{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Love, Joy, Feminism","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/lovejoyfeminism","author_name":"Libby Anne","author_url":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/lovejoyfeminism\/author\/libby","title":"A Twisted Father\/Daughter Relationship","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"K3yYhDRAbQ\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/lovejoyfeminism\/2013\/07\/a-twisted-fatherdaughter-relationship.html\">A Twisted Father\/Daughter Relationship<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/lovejoyfeminism\/2013\/07\/a-twisted-fatherdaughter-relationship.html\/embed#?secret=K3yYhDRAbQ\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;A Twisted Father\/Daughter Relationship&#8221; &#8212; Love, Joy, Feminism\" data-secret=\"K3yYhDRAbQ\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>\n","description":"This weird insistence on the father\/daughter relationship being of utmost importance ends up overshadowing the importance of the father's relationship with his own wife and the daughter's gradual move beyond the family unit toward eventually establishing her own family unit. Everyone loses in this scenario---the mother who feels she must compete with her daughter, the father who sabotages the depth of relationship he could have with his wife, and the daughter who ought to be learning to stand on her own two feet and venture outside of the home. Everyone loses."}