{"id":125,"date":"2011-06-19T07:56:00","date_gmt":"2011-06-19T07:56:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/monkeymind\/2011\/06\/the-march-of-the-closet-heterosexuals-and-friends-gay-pride-in-providence-2011\/"},"modified":"2011-11-01T15:02:02","modified_gmt":"2011-11-01T19:02:02","slug":"the-march-of-the-closet-heterosexuals-and-friends-gay-pride-in-providence-2011","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/monkeymind\/2011\/06\/the-march-of-the-closet-heterosexuals-and-friends-gay-pride-in-providence-2011.html","title":{"rendered":"The March of the Closet Heterosexuals (and Friends): Gay Pride in Providence, 2011"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><div dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: left\">\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/-kkULx7aEeKY\/Tf3zwyLvKvI\/AAAAAAAAD4E\/xj8gUKuvBJc\/s1600\/Providence+Pride+2011.jpeg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"237\" src=\"https:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/-kkULx7aEeKY\/Tf3zwyLvKvI\/AAAAAAAAD4E\/xj8gUKuvBJc\/s400\/Providence+Pride+2011.jpeg\" width=\"400\"><\/a><\/div>\n<p>Yesterday members and friends of the First Unitarian Church marched in the annual <a href=\"http:\/\/www.prideri.com\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Providence Gay Pride<\/a> parade. My feet are killing me. And I\u2019m still basking in the glow of how the community responds to a church that as we marched flew two banners: The first read \u201cFirst Unitarian Church of Providence.\u201d And right behind it \u201cStanding on the Side of Love.\u201d We also featured for the third time a float, okay a pickup truck stuffed with kids and others for whom the walk was a bit too much. Shoulda sat with them\u2026<\/p>\n<p>This morning I find myself thinking back to remarks made by a friend who finds the whole thing a bit silly. At least he couldn\u2019t bring himself to quite say he thought his particular foci in the area of social justice was more important. I think he misses something very important. Maybe even a couple of things\u2026<\/p>\n<p>In some circles today is called <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Juneteenth\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Juneteenth<\/a>. It marks the day in 1865 when the slaves in Galveston, Texas, learn of they had been \u201cfreed\u201d more than two years earlier. This is also the anniversary of the <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Civil_Rights_Act_of_1964\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Civil Rights Act of 1964<\/a>, voted following an eighty-three day filibuster and, of course, right at a hundred years after one would have thought that matter settled.<\/p>\n<p>Civil rights are complex things involving changes in law and in our human hearts. <\/p>\n<p>Considering how few states have marriage equality, how every once in a while there are attempts to introduce sodomy laws to the books, we\u2019re no where near a time when such things as this annual commemoration of <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Stonewall_riots\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Stonewall<\/a> and the stand for GBLTQ rights is no longer needed.<\/p>\n<p>We haven\u2019t achieved the shifts in law. And our hearts are equally in flux. And things are happening.<\/p>\n<p>As I write these words New York state is one Senator voting in the affirmative from achieving marriage equality there. Our own little Rhodie is struggling to move a civil unions bill (a sorry half step, but containing acknowledgments of important rights, and a powerful step in the right direction) to the floor of the senate, where if it gets that vote is likely to pass into law.<\/p>\n<p>And the hope for simply being an integrated part of the great project of the American dream gets one small step closer\u2026<\/p>\n<p>People need to remember the injustices of our times. Great and small. And to resist establishing hierarchies of justice. Grab for those possibilities that are close at hand. And do the work to bring the rest to consciousness. This is part of the covenant of our humanity, to see, to notice, and to act responsibly\u2026<\/p>\n<p>It makes life worth living.<\/p>\n<p>And I know we\u2019re doing some good things. When a band of our teenagers arrived at the church where we were decorating our pickup truck float, they looked dismissively at us and one stage whispered, \u201cLook at the Closet Heterosexuals.\u201d Actually it wasn\u2019t true for all of us. But there was something sweet in the assertion, an owning of our whole community, a reversal of the assumed that speaks to what we hope to be\u2026<\/p>\n<p>GBLTQ folk need to stand for themselves. And their friends need to be with them. And it is probably important that one has difficulty telling which is which\u2026<\/p>\n<p>And so while my feet are sore, I feel our little band has done something, small and important.<\/p>\n<p>And will continue to do so\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Remember Stonewall\u2026<\/p>\n<p><\/p><\/div>\n<div class=\"blogger-post-footer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" src=\"https:\/\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/tracker\/33904114-8612168139838785425?l=monkeymindonline.blogspot.com\" alt=\"\"><\/div>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yesterday members and friends of the First Unitarian Church marched in the annual Providence Gay Pride parade. My feet are killing me. And I\u2019m still basking in the glow of how the community responds to a church that as we marched flew two banners: The first read \u201cFirst Unitarian Church of Providence.\u201d And right behind [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":120,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-125","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.1 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>The March of the Closet Heterosexuals (and Friends): Gay Pride in Providence, 2011<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Yesterday members and friends of the First Unitarian Church marched in the annual Providence Gay Pride parade. My feet are killing me. 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