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<\/a>UPDATE: Welcome readers from facebook and elsewhere! Please subscribe through the buttons at the right if you enjoy this post. <\/em><\/p>\n The spring of my sophomore year of college I was president of my university\u2019s Students for Life chapter. The fall of my junior year of college I cut my ties with the pro-life movement. Five years later I have lost the last shred of faith I had in that movement. This is my story.<\/p>\n I was raised in the sort of evangelical family where abortion is the number one political issue. I grew up believing that abortion was murder, and when I stopped identifying as pro-life I initially still believed that. Why, then, did I stop identifying as pro-life? Quite simply, I learned that increasing contraceptive use, not banning abortion,<\/em> was the key to decreasing the number of abortions. Given that the pro-life movement focuses on banning abortion and is generally opposed advocating greater contraceptive use<\/a>, I knew that I no longer fit. I also knew that my biggest allies in decreasing the number of abortions were those who supported increased birth control use \u2013 in other words, pro-choice progressives. And so I stopped calling myself pro-life.<\/p>\n My views on fetal personhood and women\u2019s bodily autonomy have shifted since that day, but when I first started blogging a year and a half ago I was nevertheless very insistent that the pro-life movement should be taken at its word when it came to rhetoric about saving \u201cunborn babies\u201d from being \u201cmurdered.\u201d I insisted<\/a> that the pro-life movement wasn\u2019t anti-woman or anti-sex<\/a>, and that those who opposed abortion genuinely believed that a zygote\/embryo\/fetus was a person with rights in need of protection just like any other person. I believed that the pro-life movement\u2019s actions were counterproductive, but that they were merely misinformed. I wrote a post<\/a> with practical suggestions for opponents of abortion. I believed that the pro-life movement was genuine in its goals, but simply ignorant about how its goals might best be obtained.<\/p>\n I have come to the conclusion that I was wrong.<\/p>\n As a child, teen, and college student, I sincerely believed that personhood, life, rights, and the soul all began at fertilization. I was honestly opposed to abortion because I believed it was murder. It had nothing to do with being anti-woman or anti-sex. I thought that the pro-life movement writ large \u2013 the major pro-life organizations, leaders, and politicians \u2013 were similarly genuine. I thought that they, like myself, simply wanted to \u201csave the lives of unborn babies.\u201d<\/p>\n I have come to the conclusion that I was a dupe.<\/p>\n What I want to share here is how I came to this realization. And if you, reader, are one of those who opposes abortion because you believe it is murder and you want to save the lives of unborn babies, well, I hope to persuade you that the pro-life movement is not actually your ally in this, that you have been misled, and that you would be more effective in decreasing the number of abortions that occur if you were to side with pro-choice progressives. If this is you, please hear me out before shaking your head.<\/p>\n My journey began one blustery day in October of 2007 when I came upon an article in the New York Times<\/a>. This article completely shook my perspective. It didn\u2019t change my belief that abortion was murder or my desire to save the lives of unborn babies. Instead, it simply completely overhauled my tactical focus and made me realize that the current efforts of the pro-life movement are extremely backwards.<\/p>\n The first thing I learned from that New York Times article shocked me: it turns out that banning abortion does not actually affect the abortion rate.<\/p>\n A comprehensive global study of abortion has concluded that abortion rates are similar in countries where it is legal and those where it is not, suggesting that outlawing the procedure does little to deter women seeking it.<\/p>\n Moreover, the researchers found that abortion was safe in countries where it was legal, but dangerous in countries where it was outlawed and performed clandestinely. Globally, abortion accounts for 13 percent of women\u2019s deaths during pregnancy<\/a> and childbirth, and there are 31 abortions for every 100 live births, the study said.<\/p>\n The results of the study, a collaboration between scientists from the World Health Organization<\/a> in Geneva and the Guttmacher Institute in New York, a reproductive rights group, are being published Friday in the journal Lancet.