{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Love, Joy, Feminism","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/lovejoyfeminism","author_name":"Libby Anne","author_url":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/lovejoyfeminism\/author\/libby","title":"\"Lost\" Masculinity and Privilege Distress","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"eGkGLhpOJJ\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/lovejoyfeminism\/2014\/09\/lost-masculinity-and-privilege-distress.html\">&#8220;Lost&#8221; Masculinity and Privilege Distress<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/lovejoyfeminism\/2014\/09\/lost-masculinity-and-privilege-distress.html\/embed#?secret=eGkGLhpOJJ\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;&#8220;Lost&#8221; Masculinity and Privilege Distress&#8221; &#8212; Love, Joy, Feminism\" data-secret=\"eGkGLhpOJJ\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>\n","description":"I'm thinking through the shows I watch and none of them actually \"mock men and boys.\" House of Cards has plenty of complex characters of both genders. Game of Thrones certainly doesn't \"mock men or boys.\" Doctor Who, Orange Is the New Black, Bones---I'm not seeing it. The shows I like that are now off the air---Buffy, Gilmore Girls, Numbers---don't \"mock men and boys\" either. Even the comedy Up All Night portrayed the stay-at-home father as competent. There are plenty of strong male characters worth emulating in these shows, men who aren't boorish and sex obsessed or effeminate, odd, or outrageous. Maybe the author of this piece just needs to change the channel."}