{"id":13143,"date":"2013-02-13T16:09:48","date_gmt":"2013-02-13T20:09:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/lovejoyfeminism\/?p=13143"},"modified":"2013-02-13T16:27:58","modified_gmt":"2013-02-13T20:27:58","slug":"conversations-with-preschoolers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/lovejoyfeminism\/2013\/02\/conversations-with-preschoolers.html","title":{"rendered":"Conversations with Preschoolers"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/166\/2013\/02\/conversation.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-13150 alignleft\" title=\"conversation\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/166\/2013\/02\/conversation-300x198.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"240\" height=\"158\"><\/a>Can I say how much I love having a preschooler?<\/p>\n<p>My life is peppered with the most fascinating conversations. Watching Sally learn and figure things out is beautiful, and often also quite humorous.<\/p>\n<p>Let me offer this exchange by way of example:<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080;\">\u201cI\u2019m going to marry Daddy when I grown up.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">\u201cOh no you\u2019re not! I already married him. You have to pick someone else, because he\u2019s <em>taken<\/em>.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080;\">\u201cThen I\u2019m going to marry Bobby.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">\u201cSorry honey, you can\u2019t marry your brother.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080;\">\u201cWhy not?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">\u201cBecause . . . you just can\u2019t.\u201d<\/span><span style=\"color: #333333;\"> (I <em>still<\/em> haven\u2019t figured out how to explain this one.)\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080;\">\u201cDo boys marry girls and girls marry boys?\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">\u201cUsually, but sometimes boys marry boys and girls marry girls. It\u2019s up to you.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800080;\"><span style=\"color: #000080;\">\u201cOh, okay. I pick a girl. I will marry Jessica.\u201d<\/span> <span style=\"color: #333333;\">(Jessica is a friend from her preschool.)<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">\u201cWell you don\u2019t have to decide yet. You have to grow up first, and then you can decide if you want to get married, and if so who you want to marry.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800080;\"><span style=\"color: #000080;\">\u201cYes, I know that.<\/span>\u201c<\/span> (Like, <em>duh<\/em> mom.)<\/p>\n<p>Yep. Preschoolers are the best.<\/p>\n<p>Do you have a conversation to share?<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Can I say how much I love having a preschooler? My life is peppered with the most fascinating conversations. 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