<\/p>\n \u201cWe now have a global picture of induced abortion in the world, covering both countries where it is legal and countries where laws are very restrictive,\u201d Dr. Paul Van Look, director of the W.H.O. Department of Reproductive Health and Research, said in a telephone interview. \u201cWhat we see is that the law does not influence a woman\u2019s decision to have an abortion. If there\u2019s an unplanned pregnancy, it does not matter if the law is restrictive or liberal.\u201d<\/p>\n But the legal status of abortion did greatly affect the dangers involved, the researchers said. \u201cGenerally, where abortion is legal it will be provided in a safe manner,\u201d Dr. Van Look said. \u201cAnd the opposite is also true: where it is illegal, it is likely to be unsafe, performed under unsafe conditions by poorly trained providers.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n I was flabbergasted upon reading this. I followed the link to the summary of the study, printed the entire thing out for reading over lunch, and then headed off to class. As I perused the study over a taco bowl in the student union later that day I wondered why I had never been told any of this. I was shocked to find that the countries with the lowest abortion rates are the ones where abortion is most legal and available, and the countries with the highest abortion rates are generally the ones where the practice is illegal. It\u2019s true<\/a>.<\/p>\n Highly restrictive abortion laws are not associated with lower abortion rates. For example, the abortion rate is 29 per 1,000 women of childbearing age in Africa and 32 per 1,000 in Latin America\u2014regions in which abortion is illegal under most circumstances in the majority of countries. The rate is 12 per 1,000 in Western Europe, where abortion is generally permitted on broad grounds.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n Banning abortion does not actually affect abortion rates<\/em>. I was could not have been more shocked. I learned that all banning abortion does is make abortion illegal \u2013 and unsafe. I found that almost 50,000 women worldwide die each year from unsafe abortions, and that many more experience serious injury or infertility. These deaths happen almost entirely in countries where abortion is illegal \u2013 and thus clandestine. In fact, when abortion was made legal in South Africa, the number of abortion related deaths fell by over 90%<\/em>.<\/p>\n Overturning Roe, I realized, would not make women stop having abortions. Instead, it would simply punish women who have abortions by requiring them to risk their health to do so. This is all well and good if the goal is to punish women for seeking abortions, but if the goal is to keep unborn babies from being murdered, this is extremely ineffective.<\/p>\n But if banning abortion does not decrease abortion rates, what does? Why do some countries have low abortion rates while others have much higher rates? The answer, I found, was simple<\/a>.<\/p>\n Both the lowest and highest subregional abortion rates are in Europe, where abortion is generally legal under broad grounds. In Western Europe, the rate is 12 per 1,000 women, while in Eastern Europe it is 43. The discrepancy in rates between the two regions reflects relatively low contraceptive use in Eastern Europe, as well as a high degree of reliance on methods with relatively high user failure rates, such as the condom, withdrawal and the rhythm method.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n As I sat there in the student union reading over my lunch, I found that making birth control widespread and easily accessible is actually the most effective way to decrease the abortion rate. Even as I processed this fact, I knew that the pro-life movement as a whole generally opposes things like comprehensive sex education and making birth control available to teenagers. I knew this because I had lived it, had heard it in pro-life banquet after pro-life banquet, had read it in the literature. The pro-life movement is anti-birth-control. And opposing birth control is pretty much the most ineffective way to decrease abortion rates imaginable. In fact, opposing birth control actually drives the abortion rates up.<\/p>\n As I mulled this over, I realized how very obvious it was. The cause of abortions is unwanted pregnancies. If you get rid of unwanted pregnancies the number of people who seek abortions will drop like a rock. Simply banning abortion leaves women stuck with unwanted pregnancies. Banning abortion doesn\u2019t make those pregnancies wanted<\/em>. Many women in a situation like that will be willing to do anything to end that pregnancy, even if it means trying to induce their own abortions (say, with a coat hanger or by drinking chemicals) or seeking out illegal abortions. I realized that the real way to reduce abortion rates, then, was to reduce the number of unwanted pregnancies. And the way to do that is with birth control, which reduces the number of unwanted pregnancies by allowing women to control when and if they become pregnant.