{"id":1427,"date":"2008-08-18T07:00:00","date_gmt":"2008-08-18T07:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/monkeymind\/2008\/08\/secrets-of-love\/"},"modified":"2011-11-01T15:12:54","modified_gmt":"2011-11-01T19:12:54","slug":"secrets-of-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/monkeymind\/2008\/08\/secrets-of-love.html","title":{"rendered":"Secrets of Love"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><a href=\"https:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_niPwTW3rBbU\/SKldGSFEeNI\/AAAAAAAABJ4\/UNyWJ7eou7E\/s1600-h\/birthofvenus.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"float:left;margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer;cursor:hand\" src=\"https:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_niPwTW3rBbU\/SKldGSFEeNI\/AAAAAAAABJ4\/UNyWJ7eou7E\/s400\/birthofvenus.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\"><\/a>According to Wikipedia the oldest known temple devoted to the Roman deity <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Venus_(mythology)\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Venus<\/a> was established on this day in 293 b.c.e.\u00a0<\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Venus is the goddess of love, beauty and fertility.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Her story and that of the Greek <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Aphrodite\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Aphrodite<\/a> are now completely intertwined.\u00a0<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>As a Unitarian Universalist I am sympathetic to this syncretistic inclination, and would throw in all goddesses of love, including my favorites <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Mary_(mother_of_Jesus)\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Mary<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Guanyin\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Guanyin.<\/a><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>And I suggest today as an appropriate moment to stop and contemplate this most amazing of human emotions, love. And, buried within it, deep in the heart of this oh so human feeling, something more\u2026<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>As someone inclined to the rational it sometimes takes an overwhelming emotional experience to remind me reason is a tool and not reality itself.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Now emotions are not reality itself, either.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>But\u2026<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Early on my spiritual journeys I stumbled on the Hindu teacher <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Ramakrishna\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Ramakrishna<\/a> and his rather astonishing band of followers. I was particularly taken, as readers of this blog might recall, with his English admirers.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>I had to still be a teenager when I read of a turning point in Ramakrishna\u2019s life, a vision he had of the deity <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Kali\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Kali<\/a>, another of these incarnations of love, although as is often true, somewhat hard to recall in the messiness of her presentation. In Ramakrishna\u2019s vision at least within my memory Ramakrishna saw her emerge from a river and walk toward him. As she walked she swelled out pregnant, gave birth, and then swallowed her child\u2026<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>I\u2019ve never forgotten this.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Nor the emotions that Ramakrishna reported\u2026<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Now as we are shaken out of our comfort zones, whether that zone be cool reason or hot feeling, we can then take those states of being and follow them to ever deeper places. At least this has been my experience.\u00a0<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Transformed reason becomes the way of Wisdom, and emotion becomes the way of Love.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>And at some point it becomes difficult to discern which is which\u2026\u00a0<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Terrible.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Beautiful.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Love.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div class=\"blogger-post-footer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" src=\"https:\/\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/tracker\/33904114-4613305415929083580?l=monkeymindonline.blogspot.com\" alt=\"\"><\/div>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>According to Wikipedia the oldest known temple devoted to the Roman deity Venus was established on this day in 293 b.c.e.\u00a0 Venus is the goddess of love, beauty and fertility. 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