{"id":4274,"date":"2009-07-27T00:00:05","date_gmt":"2009-07-27T08:00:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/muslimahmediawatch.org\/?p=4274"},"modified":"2009-07-27T00:00:05","modified_gmt":"2009-07-27T08:00:05","slug":"honour-killings-and-canadian-values","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/mmw\/2009\/07\/honour-killings-and-canadian-values\/","title":{"rendered":"“Honour Killings” and “Canadian Values”"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<\/head>

Three family members have recently been charged<\/a> in the deaths of three teenage sisters and a female relative.\u00a0 The three girls\u2013Zainab, Sahar, and Geeti Shafia\u2013and their father\u2019s first wife, Rona Mohammed, were found dead in a car that had been submerged in the Rideau Canal.\u00a0 Innaa lillahi wa innaa ilayhi raaji`oun<\/em> (to God we belong and to God we will return.)<\/p>\n

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An old picture of the three sisters. Image via the CBC. <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Because the three accused of the murder are the parents and older brother of the girls, and because the family, although currently living in Montreal, is originally from Afghanistan, it was inevitable that all of the media coverage of the case would involve speculations about \u201chonor killings.\u201d<\/p>\n

No matter how you talk about it, the story is heartbreaking.\u00a0 The three girls were only 19, 17, and 13, and their deaths, as well as that of Ms. Mohammed, are tragic regardless of the circumstances and the politics.\u00a0 May Allah grant them all peace and justice.<\/p>\n

My focus here is on the media responses, not because it\u2019s more important to focus on media than to consider the tragedy of the case, but because this blog exists to discuss media representations of Muslim women.\u00a0 Unfortunately, I\u2019ve too much academic work on my plate this weekend to be able to do as extensive an overview as I\u2019d like of the articles and opinion pieces that have arisen in response to the arrests.\u00a0 See here<\/a>, here<\/a>, here<\/a>, and here<\/a> for some of the stuff that\u2019s been said, and draw your own conclusions (I\u2019m not linking to the extra-offensive articles, because I don\u2019t think that \u201cMuslims are all violent and hate women\u201d is really a useful perspective in any of these debates.)\u00a0 This article<\/a> has some interesting comments from members of Montreal\u2019s Afghan community condemning the murders.\u00a0 For background on the use of the term \u201chonor killing,\u201d see these<\/a> two<\/a> previous MMW<\/em> posts.\u00a0 I\u2019d be interested in seeing some of your reactions in the comments section of this post.<\/p>\n

What I do want to highlight here is one article<\/a> in particular that, I think, starts off by doing a good job of criticizing the simplicity and selectivity of the knee-jerk reaction of \u201cwow, those Muslims\/Afghans are so barbaric and oppressive, unlike us peaceful and tolerant Canadians.\u201d\u00a0 (As I\u2019ll discuss later, the ending of the article is less impressive.)\u00a0 It begins:<\/p>\n

Police reticence to attribute a motive in the Shafia family case has tempted some people across Canada to jump to the conclusion that these were \u201chonour\u201d killings. The victims were female, the family is from Afghanistan, it\u2019s hard to imagine any other motive, so what more proof could be needed?<\/p>\n

The Gazette <\/em>has received a number of letters denouncing this as a crime of religion and\/or primitive culture and tarring the whole Muslim population. Many Canadian Muslims now dread a backlash, from hard looks to overt prejudice, vandalism, or even violence.<\/p>\n

Charges of first-degree murder and conspiracy indicate that police and the Crown believe they can prove their case. Motive will be part of that. But until the trial, those eager to defend the \u201cCanadian value\u201d of equality for women should remember that our values also include the presumption of innocence. And they exclude guilt by association. Nobody should forget that the great majority of Canadian Muslims are honest, peaceful, and law-abiding.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

The article is actually an editorial from the Montreal Gazette<\/em>, which made me extra impressed with these paragraphs, since they represent the newspaper\u2019s official position against jumping to conclusions and using stereotypes to label entire communities.\u00a0 It even demonstrates an awareness that a newspaper has a responsibility not to feed into the widespread fear-mongering that can arise in response to stories like this.<\/p>\n