<\/p>\n I realized that the only world in which opposing birth control made any sense was one in which the goal was to control women\u2019s sex lives. After all, birth control allows women to have sex without having to face the \u201cconsequences\u201d of sex. But I had never opposed abortion in an effort to make women face the \u201cconsequences\u201d of having sex. I had always opposed abortion out of a desire to save the lives of unborn babies. As a child, I had been moved to tears by the image of millions of babies murdered by abortion each year. If making it easier for women to have sex I personally believed was sinful was the price I had to pay to save the lives of unborn babies, it was a price I was more than willing to pay.<\/p>\n As my next class approached, I put the printout back in my backpack and walked out into the October sun. My mind was in turmoil, but there was one thing I knew for sure. I could no longer call myself pro-life, because I could no longer support the policies advocated by the pro-life movement and the major pro-life organizations. I no longer wanted to see Roe overturned or abortion banned. Instead, I wanted to work towards a world in which everyone has access to affordable birth control and unplanned pregnancies are reduced to a bare minimum. That day I became pro-choice.<\/p>\n In the five years since that day in October, I have rethought many things. I no longer believe that abortion is murder because I no longer hold that a zygote, embryo, or fetus is a \u201cperson.\u201d I also came to realize that the focus on personhood ignores the fact that a zygote, embryo, or fetus is growing inside of another person\u2019s body<\/em>. For a variety of reasons, I see birth as the key dividing line. But even as my position shifted, I was still willing to give the pro-life movement the benefit of the doubt. Why? Because I believed that the pro-life movement\u2019s opposition to birth control stemmed not from a desire to control women\u2019s sex lives but rather from the belief that the pill was an \u201cabortifacient<\/a>.\u201d This meant that the pro-life movement could oppose abortion as murder and yet also oppose birth control without actually being inconsistent. But in the last few months I have read several things that have shaken this belief.<\/p>\n Let me preface this with a quick biology lesson. Every month, a woman\u2019s body releases an egg into the Fallopian tubes. If there is sperm there waiting, the egg becomes fertilized, and this fertilized egg has its own unique DNA. This is when I was taught life \u2013 including personhood and the bestowing of a soul \u2013 began. This fertilized egg, or zygote, then travels from the Fallopian tubes to the uterus, where it implants in the uterine wall. That is when pregnancy begins.<\/p>\n Now, the birth control pill works primarily by preventing ovulation in the first place, and also by impeding sperm so that it can\u2019t get to the Fallopian tubes to fertilize the egg. But leading organizations in the pro-life movement argue that there is some chance that women on the pill will have \u201cbreakthrough ovulation,\u201d and if this occurs and sperm somehow make their way into the Fallopian tubes, you could technically end up with a fertilized egg. Pro-life organizations further suggest that because the pill also thins the uterine lining, this fertilized egg would be flushed out of a woman\u2019s body through her vagina rather than implanting in her uterus.<\/p>\n Here is how a Life Issues Institute article describes this<\/a>:<\/p>\n The estrogen level is so low that it doesn\u2019t suppress ovulation all of the time \u2026, and sometimes there is what we call a breakthrough ovulation \u2013 ovulation which breaks through the effect of the drug and is simply a plain old ovulation. It just happens. Fertilization, then, can occur. But if fertilization occurs, implantation within the nutrient lining of the womb is prevented by another action of the same pill. That action is a hardening of the lining of the womb. What occurs, then, is an induced micro-abortion at one week of life.<\/p>\n How frequent is breakthrough ovulation in a woman taking a low-estrogen contraceptive pill? Well, let\u2019s take a high estimate \u2013 20%. Probably lower than that. How frequently does pregnancy occur when an egg or an ovum is waiting? Probably not much more than two or three times out of the twenty.<\/p>\n So if we use a high figure, a 20% breakthrough ovulation, that would mean a two or three percent fertilization rate. But, as a matter of fact, pregnancy occurs only about 1% or less of the time, so, in the other 1 or 2%, fertilization does occur, implantation cannot occur, and the little embryonic baby dies.<\/p>\n The bottom line, then, for the commonly used contraceptive pill is this: in 97 or 98% of the time, the effect is one of preventing pregnancy. But, in perhaps two or more percent of the time, the effect is abortifacient. There is no way in the normal clinical practice of knowing which is happening, or when.