{"id":4580,"date":"2012-06-06T13:18:18","date_gmt":"2012-06-06T17:18:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/lovejoyfeminism\/?p=4580"},"modified":"2012-08-07T16:20:15","modified_gmt":"2012-08-07T20:20:15","slug":"worthwhile-reads-making-up-with-your-child","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/lovejoyfeminism\/2012\/06\/worthwhile-reads-making-up-with-your-child.html","title":{"rendered":"Worthwhile Reads: Making up with your child"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>You remember when I talked recently about <a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/lovejoyfeminism\/2012\/05\/on-positive-parenting-and-saying-im-sorry.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">positive parenting and saying \u201cI\u2019m sorry?\u201d<\/a> Well, I recently came upon an <em>excellent <\/em>article on the same topic: \u201c<a href=\"http:\/\/www.authenticparenting.info\/2012\/06\/eleven-steps-for-healing-and-restoring.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Eleven Steps for Healing and Restoring the Peace after Being Harsh with Your Child<\/a>.\u201d Here are the eleven steps (be sure to read the full article!):<\/p>\n<p><strong>Calm yourself<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Accept your mistake<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t make excuses<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Reflect on your triggers<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Work on self regulation<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Release<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Gratitude list<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Re-Connect and Comfort<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Promise to do better<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Take care<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Forgiveness<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You remember when I talked recently about positive parenting and saying \u201cI\u2019m sorry?\u201d Well, I recently came upon an excellent article on the same topic: \u201cEleven Steps for Healing and Restoring the Peace after Being Harsh with Your Child.\u201d Here are the eleven steps (be sure to read the full article!): Calm yourself Accept your [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":845,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[108,19],"tags":[143],"class_list":["post-4580","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-parenting","category-worthwhile-reads","tag-positive-parenting"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.1 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Worthwhile Reads: Making up with your child<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"You remember when I talked recently about positive parenting and saying &quot;I&#039;m sorry?&quot; 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