{"id":12393,"date":"2013-01-28T14:52:48","date_gmt":"2013-01-28T18:52:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/lovejoyfeminism\/?p=12393"},"modified":"2013-01-28T14:52:48","modified_gmt":"2013-01-28T18:52:48","slug":"walking-the-walk-in-which-tony-jones-makes-good","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/lovejoyfeminism\/2013\/01\/walking-the-walk-in-which-tony-jones-makes-good.html","title":{"rendered":"Walking the Walk: In Which Tony Jones Makes Good"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<\/head>

This morning I expressed some concern<\/a> about a conversation progressive Christian Patheos blogger Tony Jones had with an anti-gay Malaysian pastor:<\/p>\n

Tony Jones is currently at a conference in Malaysia and on Friday\u00a0wrote a post about<\/a>\u00a0how he answered a Malaysian pastor\u2019s questions about his views on homosexuality. After expressing concerns about the history of cultural imperialism in the American church, he finishes his post as follows:<\/p>\n

After explaining that I am a strong advocate for full inclusion of all persons at all levels of church leadership, and that I also advocate for full, legal marriage for gay and lesbian couples, I said something else. I said that as an American Christian, I realize that this puts me at odds with much of the rest of the world. \u2026<\/p>\n

I think there\u2019s no quick and easy remedy for this.\u00a0Those of us in America who are allies are following out consciences and our best interpretations of the Bible and the Christian tradition, I said, and he is doing the same in his context<\/strong>. I asked him to afford me the benefit of the doubt, and I would do the same for him.<\/p>\n

No one converted yesterday. I didn\u2019t recant my stance on sexuality, and he didn\u2019t become an ally. But he did pull up a chair next to me at lunch, and we sat together again at tea. He even intimated that if I come back, he might ask me to preach at his church.\u00a0To be honest, I think that I made a friend yesterday. I hope that I did.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I understand Tony\u2019s desire to avoid the cultural imperialism the American church has been so heavily tainted with in the past. He didn\u2019t want to use his position as an American pastor to dictate to third world pastors as has been done so often in the past. I get that, and that\u2019s extremely admirable.<\/p>\n

But here\u2019s the thing. Tony could only say what he did because he is straight. In his post he speaks glowingly about how he avoided American cultural imperialism and made a friend while in Malaysia\u00a0sodomy is still punishable by twenty years in prison and whipping<\/a>. He looked into the face of an anti-gay Malaysian pastor and said \u201cI have my views, but you have yours.\u201d If he had been gay, he would have had other things to worry about. If he had been gay, making that friend\u00a0would not have been possible.\u00a0<\/em>And because of that, reading Tony\u2019s post left a sour taste in my mouth.<\/p>\n

It is absolutely true that making personal connections like this is critical in winning hearts and changing minds, and I definitely think saying things like \u201cI understand that you are doing what you think is right\u201d can be very productive. The thing is, you can\u2019t stop there. The trouble is the \u201cI\u2019m doing what I think is right, you\u2019re doing what you think is right, now let\u2019s be friends\u201d dance Tony describes above.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Only hours after I posted this piece, Tony posted a piece called \u201cMalaysian, Christian \u2026 and Gay<\/a>.\u201d In that piece he explains that after his conversation with the aforementioned anti-gay Malaysian pastor, he decided to actively seek out and fellowship with LGBTQ\u00a0Christians\u00a0in Malaysia. And find them he did.<\/p>\n

I visited three churches here in Kuala Lumpur on Sunday, and I shared a message at each. The first, Tabernacle of Shalom, is a Tamil-speaking emergent church. The second, Eternal Harvest Center, is a Tamil- and English-speaking Pentecostal<\/a> church, and the third,\u00a0Good Samaritan<\/a>, is a church for GLBT persons.<\/p>\n

In fact, it\u2019s the only GLBT-friendly church in this entire country<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

\u2026<\/p>\n

They worship at 2pm on Sunday, [Pastor] Joe [Pang] told me, because \u201call the gays go clubbing on Saturday night.\u201d As you can see in the photo, about a dozen were in attendance when I went on Sunday, although a few opted not to be in the photo because the stigma of being gay in this culture is enormous.<\/p>\n

I arrived during the singing, which was in both English and Chinese. Joe then preached the second sermon in a series that he\u2019s doing on the Holy Spirit. He cut his sermon short to interview me, and then I shared a message about the movement of the Spirit in the Acts 3. They told me that I\u2019m the first straight pastor to ever visit their church.<\/p>\n

\u2026<\/p>\n

As I wrote last week, I was\u00a0asked about homosexuality<\/a>\u00a0repeatedly during my visit to Malaysia. In fact, I was quite surprised that it was even an issue here. When I asked about the church\u2019s response to GLBT persons, Good Samaritan was mentioned. But no one knew anything about it \u2014 where it met, who was the pastor, or what it was like. I was ultimately pointed to Joe by some members of \u201cFriends in Conversation,\u201d the group that used to be known as Emergent Malaysia.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Well played, Tony, well played. That\u2019s called walking the walk.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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