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n When I learned that birth control, not banning abortion, was the best way to decrease abortion, I knew about this argument. However, I concluded that the small number of times this might happen was outweighed by the number of abortions the widespread use of birth control would prevent. Yet even though that was my conclusion, I could at least understand why those in the pro-life movement almost universally opposed the pill and other forms of hormonal birth control. I was willing to give them the benefit of the doubt and assume that, even though I thought they were misguided in their tactics, they really did simply want to \u201csave the lives of unborn babies.\u201d And give them the benefit of the doubt I did.<\/p>\n I later learned that an increasing pile of evidence suggests<\/a> that the pill does not<\/em> actually result in fertilized eggs being flushed out of a woman\u2019s body. I began to feel that the pro-life movement had no qualms with twisting the scientific evidence if need be, which was confusing because there didn\u2019t seem to be a motive for insisting on the belief that the pill causes abortions if scientific evidence indicated the contrary. I also found that the pro-life movement is not afraid of twisting the evidence when it comes to things like the supposed harmful side effects<\/a> of abortion, such as depression<\/a> and breast cancer<\/a>. Cooking up \u201cscientific facts\u201d in an effort to scare women out of having abortions rather than working to encourage birth control use in an effort to reduce the number of unintended pregnancies seemed extremely backwards, and I became increasingly troubled by the way the pro-life movement treated science and their constant willingness to play fast and loose with the facts.<\/p>\n Because I knew that the pro-life movement believed that the pill causes abortions, though, I could on some level understand why they opposed it, and I continued to give them the benefit of the doubt on that score. That is, until I read this blog post<\/a> by Sarah.<\/p>\n The anti-birth control crowd leaves out one very important fact: a woman\u2019s body naturally <\/em>rejects at least 18% of fertilized eggs. This means that if you have unprotected sex that leads to the fertilization of an egg (30% chance of successful fertilization), the resulting zygote has an 18% chance of being rejected by the uterus. The human body naturally <\/em>performs \u201cabortions\u201d almost 20% of the time. So does taking birth control actually increase the chances of zygote abortion, or does birth control actually reduce <\/em>the chances of this occurring? Let\u2019s do the math.<\/p>\n Without Birth Control:<\/strong><\/p>\n With Birth Control:<\/strong><\/p>\n So let\u2019s get this straight, taking birth control makes a woman\u2019s body LESS likely to dispel fertilized eggs. If you believe that life begins at conception, shouldn\u2019t it be your moral duty to reduce the number of zygote \u201cabortions?\u201d If you believe that a zygote is a human, you actually kill more babies by refusing to take birth control.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n I have to be honest, this blog post totally shocked me. I wondered about the numbers Sarah used, so I went looking for verification. As I did this I opted to use the pro-life movement\u2019s own numbers on the rate of fertilized eggs that fail to implant for women on the pill. Remember, once again, that scientific studies have found again and again that the pill does not result in fertilized eggs failing to implant<\/em>. However, I felt that if I used the pro-life movement\u2019s own numbers I could not be accused of simply using studies with a liberal bias. And so I explored the numbers<\/a>. What I found was that Sarah\u2019s numbers were off. What I found was that for every 100 fertile women on birth control each month, only 0.15 fertilized eggs will be flushed out. In contrast, for every 100 fertile women not on birth control in a given month, 16 fertilized eggs will be flushed out. In other words, Sarah\u2019s numbers were far too conservative. She was more right than she knew. It is the people not<\/em> using birth control that are \u201cmurdering\u201d the most \u201cchildren,\u201d not<\/em> women on the pill.