{"id":16925,"date":"2013-08-24T05:34:29","date_gmt":"2013-08-24T09:34:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/lovejoyfeminism\/?p=16925"},"modified":"2013-09-09T16:07:46","modified_gmt":"2013-09-09T20:07:46","slug":"allowing-the-devil-to-undress-you-the-slut-shaming-of-a-former-homeschooler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/lovejoyfeminism\/2013\/08\/allowing-the-devil-to-undress-you-the-slut-shaming-of-a-former-homeschooler.html","title":{"rendered":"Guest Post: Allowing the Devil To Undress You: The Slut-Shaming of a Former Homeschooler"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<\/head>

\"Teresa<\/a>A Guest Post by Ryan Stollar<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Originally posted on Homeschoolers Anonymous <\/em><\/a><\/p>\n

A disgrace.<\/p>\n

A destructive force against families.<\/p>\n

Homeschool dropout.<\/p>\n

A rat turd.<\/strong><\/p>\n

These are but a number of phrases used on HSLDA\u2019s Facebook page in reference to Teresa Scanlan, a former homeschooler attending Patrick Henry College. These are not phrases used by HSLDA; in fact, HSLDA has championed Teresa as a homeschool success story. But these phrases are also not coming from anti-homeschoolers or liberal secularists.<\/p>\n

They are coming from fans (or at least previous fans) of HSLDA.<\/em><\/p>\n

Yesterday, HSLDA shared about Teresa\u2019s life and homeschooling experience in light of her being crowned Miss America in 2011. It was obviously about marketing to some extent \u2014 \u201cthe secret behind the crown was homeschooling!,<\/em>\u201d HSLDA says. But it also was about celebrating a young woman with passion and drive.<\/p>\n

But things got ugly.<\/p>\n

Some of HSLDA\u2019s fans were livid. In fact, if you were looking for evidence that the modesty and purity culture that exists within Christian homeschooling can lead to some truly dehumanizing and dangerous thoughts, look no further than what unfolded.<\/p>\n

Here is HSLDA\u2019s original post about Teresa Scanlan, and\u00a0here is the link to the post on Facebook<\/a>:<\/p>\n

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The comments that some people are leaving on HSLDA\u2019s post about Teresa are frankly alarming. They are misogynistic and dripping with body-shaming. They even are scarily reminiscent of rape culture \u2014 that women are responsible for men\u2019s lust and are \u201casking for it.\u201d<\/p>\n

Seriously.<\/p>\n

There is direct, no-holds-barred\u00a0slut-shaming<\/a>\u00a0going on right on HSLDA\u2019s Facebook page.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Check it out:<\/p>\n

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Yes, you read that right. Someone is pulling their support from HSLDA because of HSLDA\u2019s link \u2014 which was merely a link to their\u00a0original radio series about Teresa<\/a>. Because old men and young men might \u201cfix their eyes\u201d upon Teresa dressed in a rather conservative red dress (you can\u2019t even see her shoulders!).<\/p>\n

Now you might wonder: how is that picture immodest? Well, it isn\u2019t. But fear not. People encouraged other people to\u00a0google her in a bikini.\u00a0<\/em>(Does that sound a bit hypocritical? Because it is hypocritical, and also slightly creepy.)<\/p>\n

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Not everyone on HSLDA\u2019s page, however, was attacking Teresa. Some people tried to defend her \u2013 and then got promptly slut-shamed, too.<\/p>\n

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Yes, if you participate in a pageant, you have caused men to commit adultery and\u00a0you<\/em>\u00a0will be \u201cheld accountable of Judgement Day.\u201d<\/p>\n

The comments continue:<\/p>\n

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Another defender, who is attacked:<\/p>\n

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By the way, Teresa is a Christian.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Not just \u201ca\u201d Christian, but a conservative Christian. In fact, she points out\u00a0in her radio interview with HSLDA<\/a>\u00a0that many of the young women that participate in pageants are actually conservative Christians:<\/p>\n

Actually, the majority of contestants, believe it or not, are Christian conservatives, I found, in the competition. And then the judges, in my interview, they have my resume in front of them, and they saw a lot of church activities and things on there, so during my interviews, several of them actually asked me questions about my faith.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

But that does not stop people from judging her relationship with God:<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Also:<\/p>\n

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It really is a train wreck. They call her a \u201chomeschool dropout,\u201d and attack her for wanting a career:<\/p>\n

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They compare her to a \u201crat turd\u201d:<\/p>\n

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They do not hesitate to link to her Facebook profile (which, as we all know, will probably lead to further online bullying, harassment, and slut-shaming):<\/p>\n

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This is not to even mention the likely hypocrisy and double standard of some people in the homeschooling community when they only think of modesty and purity in terms of women. What about men?<\/p>\n

Were all these people up in arms when Tim Tebow went shirtless for magazines?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Or were they parading Tebow around as a homeschool superhero?\u00a0Kathryn<\/a>\u00a0brilliantly pointed out (not on HSLDA\u2019s page) this double standard about equally harmless actions:<\/p>\n

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Credit must be given to those people who are defending Teresa on HSLDA\u2019s page. This goes to show that not all homeschoolers \u2014 in fact, not all Christian homeschoolers \u2014 believe in the toxic ideas behind modesty and purity culture ideology.<\/p>\n

I commend those people for standing up against those ideas and the people that would use those ideas to shame a young woman.<\/strong><\/p>\n

We need to push back like this. We need more homeschoolers to speak up against these ideas (and not just against the modesty and purity culture ideas).\u00a0Teresa\u2019s own experience has demonstrated that this shaming is (very sadly) nothing new to her:<\/p>\n

When I first won, I thought, of course, that I would get criticism from the public in general about being a Christian, but it was kind of surprising to me that probably the most criticism I received was actually from conservative Christians that competing in the competition like Miss America did not line up with their morals and values.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

No one deserves to be abused and harassed in this manner, regardless of their way of dress, their gender, their political or religious beliefs, or anything else.\u00a0In fact, I commend HSLDA for being willing to champion a conservative Christian woman who is \u2014 through her actions \u2014 bravely overturning some of the deeply held assumptions in some conservative Christian circles. She is celebrating her beauty and her body, she is going to college, and she has high career aspirations \u2014 in fact, as HSLDA mentions in their bio of her, \u201cher highest career goals are to run for president in 2028 or to be nominated to the Supreme Court.\u201d<\/p>\n

She also hopes to\u00a0educate people about eating disorders.<\/strong><\/p>\n

She has\u00a0expressed a desire<\/a>\u00a0to \u201ceducate children and adults alike as to the signs and risks of eating disorders, as well as how and where to get help for themselves or a loved one.\u201d<\/p>\n

More power to her.<\/p>\n

Libby Anne comments: One thing that is so interesting about this incident is that it is such a reverse of how HSLDA\u2019s facebook followers reacted to allegations that HSLDA mishandles child abuse in homeschool circles (for background, see here<\/a>). In that case, they closed ranks and supported HSLDA unequivokly, without a blink, question, or second thought. And yet here, when HSLDA highlights the success of a homeschooler who was crowned Miss America, that is a bridge too far. That<\/strong> is what has HSLDA\u2019s facebook followers threatening to pull their support. Mismatched priorities much?\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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