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</html><description>I know we haven't gotten there yet, but Debi is going to tell Diana that she should have obeyed her husband. Obeying her husband would have meant having only two children. Why, then, include this part praising the benefit of having five, eight, or more children? Debi's basically telling Diana that having a large family is wonderful, but that too bad she shouldn't have because her husband said not to. That does not seem very compassionate to me.</description></oembed>
