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I was going to start another general chatter thread (that\u2019s my \u201cLesbian Duplex<\/a>\u201d feature) when last night conversation on another thread turned to helping a specific longtime commenter, Mrs. Grizzley, figure out how to leave an\u00a0abusive marriage. I\u2019m dedicating this chatter thread to her and others like her. While I won\u2019t limit conversation here solely to this topic, I\u2019d like to encourage conversation about\u00a0recognizing and leaving abusive relationships.<\/p>\n

For those of you interested in helping Mrs. Grizzley in particular, commenter and moderator AAAtheist started a GoFundMe campaign for her<\/a>. I can also\u00a0add interested parties to a group\u00a0email thread with Mrs. Grizzley.<\/p>\n

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