{"id":1408,"date":"2008-09-01T07:01:00","date_gmt":"2008-09-01T07:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/monkeymind\/2008\/09\/lynn-johnson-kobayashi-issa-mary-oliver-and-learning-to-let-go-again\/"},"modified":"2011-11-01T15:12:51","modified_gmt":"2011-11-01T19:12:51","slug":"lynn-johnson-kobayashi-issa-mary-oliver-and-learning-to-let-go-again","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/monkeymind\/2008\/09\/lynn-johnson-kobayashi-issa-mary-oliver-and-learning-to-let-go-again.html","title":{"rendered":"Lynn Johnson, Kobayashi Issa, Mary Oliver, and Learning to Let go, Again&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><a href=\"https:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/_niPwTW3rBbU\/SLvWEOqVbwI\/AAAAAAAABMo\/LgrEuZgwzlw\/s1600-h\/forbetterorforworsebestever.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt;float: left;cursor: pointer\" src=\"https:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/_niPwTW3rBbU\/SLvWEOqVbwI\/AAAAAAAABMo\/LgrEuZgwzlw\/s320\/forbetterorforworsebestever.jpg\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\"><\/a>Sunday had a bittersweet quality to it. For me, at least, and I suspect for a few more, as well\u2026<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/For_better_or_for_worse\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Lynn Johnson<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.fborfw.com\/strip_fix\/archives\/003336.php\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">ended<\/a> her long running comic <a href=\"http:\/\/www.fborfw.com\/strip_fix\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">\u201cFor Better or for Worse.\u201d<\/a> This has been flat out one of my favorite newspaper comic strips. And I say this as a serious fan of newspaper comics.<\/p>\n<p>Originally she planned on this past Saturday and the Sunday epilogue being \u201cit.\u201d The end. But life is a mysterious thing, as perhaps you\u2019ve noted, things change in various directions, and she\u2019s decided to revisit her creation and continue running the old strips interwoven with new ones drawn in the original style to fill out the back story a bit.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll certainly continue to follow this new-old project.<\/p>\n<p>But, here, I find myself more thinking about the <span class=\"blsp-spelling-error\">passingness<\/span> of things.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes it is easier to look into this most essential teaching of our lives when the stakes aren\u2019t quite as high as this fact on the ground of our existence will inevitably present.<\/p>\n<p>A little easier, I suggest, perhaps, when we\u2019re talking about the passing of a comic strip rather than the passing of a person\u2019s life.<\/p>\n<p>And that can be a gift. Because the hard one will come. So, as the Sufis say, we need to learn to die before we die. And here\u2019s a very small death. Heck, one even with a half life to follow. And still. It can be hard\u2026<\/p>\n<p>As the Zen poet <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Kobayashi_Issa\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><span class=\"blsp-spelling-error\">Kobayashi<\/span> <span class=\"blsp-spelling-error\">Issa<\/span><\/a> wrote on the occasion of his daughter\u2019s death.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: italic\">The world of dew<br>is the world of dew,<br>and yet, and yet \u2013<\/span><\/p>\n<p>I often find this poem pared in my heart with that famous \u201cthree things\u201d ending to <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Mary_Oliver\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Mary Oliver\u2019s<\/a> poem <span style=\"font-style: italic\">In <span class=\"blsp-spelling-error\">Blackwater<\/span> Woods<\/span>.<\/p>\n<p>Poets often speak to the heart of the matter better than anyone else. At least that\u2019s been my observation. And both <span class=\"blsp-spelling-error\">Issa\u2019s<\/span> poem on the fact and the <span class=\"blsp-spelling-corrected\">lingering<\/span> and Oliver\u2019s poem on the how to do of it all are among the more important guides for me on my way.<\/p>\n<p>Together they pretty much <span class=\"blsp-spelling-corrected\">summarizes<\/span> the whole <span class=\"blsp-spelling-error\">passingness<\/span> thing and how to deal with it\u2026<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: italic\">Look, the trees<\/span> <span style=\"font-style: italic\"><br>are turning<\/span><br><span style=\"font-style: italic\">their own bodies<\/span> <span style=\"font-style: italic\"><br>into pillars<\/span> <span style=\"font-style: italic\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>of light, <span style=\"font-style: italic\"><br>are giving off the rich<\/span><br><span style=\"font-style: italic\">fragrance of cinnamon<\/span> <span style=\"font-style: italic\"><br>and fulfillment,<\/span> <span style=\"font-style: italic\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>the long tapers <span style=\"font-style: italic\"><br>of cattails<\/span><br><span style=\"font-style: italic\">are bursting and floating away over<\/span> <span style=\"font-style: italic\"><br>the blue shoulders<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: italic\">of the ponds,<\/span><br><span style=\"font-style: italic\">and every pond,<\/span><br><span style=\"font-style: italic\">no matter what its<\/span> <span style=\"font-style: italic\"><br>name is, is<\/span> <span style=\"font-style: italic\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>nameless now. <span style=\"font-style: italic\"><br>Every year<\/span><br><span style=\"font-style: italic\">everything<\/span> <span style=\"font-style: italic\"><br>I have ever learned<\/span> <\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: italic\">in my lifetime<\/span> <span style=\"font-style: italic\"><br>leads back to this: the fires<\/span> <span style=\"font-style: italic\"><br>and the black river of loss<\/span> <span style=\"font-style: italic\"><br>whose other side<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: italic\">is salvation,<\/span> <span style=\"font-style: italic\"><br>whose meaning<\/span> <span style=\"font-style: italic\"><br>none of us will ever know.<\/span> <span style=\"font-style: italic\"><br>To live in this world<\/span> <span style=\"font-style: italic\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>you must be able<br><span style=\"font-style: italic\">to do three things:<\/span> <span style=\"font-style: italic\"><br>to love what is mortal;<\/span> <span style=\"font-style: italic\"><br>to hold it<\/span> <span style=\"font-style: italic\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>against your bones knowing <span style=\"font-style: italic\"><br>your own life depends on it;<\/span> <span style=\"font-style: italic\"><br>and, when the time comes to let it go,<\/span> <span style=\"font-style: italic\">to let it go.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Do I hear an amen?<\/p>\n<div class=\"blogger-post-footer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" src=\"https:\/\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/tracker\/33904114-1263428023729602000?l=monkeymindonline.blogspot.com\" alt=\"\"><\/div>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sunday had a bittersweet quality to it. 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