By Timothy Askew; reprinted from Inc<\/a>. with the kind permission of Timothy Askew.<\/em> Most of us make New Year\u2019s resolutions. I don\u2019t mean to be a downer, but the odds of instituting big changes, and even incremental ones, are not high. At least that is historically true for me. Certainly lots of studies reveal that our New Year\u2019s resolutions usually fail.<\/p>\n This does not mean that we are all creatures of invertebrate inadequacy. It does mean that it is damn hard to change.<\/p>\n I believe all businessmen need to change regularly. And not just incrementally change, meaning doing better and better what we already do well. I\u2019m talking about bone-deep change. But is this possible outside the purview of religious revelation like Moses\u2019 burning bush or Paul on the road to Damascus?<\/p>\n I don\u2019t believe long-term change comes from just analyzing what I am doing wrong and \u201cfixing\u201d it or \u201cmaking it better,\u201d whether it be losing weight, starting a business, or stopping smoking. My experience is that change comes first from finding who I really am and then choosing a living dream based in that. Many people call this integral dream hope. Hope is fundamental to my dreaming and I can not move forward to achieve that dream till I know who I am as a guidepost to reaching for my entrepreneurial dream. As Yogi Berra supposedly said, \u201cIf you don\u2019t know where you are going, you might wind up someplace else.\u201d<\/p>\n All innovative entrepreneurs are creatures of dreams based in hope. And dreams are the source of disruption and the impossible.<\/p>\n For me personally, two things have specifically grounded me and enabled basic change. The first was AA and several of its concomitant 12 Step programs. Through it I was able to overcome escapist entropy and habit\u2013habit that covered the gamut of the Seven Deadly Sins and made me kind of a useless, louche narcissist\u2013and change into a more useful, functional soul. (If you want to read more about this try my Inc column, \u201cAddiction and Entrepreneurship.\u201d<\/a>)<\/p>\n The second thing that worked for me was fairly recent. It was something called the Executive Reinvention Program led by leadership guru Tracy Goss, who wrote the best-seller The Last Word On Power<\/em>. I personally hate gurus (not a term Goss would use for herself). But Goss\u2019 rather radical approach bloody well has had a profound effect on me. What her two week process of change demands is that you begin by abandoning everything that you think works for you and makes you successful, charming, and effective, so as to open up the untapped fullness of your personal truth. She calls this \u201cThe Impossible.\u201d (For more, read my personal blog \u201cOvercoming Success and Transformational Entrepreneurship\u201d<\/a>)<\/p>\n There are truly lots of paths to real, bone-deep change. They all involve becoming a persistent and fundamental change agent in yourself. Here are just two. Bill Gates went from being your stereotypical computer nerd, the kind you probably mocked in high school, to becoming a courageous entrepreneur, then morphing into a ruthless monopolist, and lately becoming the greatest philanthropist in history. And consider the recently deceased Nelson Mandela. He started out as an arrogant asshole\u2013violent, antisocial, aggressive\u2013and became one of the greatest moral figures of history, in the pantheon of non-violent resistance with Gandhi and Martin Luther King.<\/p>\n Constant change is essential for the creative entrepreneur. It needs to be built into the cake. So, if it ain\u2019t broke, break it. Regularly. Make it your New Year\u2019s resolution. As Jack Welch puts it, \u201cChange before you have to.\u201d<\/p>\n British writer and thinker C.S. Lewis said, \u201cIt may be hard for an egg to turn into a bird: it would be a jolly sight harder for it to learn to fly while remaining an egg. We are like eggs at present. And we cannot go on indefinitely being just an ordinary, decent egg. We constantly must be hatched or go bad.\u201d Thanks, C.S. Lewis.<\/p>\n By Timothy Askew; reprinted from Inc. with the kind permission of Timothy Askew. Most of us make New Year\u2019s resolutions. 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\n<\/em><\/p>\n<\/a>Tim Askew is the owner of sales firm Corporate Rain International<\/a> and a member of the Inc. Business Owners Council.<\/a>\u00a0<\/span>He has several advanced degrees, and has been a tennis pro, actor, opera singer, Broadway producer, dishwasher, bartender, minister, and college assistant dean. Askew is the author of the new book The Poetry of Small Business<\/a>\u00a0<\/span>(available on Amazon).\u00a0<\/em> @TimothyAskew<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"