{"id":12666,"date":"2016-06-01T10:06:40","date_gmt":"2016-06-01T17:06:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/monkeymind\/?p=12666"},"modified":"2016-06-01T10:08:26","modified_gmt":"2016-06-01T17:08:26","slug":"like-sand-slipping-through-spread-fingers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/monkeymind\/2016\/06\/like-sand-slipping-through-spread-fingers.html","title":{"rendered":"Like Sand Slipping Through Spread Fingers"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/81\/2015\/11\/Oxherding_pictures_No._10.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-10922\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/81\/2015\/11\/Oxherding_pictures_No._10-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"Oxherding_pictures,_No._10\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-10922\"><\/a><br>\nJust had coffee with the president of the congregation I\u2019m currently serving as interim minister. I not only like him, I admire him. I think our time together has made me a tiny bit better person. <\/p>\n<p>And, I\u2019m having this amazing feeling washing over me how this part of my life is slipping away more rapidly than sand through spread fingers. <\/p>\n<p>This was our last visit before my last Sunday before I really do end my life as a parish minister, twenty-four as called and settled (to use the jargon of this trade) and one year as an interim. <\/p>\n<p>Such wonder. <\/p>\n<p>It all flies by so fast. Trite words. True experience.<\/p>\n<p>It is all so mysterious. More complex words, but still falling short of what I\u2019ve experienced, and I wish I could convey\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Let me try again.<\/p>\n<p>I am so grateful. <\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"420\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/pX6SuX0Z6AQ\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Just had coffee with the president of the congregation I\u2019m currently serving as interim minister. I not only like him, I admire him. I think our time together has made me a tiny bit better person. 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