt":"2008-12-02T19:24:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.loveisanorientation.com\/2008\/reflection-of-writing-a-book-part-4-2\/"},"modified":"2012-12-17T21:32:53","modified_gmt":"2012-12-18T03:32:53","slug":"reflection-of-writing-a-book-part-4-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/loveisanorientation\/2008\/12\/reflection-of-writing-a-book-part-4-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Reflection of Writing a Book – Part 4"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<\/head>

The editing process sucks. It was the worst thing I\u2019ve had to do in a long, long time! Not only are all of your words, thoughts, experiences, insights and conclusions shredded by your editor, but then you have to somehow refocus on the broader task at hand and try to write it all again more succinctly to what makes clearer sense to the audience. My thought about that:<\/p>\n

\u201cI did write it clear to the audience the first time, you\u2019re just not trying to understand what I\u2019m saying.\u201d<\/p>\n

Wrong attitude. This just elongated my editing process, and it sure made it more painful.<\/p>\n

I had no idea how to edit such a large piece of work. My editor\u2019s suggestions were clear and I agreed with them for the most part, but I had the most difficult time trying to implement any of them because I knew in my head what he took out of the text. And for me in that moment, the only thing that made sense was the original full explanation of whatever I was talking about \u2013 not the diced up edited version. In my mind I couldn\u2019t separate my original manuscript from the new edited version. It was too watered down; missing too much meat and substance. As I was going through the edits I kept thinking:<\/p>\n

\u201cBut this would have made sense if you just kept it how I originally had it!\u201d<\/p>\n

Wrong attitude. This just elongated my editing process, and it sure made it more painful.<\/p>\n

To seek help I called my editor, friends, family and other people I knew who have written books before. None of them seemed to be able to give me a piece of mind (not their fault, I just wasn\u2019t able to receive any of their advice.) Then my ever intelligent uncle, Michael Dalton<\/a>, spoke up in conjunction with a few others (mom, dad, wife), and they laid it down for me. They said that it\u2019s my name that ultimately going to be on the book, and I better darn well be happy with every word no matter who says what about the content. \u201cStart from scratch [from my original manuscript] and refine it how you see fit.\u201d<\/p>\n

It\u2019s almost as if the huge gorilla sitting on my back jumped off and released me from the paralyzing burden of having to conform to \u201cThe Man\u2019s Edits.\u201d (sorry Dave ((he is my editor and he reads this)): it wasn\u2019t you, it was me.) And from that point of realization I was free to take what Dave suggested and carve that into a new, sculpted, and way better version of my original manuscript.<\/p>\n

Although I might have felt free, the book writing\/editing process didn\u2019t change from my original experience: it was still the most constricting project I\u2019ve ever done. In two, 60-hour periods of time (that is 3 days a piece, or 6 days total, for those who don\u2019t like math), I only slept 3 hours per 60 hours. The crazy part was that I wasn\u2019t even tired! I was so engulfed and immersed, reliving each word and story as I did when I originally wrote them down, that time flew by. An hour seemed like a minute and a day seemed like an hour. But I busted my hump and worked hard; harder than I ever worked before. I thought writing a whole book in 7 weeks was rough \u2026 how about editing a whole book in 3? Ouch! And I have to deeply thank the folks who gave me their comments and feedback on the edits:<\/p>\n

Peter Marin<\/a>
Eric Leocadio
Dr. Becky Kuhn
Kristen Sifers
Tim Otto
Dr. Jim Coakley<\/a>
Brian McLaren
<\/a>and especially my main man Dave Zimmerman <\/a>\u2013 it\u2019s all good in the hood brotha!<\/p>\n

It\u2019s done. It\u2019s totally and utterly done and I can\u2019t wait for you all to read it. So here is my next lesson learned:<\/p>\n

Editing sucks. It takes HUGE amounts of time and it needs to be treated with the same respect that was given to the writing process. I totally underestimated the severe levels of difficultly that editing brings.<\/p>\n

Please don\u2019t make the same mistake because your life will be terrible for significant periods of time. I hated my life because I hated the editing process. It was too daunting and too overwhelming to squeeze into short periods of time. But I learned and grew a ton; and totally and utterly confident and excited for every word that has become Love Is an Orientation. I do know this much though, I\u2019ll never read another, or look at another book in the same fashion!<\/p>\n

One more thought \u2013 none of what I said was to ever rip on InterVarsity Press<\/a>. I love them. I love my editor. I can\u2019t wait to do more with them. They are my family, for real! They made this whole process go as smooth as possible. My reflections are just the internal dialogue and battle I faced within myself throughout this journey. And I can\u2019t wait to share that journey with you through the book.<\/p>\n

Much love.
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