{"id":26359,"date":"2015-08-07T05:00:21","date_gmt":"2015-08-07T09:00:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/lovejoyfeminism\/?p=26359"},"modified":"2015-08-05T11:13:50","modified_gmt":"2015-08-05T15:13:50","slug":"anonymous-tip-the-proselytizing-lawyer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/lovejoyfeminism\/2015\/08\/anonymous-tip-the-proselytizing-lawyer.html","title":{"rendered":"Anonymous Tip: The Proselytizing Lawyer"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/lovejoyfeminism\/tag\/anonymous-tip\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><em><strong>A Review Series of Anonymous Tip, by Michael Farris<\/strong><\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Pp. 107-109<\/em><\/p>\n<p>And now we have arrived at lawyer Peter Barron\u2019s much awaited meeting with his Christian mentor\/accountability partner, Aaron. Aaron, as you will remember, is a regional computer expert and the father of four homeschooled children.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Peter and Aaron met at their usual spot\u2014The Red Lion Coffee Shop just off the Pines Road exit from Interstate 90. It was about a fifteen-minute drive for each of them and allowed them to hop directly on to the freeway and head to work afterwards. The waitress gave them a back table, where they could read the Bible, talk, and pray without too many stares.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Peter is officially more worried about getting stares for reading the Bible in a restaurant than he is about someone listening in while he takes a disposition in a restaurant.<\/p>\n<p>Peter and Aaron are reading through Proverbs and have reached chapter 21.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>It was one of Peter\u2019s favorite chapters in all of Scripture. When he was a young Christian in his senior year of college, trying to decide whether it was God\u2019s will for him to go to law school, Peter believed that God and directed him to Proverbs 21:15: \u201c<em>When justice is done, it brings joy to the righteous but terror to evildoers.<\/em>\u201d That verse was the turning point in the process of prayer, counsel, and Scriptural meditation that made Peter conclude that becoming an attorney was truly God\u2019s will for his life.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Yes, this is a way that evangelicals make decisions.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cWell,\u201d Aaron began when they had finished reading the entire chapter, \u201cdid any particular verse stand out to you?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cVerse one got my attention in light of my upcoming hearing on Tuesday. \u2018<em>The king\u2019s heart is in the hand of the Lord; He directs it like a watercourse wherever He pleases<\/em>.\u2019 I have been praying that God will direct the judges heart and that my client will get her child back.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPeter, have you given your client any opportunity to come to know Jesus?\u201d Aaron asked.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Well, that was unexpected!<\/p>\n<p>So I have to wonder. Is this a usual thing? I mean Aaron says it as though it\u2019s standard procedure. Does Peter\u2019s law office have a sign on the front door saying \u201cPrepare to be Proselytized\u201d? Honestly, though, this is standard fare for evangelicals. You\u2019re supposed to present the gospel to everyone you come in contact with, because\u00a0if you don\u2019t, well, you may well be sending them on their merry way to hell. There are many workplaces where you would not be allowed to do this\u2014you might get fired from your job at local grocery\u00a0pharmacy if you preach at your customers\u00a0as well as serving them\u2014but then, Peter runs his own business, so that (presumably) isn\u2019t an issue.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cNot really. I made it clear to her that I was a born-again Christian, but I didn\u2019t really explain what that means,\u201d Peter explained.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I\u2019m going to go out on a limb here and say that it\u2019s not typical for a lawyer to make his client aware of his religious beliefs. Peter\u2019s actions in that restaurant, back on Tuesday when he explained to Gwen that he\u2019s a born-again Christian and therefore he can\u2019t marry her because she\u2019s divorced, were just <em>weird<\/em>. And that, of course, is what Peter is referring to here.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Seeing Aaron\u2019s unblinking stare, Peter hastily added, \u201cBut I\u2019m looking for the right opportunity.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGood. Remember, for him who knows to do right and doeth it not, to him it is sin,\u201d Aaron said, quoting James 4:17.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I know the term \u201cclobber verse\u201d is usually used to refer to anti-gay verses, but seriously, James 4:17 is a clobber verse. It\u2019s used to shame evangelicals who don\u2019t do enough preaching and converting. It makes <em>not doing good<\/em> just as bad as <em>doing wrong<\/em>. Because of this, it\u2019s used to scare kids who aren\u2019t bad into think they <em>are<\/em> bad, just because they don\u2019t voluntarily offer to set the table or switch the laundry.<\/p>\n<p>Regardless, Peter is now anxious for Aaron to change the subject.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cYou know, verse two is one that lawyers convicts me,\u201d Aaron said. \u201c\u2018<em>All a man\u2019s was seem right to him, but the Lord weighs the heart.<\/em>\u2018 I think this means that even when we think that our motives are pure, we often deceive ourselves. I find that I constantly have to make myself look deeper and deeper into my motives to examine if anything I\u2019m doing is really being done for a motive that God would find to be wrong.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>This is another evangelical scare line\u2014if you do the right things, but for the wrong reason, <em>it doesn\u2019t count<\/em>. In fact, I have very clear memories of being taught that you need to do the right thing for the right reason, and that doing the right thing for the wrong reason, or the wrong thing for the right reason, and doing the wrong thing for the wrong reason are all bad, bad, bad. On some level, I get this! If you\u2019re only volunteering at the soup kitchen to make yourself look like a good person, well, that\u2019s really unfortunate. But at least you\u2019re still helping people! And besides, the amount of introspection demanded vis a vis this verse is enough to leave anyone in doubt. Am I <em>sure<\/em> I have no selfish motivations for doing X thing?<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Peter felt that slight burning on his face that often accompanied a pricking of his inner spirit. He began to ask himself, Are my motives really pure in trying to help Gwen? Am I just being a good lawyer for her by trying to win her case? Or is there something more?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Good question, Peter. Sounds like something to talk to your mentor\/accountability partner about, and guess what, he\u2019s sitting right here!<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>With that, Aaron looks at his watch and says \u201cI guess we\u2019d better pray if we are going to keep to our schedule.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Wait! Not yet, Aaron! Peter has something he seriously needs to talk about!<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Peter was glad Aaron didn\u2019t ask any probing questions about applying verse two to his life.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Accountability <em>fail<\/em>.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>And truthfully, Peter wasn\u2019t sure whether he had anything to confess. He knew for sure he would have to guard his heart more carefully toward Gwen, but for the moment he concluded that he was doing her case out of a pure desire to be a good lawyer and a good servant.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Sure, Peter, <em>sure<\/em>. You\u2019ll keep telling yourself that all the way to the altar!<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>And now we have arrived at lawyer Peter Barron&#8217;s much awaited meeting with his Christian mentor\/accountability partner, Aaron. 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