Moreover, the point that it makes is important: that those who berate Muslims for their supposed incompatibility with \u201cCanadian values\u201d are in fact violating other \u201cCanadian values\u201d in the process, namely those of \u201cpresumption of innocence\u201d and avoiding \u201cguilt by association.\u201d\u00a0 And that if people truly think that \u201cCanadian values\u201d are worthwhile, then it\u2019s hypocritical to hold some up on a pedestal, while letting others fall to the wayside, depending on what is most convenient.<\/p>\n

That said, the article takes a turn for the worse towards the end, and concludes with:<\/p>\n

The debate demonstrates how little the rest of us know about the realities of Muslim life here. No doubt that reality varies widely. But it\u2019s hard to believe that women in this and some other cultural communities truly share the protection enshrined in equality rights.<\/p>\n

Women enduring or fearing domestic violence often find it nearly impossible to seek official help. This is even more true, no doubt, in male-dominated cultural communities. In this context it\u2019s worth noting that the very first recommendation of Quebec\u2019s Bouchard-Taylor Commission was more government support for \u201corganizations with a mandate to inform and protect citizens,\u201d notably the Commission des droits de la personne et des droits de la jeunesse.<\/p>\n

Seeing into insular cultural communities is a real challenge. Immigrants can incarnate generations of cultural assumptions, which are not easily shed. We don\u2019t know what happened in the Shafia family, but we do know that the process of inculcating respect for Canadian ways needs more attention than it has been getting.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

First of all, the assumption seems to be that the newspaper is speaking from, and to, the perspective of \u201cthe rest of us,\u201d meaning non-Muslims, and that Muslims are people to be talked about<\/em>, rather than forming part of the conversation.\u00a0 I\u2019m also bothered by the repeated reference to \u201ccultural communities,\u201d which suggest that mainstream white\/non-Muslim Canadian communities are not \u201ccultural,\u201d and not \u201cmale-dominated,\u201d or that it is only immigrants who carry \u201cgenerations of cultural assumptions.\u201d\u00a0 That\u2019s all just plain inaccurate\u2013I don\u2019t even know what else to say about it.<\/p>\n

Last, the idea that \u201crespect for Canadian ways\u201d is the answer\u2013when some of the less-positive \u201cCanadian ways\u201d include, for example, pathetic levels of female participation in government and disgusting levels of neglect towards violence faced by indigenous women<\/a>\u2013reinforces the Canadian superiority complex and the idea that Canada\u2019s values are necessarily preferable to those of any other country or community.\u00a0 Despite a promising beginning (posing a challenge to those who have \u201c[tarred] the whole Muslim population\u201d in their reactions), the article ultimately suggests that \u201cCanadian\u201d values are indeed better than those found in Muslim communities (where \u201cit\u2019s hard to believe that women [\u2026] truly share the protection enshrined in equality rights\u201d), and in doing so, tars Muslims with a pretty similar image to that which it supposedly denounces.\u00a0 Apparently humility and self-reflexivity don\u2019t figure so strongly among the \u201cCanadian values\u201d that this editorial is attempting to promote.<\/p>\n

Edit from Krista: I\u2019ve seen some reactions on Facebook to this post that criticise it for dodging the fact that the evidence does<\/em> point overwhelmingly to these murders being motivated by a desire to control the women who were killed, and that regardless of what the circumstances were in this particular case, Muslim communities do have issues of violence against women that we need to deal with.\u00a0 This is true, and my original goal for this post was actually to use this article as a starting point for trying to figure out how<\/em> to have these conversations about violence within Muslim communities, in ways that address the violence properly and fully, without feeding into perceptions of Muslims as all uniquely violent\/patriarchal\/oppressive in ways that other religious and\/or cultural communities aren\u2019t.\u00a0 I wanted to come back to a question of how to engage with some of the more problematic media representations without ignoring the actual problems that are happening.\u00a0 I ended up getting carried away with a different analysis, which, although important, doesn\u2019t really reflect what I feel are the most important things to say right now in response to these horrific murders.\u00a0 That\u2019s my fault, and I apologise for it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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