1.0Love, Joy, Feminismhttps://www.patheos.com/blogs/lovejoyfeminismLibby Annehttps://www.patheos.com/blogs/lovejoyfeminism/author/libbyCTBHHM: An Army of Tworich600338<blockquote class="wp-embedded-content" data-secret="SJAtAmTdYw"><a href="https://www.patheos.com/blogs/lovejoyfeminism/2013/06/ctbhhm-an-army-of-two.html">CTBHHM: An Army of Two</a></blockquote><iframe sandbox="allow-scripts" security="restricted" src="https://www.patheos.com/blogs/lovejoyfeminism/2013/06/ctbhhm-an-army-of-two.html/embed#?secret=SJAtAmTdYw" width="600" height="338" title="“CTBHHM: An Army of Two” — Love, Joy, Feminism" data-secret="SJAtAmTdYw" frameborder="0" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" scrolling="no" class="wp-embedded-content"></iframe><script type="text/javascript">
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Another thing about the army: Romantic relationships between commanding officers and their subordinates are not allowed. Not only does it compromise the cohesiveness of the unit, and the officer and his decision making, the power dynamics of a relationship like that quickly get rather twisted. After all, a commanding officer has a great deal of power over his subordinates, and in a situation where there's a romantic relationship straddling that line, this power difference can quickly lend itself to abuse.