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Over at\u00a0Relief<\/em>, my friend Ross Gale writes about re-reading the past, and writing a different future:<\/p>\n

A recently divorced friend told me how he and his ex-wife have different stories about how they met. His version is that he approached her at a party. Her version is that she introduced herself in a class. They fought about what actually happened not because they wanted to be right, but because of what the versions meant. Their unique stories portrayed each other in different lights and reflected what they believed about themselves and the other. A different story gave them a different interpretation about their past and that interpretation had influence on their future.<\/span><\/p>\n

What if we used multiple interpretations of the same story to our advantage?<\/p>\n

Read the rest here.<\/a><\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"