{"id":1348,"date":"2008-10-10T13:36:00","date_gmt":"2008-10-10T13:36:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/monkeymind\/2008\/10\/love-rules-in-connecticut\/"},"modified":"2011-11-01T15:12:12","modified_gmt":"2011-11-01T19:12:12","slug":"love-rules-in-connecticut","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/monkeymind\/2008\/10\/love-rules-in-connecticut.html","title":{"rendered":"Love Rules in Connecticut"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><a href=\"https:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/_niPwTW3rBbU\/SO-TnvB8e2I\/AAAAAAAABUc\/OUjnELvDSeE\/s1600-h\/phyllis-lyon-and-del-martin-in-2004.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"float:left;margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer;cursor:hand\" src=\"https:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/_niPwTW3rBbU\/SO-TnvB8e2I\/AAAAAAAABUc\/OUjnELvDSeE\/s320\/phyllis-lyon-and-del-martin-in-2004.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\"><\/a><br>Martin Luther King, Jr preached \u201cLet us realize the arc of the moral universe is long but it bends toward justice.\u201d I look around me and find it hard to believe. 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