Several years I had a long conversation over Facebook messenger with a man who identifies as both Catholic and pro-life. The topic? Abortion. I sought to convince this individual not that abortion was morally justifiable, but instead\u00a0that there were more effective ways to decrease the number of abortions performed\u2014while supporting mothers and babies\u2014than simply banning abortion.<\/p>\n
At one point in the conversation, I argued that decreasing the stigma placed on single mothers could play a role in reducing the number of abortions. He was genuinely horrified, and told me that he believed there wasn\u2019t enough<\/em> stigma on single mothers\u2014that that was part of the problem<\/em>. Let me ask you this\u2014if you were single and pregnant, would you be more likely to consider getting an\u00a0abortion in a society that stigmatized and isolated single mothers, or one that accepted and embraced single mothers?<\/p>\n The fundamental problem, of course,\u00a0is that the individual I was arguing with was not motivated merely by a desire to end abortion. He was also motivated by a desire to cut down on things\u00a0he considered sexual immorality. I argued that accepting and supporting single mothers would lead to more single women carrying unplanned pregnancies to term. His argument, presumably, was that stigmatizing and judging single mothers would lead to more single women not having immoral sex outside of wedlock.<\/p>\n His approach has a price tag. Stigmatized single mothers do not suffer alone\u2014their children suffer too. The price tag shows up in other ways\u2014in hastily aborted pregnancies, and, traditionally, in women forced to give up babies for adoption, to be given to \u201cbetter\u201d families. All of this price my opponent was willing to pay, if it only would mean fewer women having immoral premarital sex.<\/p>\n You could argue that this was really about abortion, and not about wanting to prevent\u00a0women from having immoral sex, as fewer women having premarital sex would mean fewer abortions, but that ignores two things\u2014reality, and birth control. Some women have always become pregnant out of wedlock, regardless of the stigma against single parents; trying to control the sexual behavior of millions of women is simply not realistic. Furthermore, there are ways to interrupt the connection between \u201cimmoral\u201d sexual behavior; promoting birth control access and use is a far more reliable solution than reinstituting or increasing\u00a0social shame.<\/p>\n Curious to what extent my opponent is typical, I came upon this argument in a\u00a02010\u00a0article by Robert Sirico<\/a>, also Catholic, published by the Acton Institute, a right-wing think tank:<\/p>\n In a peculiar ideological twist, some opponents of abortion are opposing cuts in aid to single mothers. Many prolifers including National Right to Life, fear that such reductions in benefits will lead to an increase in abortions. Even Henry Hyde has joined Patricia Shroeder in being skeptical of welfare reform.<\/p>\n If this argument persuades, it could weaken ties between the Republican party and the anti-abortion movement.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n Welfare reform, first passed in 1996, was\u00a0up for reauthorization in 2010, but I cannot find anything\u00a0National Right to Life opposing\u00a0it. Sirico\u2019s use of the names Patricia Shroeder (famous for opposing welfare reform in 1996) and Henry Hyde (famous for the Hyde Amendment, which blocks federal funding for abortions) is not a reference\u00a0not to actions of individuals (Shroeder left politics in the late 1990s and Hyde died in 2007).<\/p>\n Given similarity of\u00a0the anti-abortion group Feminists for Life\u2019s slogan\u2014\u201cwomen deserve better than abortion\u201d\u2014to\u00a0the Acton Institute article\u2019s title\u2014\u201cSingle Mothers Deserve Better\u201d\u2014and the existence of\u00a0a 2010 NPR spot<\/a>\u00a0in which Feminists for Life opposed welfare reform,\u00a0I\u2019m going to go out on a limb and suggest that Sirico was referring to this group\u2019s positions (perhaps he heard the NPR spot) and not to a greater pro-welfare movement within the mainstream of the anti-abortion movement (because I can\u2019t find one).<\/p>\n How does Sirico respond to the pro-welfare arguments made by Feminists for Life?<\/p>\n But is their concern legitimate? Should we continue to subsidize single motherhood for fear that poor mothers might otherwise terminate their pregnancies? The answer is no on both counts.<\/p>\n State subsidies to single mothers encourage promiscuity. The point of removing the subsidies is to restore the natural penalties of risking pregnancy outside of marriage.<\/p>\n A National Bureau of Economic Research study demonstrates that a lack of funds is a reason why many women do not get abortions.<\/p>\n How can we be sure, once welfare is cut back, that promiscuity among the poor will decline? We cannot. But there is good reason to think it will.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n \u00a0<\/p>\n State subsidies to single mothers encourage promiscuity<\/em>.<\/p>\n Consider the claim being made here\u2014that if single mothers didn\u2019t have access to welfare, unmarried low-income women would not have sex. I\u2019m having trouble picturing that. In pursuit of this, Sirico calls for restoring \u201cthe natural penalties of risking pregnancy outside of marriage.\u201d Those natural penalties included poverty, struggle, and social inclusion\u2014and they never fell on the woman alone. They also fell on her child.<\/p>\n If you wanted evidence that there are pro-lifers out there who care more about controlling women\u2019s\u00a0sexual behavior than they do about children, you need look no further.<\/p>\n As for Sirico\u2019s\u00a0claim that many women do not get abortions due to lack of funds, let me point out that raising a child costs a lot<\/em> more than having an abortion. If a woman is faced with the potential of raising a child alone with no government assistance\u2014as Sirico argues\u2014scraping together enough money for an abortion (borrowing from friends, etc.)\u00a0becomes only\u00a0more<\/em> important. Sirico\u00a0suggests that if we can keep women poor enough they won\u2019t be able to scrape together that money, leaving them to raise a child in even more<\/em> dire poverty.<\/p>\n What kind of twisted logic is<\/em> this?<\/p>\n Sirico claims that if we get rid of welfare people will donate more to charity and the private sphere can help women in these situations. This ignores the exact moralizing he is doing here. Seeking help from such as Sirico would almost certainly mean being shamed, blamed, and mistreated.<\/p>\n If abortion opponents\u2019\u00a0only concern were preventing abortions, supporting and destigmatizing single mothers would seem a natural step. Yet this is frequently not the case. This is baffling, because this piece of the puzzle seems so simple and obvious. One would think that, for abortion opponents, concern about sexual morality would take backseat to the literal murder of babies,<\/em> which is after all what they argue abortion is.\u00a0And yet for many\u2014including Sirico and the man I spent so long arguing with over Facebook messenger\u2014it does not.<\/p>\n Some\u00a0abortion opponents, of course,\u00a0argue that\u00a0the solution is not a reduction of stigma but a promotion of adoption. \u201cThe pro-life movement has long promoted adoption as an alternative for single mothers facing crisis pregnancy situations, offering them a viable alternative to abortion,\u201d reads National Right to Life\u2019s News Today<\/em><\/a>. But what of the single mother who does not want to give up her baby?<\/p>\n\n
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