<\/p>\n After reading Sarah\u2019s article and doing the math using the pro-life movement\u2019s own numbers, I concluded that the idea that the pill is an abortifacient is used as a smokescreen. It has to be. If the pro-life movement believes that even a very small chance of a zygote being flushed out is enough reason to oppose the use of the pill, then there should be an extreme amount of concern about the much, much<\/em> higher number of fertilized eggs flushed out of the bodies of women not<\/em> using the pill. Anyone who really thinks about it cannot help but come to the conclusion that if your goal is to save \u201cunborn babies,\u201d and if you truly believe that a zygote \u2013 a fertilized egg \u2013 has the same value and worth as you or I \u2013 the only responsible thing to do is to put every sexually active woman on the pill. Sure, according to the pro-life movement\u2019s figures a few fertilized eggs would still fail to implant and thus \u201cdie,\u201d once again according to their own figures, an enormous<\/em> number of these \u201cdeaths\u201d would be prevented.<\/p>\n And yet, the pro-life movement still up the pill as a great evil. Pro-life doctors often refuse to prescribe the pill, and pro-life pharmacists refuse to fill prescriptions for it. This makes utterly no sense unless the point is not \u201csaving unborn babies\u201d but rather making sure that women who dare to have sex have to face the \u201cconsequences,\u201d i.e. pregnancy and children. As I thought through all of the implications of Sarah\u2019s article, the benefit of the doubt that I had been giving the pro-life movement began to falter. How could they justify opposing the pill when putting sexually active women on the pill would actually save<\/em> the lives of unborn babies?<\/p>\n A few months after reading Sarah\u2019s article I came upon one by Fred Clark. In it, he argues that if those who oppose abortion really believe that every fertilized egg is a person we ought to see 5K fundraisers to save these zygotes<\/a>. This is very much like what I said above, except that the focus here is whether the 50% of all zygotes \u2013 50% of all fertilized eggs \u2013 that die before pregnancy even begins could be saved. Fred suggests that if the pro-life movement really is about saving unborn babies, and if those in the pro-life movement really do believe that life begins at fertilization, then pro-lifers really ought to be extremely concerned about finding a way to save all of these lives. But they\u2019re not.<\/p>\n Name a disease and there\u2019s a charitable research foundation committed to finding a cure, and for just about every such foundation there\u2019s a corresponding 5k race or walkathon, lemonade stand, bake sale, golf tournament, banquet, concert, gala or festival to raise funds.<\/p>\n But for the biggest killer of them all, there\u2019s nothing.<\/p>\n No 5k or 10k. No walkathon. No foundation promoting research. No research<\/em>.<\/p>\n The deadly scourge that claims half of all human lives<\/em> ever conceived is completely ignored.<\/p>\n Here\u2019s Jonathan Dudley discussing this killer in his book Broken Words<\/em><\/a>:<\/p>\n Due to hormone imbalances, genetic anomalies, and a number of unknown factors, between 50 percent and 75 percent of embryos fail to implant in the uterus and are passed with the monthly menstrual flow. If we agree with pro-life advocates that every embryo is as morally valuable as an adult human, this means that more than half of humans immediately die. This fact provides pro-life advocates with an opportunity to follow through on their convictions. Surely, a moral response to a pandemic of this magnitude would be to rally the scientific community to devote the vast majority of its efforts to better understanding why this happens and trying to stop it. Yet the same pro-life leaders who declare that every embryo is morally equivalent to a fully developed child have done nothing to advocate such research. \u2026 Even if medicine could save only 10 percent of these embryos \u2014 and we don\u2019t know because no one has cared enough to ask \u2014 it would be saving more lives than curing HIV, diabetes, and malaria combined.<\/strong> One could say that this massive loss of human life is natural, and therefore, humans are under no obligation to end it. But it is not clear why the same argument could not be used to justify complacency in the face of AIDS, cancer, heart disease, and other natural causes of human death.<\/p>\n For anyone who genuinely believes the pro-life argument that \u201cevery embryo is morally equivalent to a fully developed child,\u201d the sort of research Dudley describes ought to be an inescapable obligation.<\/p>\n And yet there are no charitable events to support the foundations funding such research. No such foundations exist to be supported. No such research exists to be funded.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n Reading Fred\u2019s article compounded what I had felt reading Sarah\u2019s article. The pro-life movement is not about \u201csaving unborn babies.\u201d It can\u2019t be. As someone who as a child and teen really did believe that life \u2013 personhood \u2013 began at fertilization, and who really was in it to \u201csave unborn babies,\u201d this is baffling. If I had known all this, I would have been all for this sort of research. I would have been all for sexually active women using the pill to cut down on \u201cdeaths.