{"id":3233,"date":"2014-11-07T03:10:50","date_gmt":"2014-11-07T03:10:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/merebreath\/?p=3233"},"modified":"2014-11-07T03:10:50","modified_gmt":"2014-11-07T03:10:50","slug":"help-for-hurting-wives","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/merebreath\/2014\/11\/07\/help-for-hurting-wives\/","title":{"rendered":"Help for Hurting Wives"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>Check out this excellent post, <a href=\"http:\/\/tolovehonorandvacuum.com\/2014\/10\/trauma-husbands-porn-use-8-steps-dealing\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">The Trauma of Your Husband\u2019s Porn Use<\/a>, for eight practical tips on how to deal with pornography in your marriage. Number two is, <em>\u201cFind a way to reach out. This can be a tricky place for women. Who do you tell? Many women don\u2019t want to \u201cexpose their husbands\u201d and so carry the burden of \u201cthe secret\u201d as well as their own trauma. Find someone. Tell a spiritual leader, a therapist, or a 12-step group. This experience is too difficult to navigate alone.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Check out this excellent post, The Trauma of Your Husband\u2019s Porn Use, for eight practical tips on how to deal with pornography in your marriage. Number two is, \u201cFind a way to reach out. This can be a tricky place for women. Who do you tell? 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