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<\/a>Where have you been?<\/span><\/p>\n
Out.<\/span><\/div>\n
What were you doing?<\/span><\/div>\n
Nothing.<\/span><\/div>\n
<\/span><\/div>\n
<\/span><\/div>\n
While I know, sometimes bitterly, always with a pang, that not everyone can take some time \u201coff,\u201d I gotta say, it is one wonderful thing.<\/div>\n
<\/div>\n
In our little universe we\u2019ve been going great guns for quite a while. Most every day is work and house. And, don\u2019t get me wrong, I love both.<\/div>\n
<\/div>\n
But sometimes it is time to stop.<\/div>\n
<\/div>\n
Go out.<\/div>\n
<\/div>\n
Do nothing.<\/div>\n
<\/div>\n
Or, the moral equivalent. When we left Newton Jan was given two Red Sox tickets as a gift. Well, today\u2019s the day we cash them in. <\/div>\n
<\/div>\n
The weather is great. Bright. Warm.<\/div>\n
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Right after church services, we\u2019ll drive up to Boston and win, lose or draw (well, I guess you can\u2019t draw in Baseball\u2026), we fully expect to have a loverly time\u2026<\/div>\n
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