\u201d But I didn\u2019t know any of this. The adults of the anti-abortion movement, though, and certainly the leaders, they surely must know these things. This isn\u2019t rocket science, after all. They must<\/em> know these things, and yet they are doing nothing<\/em>.<\/p>\n Reading Sarah and Fred\u2019s articles and then thinking them through and doing some research made me realize that those in the pro-life movement, or at least the leaders of the pro-life movement, are incredibly inconsistent. You simply can\u2019t be against the pill for fear that it will result in flushed out zygotes and yet not concerned at all about the vastly greater number of zygotes flushed out naturally every day. At least, not if you really truly believe a zygote has the same worth as an infant, toddler, or adult, and not if you\u2019re truly motivated solely by a desire to save the lives of these \u201cunborn babies.\u201d Fresh off of these thoughts, I came upon two news articles on the subject in the last week that have completely shattered the last bit of faith I had in the pro-life movement.<\/p>\n Those who oppose abortion are all set to vote for Romney because he has done things like voice approval for the personhood amendment, which would ban abortion, but what they don\u2019t seem to realize is that, as I found out for the first time last week, Obama has already done more to reduce the number of abortions<\/a> than any other president ever has or ever will.<\/p>\n On October 3, researchers at the Washington University School of Medicine published a study<\/a> with profound implications for policy making in the United States. According to Dr. Jeffery Peipert, the study\u2019s lead author, abortion rates can be expected to decline significantly\u2014perhaps up to 75 percent<\/em>\u2014when contraceptives are made available to women free of charge. Declaring himself \u201cvery surprised\u201d at the results, Peipert requested expedient publication of the study, noting its relevance to the upcoming election.<\/p>\n As most observers surely know, the Affordable Care Act (a.k.a. \u201cObamacare\u201d) requires insurance coverage for birth control, a provision staunchly opposed by most of the same religious conservatives who oppose legalized abortion. If Peipert is correct, however, the ACA may prove the single most effective piece of \u201cpro-life\u201d legislation in the past forty years.<\/p>\n \u2026<\/p>\n In the Affordable Care Act\u2019s contraception mandate, we have a previously unimaginable opportunity for satisfying compromise on abortion. In accordance with liberal demands, the procedure will remain safe and legal, and reproductive choices will be extended to those who have been unable to afford them in the past. In exchange, conservatives will see abortion rates plummet, achieving a result comparable to that of illegality but without the fierce controversy or government imposition in the lives of individuals.<\/p>\n I am not so na\u00efve as to believe that this conclusion is likely to be reached soon, or without further contest. Nor do I anticipate that Tom Minnery or Bryan Fischer will embrace President Obama as a pro-life hero. But it seems to me that, if conservatives really believe in the evil of abortion, they are morally obligated to embrace a policy that stands to limit it so impressively.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n Obamacare stands to cut abortion rates by 75%<\/em>. And yet, the pro-life movement has been leveraged in opposition to Obamacare, and most especially in opposition to the birth control mandate. They don\u2019t believe women should be guaranteed access to free contraception even though this access is the number one proven best way to decrease the number of abortions<\/em>. That access would, to use the rhetoric of the pro-life movement, prevent the murders of 900,000 unborn babies<\/em> every year.<\/p>\n When I was pro-life, I truly believed it was about saving unborn babies. If I had seen a study like the one above \u2013 that making birth control available free of charge would cut the number of abortions by 75% \u2013 I would have immediately supported the requirement that all insurance companies offer birth control without copay. We\u2019re talking about hundreds of thousands of lives<\/em>. I cried about this as a child, cried about all the deaths. I felt guilty that I was one who had survived the abortion \u201cholocaust.\u201d Saving hundreds of thousands of these lives a year? I would have jumped at the idea!<\/p>\n And yet, the pro-life movement is fighting tooth and nail to repeal the very act they should be praising to the rooftops. In fact, some of them don\u2019t even just think birth control shouldn\u2019t be covered without copay, they don\u2019t think birth control should be covered at all<\/em><\/a>. When I read this study and thought about the pro-life response to Obamacare, I was baffled. Dumbstruck. But it gets worse.