{"id":326,"date":"2011-07-21T09:58:00","date_gmt":"2011-07-21T09:58:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/lovejoyfeminism\/2011\/07\/myths-about-atheism\/"},"modified":"2012-03-20T21:29:23","modified_gmt":"2012-03-21T01:29:23","slug":"myths-about-atheism","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/lovejoyfeminism\/2011\/07\/myths-about-atheism.html","title":{"rendered":"Myths About Atheism"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<\/head>

I grew up being told some absolute lies about atheists. Now I am one. So I\u2019m going to take a moment here to discuss some myths about atheism: <\/span><\/p>\n

1. Atheists are just mad at God. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Um, no, I\u2019m an atheist because I literally don\u2019t think that there <\/span>is <\/span>a God. How could I be mad at something I don\u2019t think exists? <\/a><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Similarly, I have been told that I am an atheist because I am bitter at my parents and because I think their legalistic version of religion is all there is, and have never experienced the real freedom religion can bring. This is not true. First, my parents are wonderful people, and I\u2019m not bitter at them. Second, I became Catholic upon leaving fundamentalism and found true beauty and wonder and freedom in religion. I\u2019m not an atheist because I\u2019m angry or don\u2019t understand religion; I\u2019m an atheist because I honestly don\u2019t think there is a God out there to begin with. <\/span><\/p>\n

2. Atheists just want to be able to have premarital sex, etc. <\/span><\/p>\n

Um, no, I\u2019m an atheist because I literally don\u2019t think there <\/span>is <\/span>a God. I had no agenda for becoming an atheist. This is true of every atheist I\u2019ve ever met, and I\u2019ve met plenty. <\/span><\/span>
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\nA related argument is that atheists are just atheists because they don\u2019t want to be held accountable to a higher power. Again, this is ridiculous. I became an atheist because I don\u2019t believe that there is <\/em>a higher power, not because I know there is a higher power and don\u2019t want to be held accountable to it. <\/span><\/p>\n

3. Atheists know in their hearts that there is a God. <\/span><\/p>\n

Um, no, that\u2019s simply not true. If I \u201cknew in my heart\u201d that there is actually a God, then I wouldn\u2019t be an atheist. I\u2019m an atheist because I literally don\u2019t think there is any evidence for the existence of a God, and I think the world makes a lot more sense when you take the idea of \u201cGod\u201d out of it. Everything fits a lot more nicely and everything suddenly makes sense. <\/span><\/p>\n

I actually really hate this particular myth. It\u2019s so arrogant \u2013 the person stating it infers that he or she can know my innermost thoughts, and that\u2019s simply not true. I\u2019m not pretending to be able to read <\/span>your <\/span>mind, so don\u2019t pretend to be able to read <\/span>mine<\/span>. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

4. Atheists are amoral people. <\/span><\/p>\n

Again, not so. Atheists are not more likely to go to prison than Christians. They are not more likely to commit crimes or get divorced. In fact, atheists are actually less likely to divorce than Christians, and less likely to commit crime or go to prison. Countries that are more secular and have higher percentages of atheists have lower crime rates than those that are more religious. I am <\/span>not <\/span>trying to tie religion to divorce or crime. Given the large number of issues at play in things like crime or divorce, that would be really silly. What I <\/span>am <\/span>trying to do is point out the craziness of the claim that atheists are somehow less moral than Christians, or that they\u2019re more likely to commit crimes or be hedonistic. This simply is not true. As far as my personal experience goes, I don\u2019t really do things that differently from when I was a Christian. I don\u2019t rape, murder, and steal. I just no longer go to church or pray. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

One more thing to point out here. The people who make the claim that atheists are amoral people are essentially claiming that it is impossible to be good without having the threat of hell hanging over you. Do you realize how ludicrous that is? If there are really people out there who are good just because they\u2019re afraid of facing eternal torture after death, I actually find that kind of scary. Atheists are good because they believe in their fellow man, not because they\u2019re afraid of some sort of punishment. In many ways, being good because of the threat of hell is like never growing up \u2013 it\u2019s just a continuation of the child who does what his parents tell him to because he is afraid of being spanked. <\/span><\/p>\n

5. Atheists hate Christians. <\/span><\/p>\n

No, again, not true. I don\u2019t hate Christians, and I don\u2019t hate Muslims, or Hindus, etc. I don\u2019t hate religion. Rather, I hate injustice. I hate racism. I hate sexism. I hate ignorance. Sometimes religion contributes to these problems, and other times it works against them. I have yet to meet a single atheist who hates Christians. In fact, I have yet to meet a single atheist who hates anything outside of problems like injustice, racism, sexism, and ignorance. <\/span><\/p>\n

6. Atheists want to take away Christians\u2019 rights.<\/span><\/p>\n

I completely support Christians\u2019 right to practice their religion. What I am <\/span>not <\/span>okay with is a Christian trying to force his or her beliefs and practices on <\/span>me. <\/span>And I\u2019ve never met a single atheist who disagrees with me on this. I am a big supporter of religious freedom \u2013 after all, if I lived in Puritan New England, I would be hung, burned, or run out of the colony. Religious freedom is naturally incredibly important to me, as it is to every atheist I have ever had contact with.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

I think that the problem comes when Christians think that it is their right to force their beliefs on everyone else. You see, I am against officially sanctioned school prayer and I would also like to see the words \u201cunder God\u201d removed from the Pledge of Allegiance and the words \u201cin God we trust\u201d removed from our country\u2019s currency. This is not about removing Christians\u2019 rights. Christians have the right to practice their religion, and I\u2019m not questioning that! This is about having a country that is genuinely neutral toward religion in the name of religious freedom. Because that is what allowing religious freedom means. <\/span><\/p>\n

Incidentally, did you know that it is still against the law in a half a dozen states for atheists to run for public office? Sure, these laws are not enforced much these days, but they are still on the books and have not been removed. And there was a time when these laws <\/span>were <\/span>enforced. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

7. Because they don\u2019t have God, atheists are inwardly miserable. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

This one is so untrue that it is laughable. I find that having finally found answers to questions that bothered me for years has given me great peace. I understand the world better and I like people better. Because I had been taught this myth, I was scared when I first realized I was edging toward atheism. Wouldn\u2019t believing that there is no life after death make me miserable? Wouldn\u2019t I no longer have any purpose in my life? None of these predictions turned out to be true in any way. I still have purpose, I still have meaning, and I still have joy and happiness and friendship and love. The world is a beautiful and wonderful and rich place. How could I <\/span>not <\/span>be happy? <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Finally, like number three, this myth aggravates me because the person stating it infers that he or she can know my innermost thoughts. Once again, I\u2019m not pretending to be able to read <\/span>your <\/span>mind, so don\u2019t pretend to be able to read <\/span>mine<\/span>. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Conclusion<\/span><\/p>\n

So if they\u2019re wrong, why are myths like these so prevalent? I have a couple of theories. My first theory is that pastors demonize atheists in order to ensure that they keep their flocks on the straight and narrow. In other words, if the pastor can convince his flock that atheists are miserable and evil people, his flock won\u2019t consider leaving the faith, because if they did they would be miserable and evil. If his flock saw that atheists could actually be awesome people, they might question the need for salvation, and thus question the church and the pastor. Hence the pastor demonizes the atheists. The idea of a happy, well adjusted atheist simply does not fit in well with a Christian theology that teaches that people are miserable and evil and need Christ and salvation in order to find joy and peace and goodness.<\/strong> Another theory, and one that is slightly simpler, is that these myths arise out of the fear of the other. Atheists are different from other people, they refuse to conform, and they are therefore threatening. <\/span>
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