<\/p>\n One thing I realized back in 2007 is that, given that six in ten women who have abortions already have at least one child and that three quarters of women who have abortions report that they cannot afford another child, if we want to bring abortion rates down we need to make sure that women can always afford to carry their pregnancies to term. Maternity and birth is expensive, adding your child to your health care plan is expensive, daycare is expensive, and on and on it goes. Raising children costs money, and women who have abortions know that<\/a>.<\/p>\n The reasons women give for having an abortion underscore their understanding of the responsibilities of parenthood and family life. Three-fourths of women cite concern for or responsibility to other individuals; three-fourths say they cannot afford a child; three-fourths say that having a baby would interfere with work, school or the ability to care for dependents; and half say they do not want to be a single parent or are having problems with their husband or partner.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n I realized, then, that if the goal is to cut the abortion rate, the pro-life movement should be working to make sure that women can afford to have and care for children. After all, a full three quarters of women who have abortions say they could not afford a child<\/em>. If we found a way to offer more aid to parents, if we mandated things like paid maternity leave, subsidized childcare, and universal health insurance for pregnant women and for children, some women who would otherwise abort would almost certainly decide to carry their pregnancies to term. But the odd thing is, those who identify as \u201cpro-life\u201d are most adamant in opposing these kind of reforms<\/em>. I knew this back in 2007, because I grew up in one of those families. I grew up believing that welfare should be abolished, that Head Start needed to be eliminated, that medicaid just enabled people to be lazy. I grew up in a family that wanted to abolish some of the very programs with the potential to decrease the number of abortions. When I shifted my position on this issue, I was in many ways simply becoming consistent.<\/p>\n With the advent of the Tea Party movement and new calls for a small government and for cutting things like welfare and food stamps, those who claim to believe abortion is murder, who claim to want to bring abortion rates down, have only done further damage to what credibility they had left in my eyes. And lately, it\u2019s gotten worse. You see, in some cases conservatives are actively working to make it harder for poor women to afford to carry unintended pregnancies to term<\/a>.<\/p>\n A Pennsylvania House bill<\/a> seeks to limit the amount of TANF assistance that low-income women receive based on the amount of children they give birth to while covered under the program.<\/p>\n Despite the fact that low-income women who give birth to children would logically need increased assistance to care for their larger family, Pennsylvania lawmakers \u2014 State Reps. RoseMarie Swanger (R), Tom Caltagirone (D), Mark Gillen (R), Keith Gillespie (R), Adam Harris (R), and Mike Tobash (R) \u2014 don\u2019t want their state\u2019s welfare program to provide additional benefits for that newborn. If a woman gives birth to a child who was conceived from rape, she may seek an exception to this rule so that her welfare benefits aren\u2019t slashed, but only if she can provide proof <\/a>that she reported her sexual assault and her abuser\u2019s identity to the police<\/p><\/blockquote>\n In other words, this bill would make it so that if a poor woman gets pregnant, she has to decide whether to have an abortion or whether to carry to term, have the baby, and see her welfare benefits slashed, taking food out of the mouths of the children she is already struggling to feed. I want to say I\u2019m surprised, but I\u2019m really not, because I\u2019m remembering rumblings underneath the polished surface of the things I was taught. This idea that women shouldn\u2019t \u201cspread their legs\u201d if they\u2019re not ready to raise the results of their promiscuity, that the government shouldn\u2019t be expected to pick up the tab for some slut\u2019s inability to say no. As a teen and a young adult, I never thought about how inconsistent these ideas were with the \u201csaving unborn babies\u201d pro-life rhetoric I so strongly believed in. But they are. If it\u2019s all about \u201csaving unborn babies,\u201d it shouldn\u2019t matter how those unborn babies are conceived, or whether their mothers are rich or poor, married or not.<\/p>\n If those who oppose abortion really believes that abortion is murder, they should be supporting programs that would make it easier for poor women to afford<\/em> to carry pregnancies to term. Instead, they\u2019re doing the opposite. Overwhelmingly, those who oppose abortion also want to cut welfare and medicaid. Without these programs, the number of women who choose abortion because they cannot afford to carry a given pregnancy to term will rise<\/em>. Further, they are working against things like paid maternity leave, subsidized daycare, and universal health insurance for children, programs which would likely decrease<\/em> the number of women who choose abortion because they cannot afford to carry a pregnancy to term. And in this specific case, conservatives want to penalize<\/em> a poor woman who chooses to carry a pregnancy to term by making it harder for her to make ends meet.<\/p>\n This makes utterly no sense if the goal is to save babies<\/em>.<\/p>\n After reading that last article just a couple days ago, I realized something. I am done making excuses for the pro-life movement. I am done trying to explain that the movement is not anti-woman. I am done trying to insist that the movement really is simply trying to \u201csave unborn babies.\u201d I\u2019m done because it\u2019s not true<\/em>. The pro-life movement supports the exact policies that will keep abortion rates high. It is those who believe in choice<\/em> who support policies that will bring the abortion rates down.<\/p>\n I was a dupe. <\/em>I\u2019m ready to admit it now.<\/p>\n The reality is that so-called pro-life movement is not about saving babies. It\u2019s about regulating sex. That\u2019s why they oppose birth control. That\u2019s why they want to ban abortion even though doing so will simply drive women to have dangerous back alley abortions. That\u2019s why they want to penalize women who take public assistance and then dare to have sex, leaving an exemption for those who become pregnant from rape. It\u2019s not about babies. If it were about babies, they would be making access to birth control widespread and free and creating a comprehensive social safety net so that no woman finds herself with a pregnancy she can\u2019t afford. They would be raising money for research on why half of all zygotes fail to implant and working to prevent miscarriages. It\u2019s not about babies. It\u2019s about controlling women. It\u2019s about making sure they have consequences for having unapproved sex.<\/p>\n But I am very sure that there are other dupes out there. If you\u2019re sitting there reading this thinking \u201cbut I really am in it to save unborn babies,\u201d<\/em> I am sure you\u2019re not alone. After all, I was one of you.<\/p>\n If you are one who has been a part of the pro-life movement because you really do believe in \u201csaving unborn babies,\u201d it\u2019s time to cut your ties with the movement. You may be an honest and kind-hearted person, but you\u2019ve been had. You\u2019ve been taken in. It\u2019s time to let go. It\u2019s time to support Obamacare\u2019s birth control mandate, it\u2019s time to call off opposition to birth control, and it\u2019s time to get behind progressive programs that help provide for poor women and their children. It\u2019s time to make your actions consistent with your motives. While I am myself no longer morally opposed to abortion, I and others like me share your desire to decrease the number of unplanned pregnancies and to ensure that every woman can afford the option of keeping her pregnancy.<\/p>\n We\u2019d love to have you join us.<\/p>\n Addenda: <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Before commenting, see\u00a0my comment policy<\/a>. I<\/em>f you liked what you read here, have a look at my\u00a0welcome note for new readers<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n For followup posts on issues addressed here, see:\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n A Response to Objections on my Pro-Life Movement Post<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n More On Laws And Abortion: A Response to Bad Catholic<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n If You Don\u2019t Want a Baby, Just Don\u2019t Have Sex?<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n Okay Then, Let\u2019s Talk about Natural Family Planning<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n \u00a0A Paradigm Shift: My \u201cAha\u201d Moment on Abortion<\/em><\/a><\/p>\nChanging Tactics and Breaking Ties<\/h1>\n
Banning Abortion Does Not Decrease Abortion Rates<\/h3>\n
The Real Solution: Birth Control<\/h3>\n
What about the Zygote?<\/h2>\n
Does the Pill Kill?<\/h3>\n
The Biggest Killer: A Woman\u2019s Own Body<\/h3>\n
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Why No 5K to Save the Zygotes?<\/h3>\n
The Ultimate Hypocrisy<\/h2>\n
Barack Obama, Pro-Life Hero?<\/h3>\n
Making It Harder to Afford Children<\/h3>\n
Conclusion<\/h1>\n