{"id":6367,"date":"2013-03-02T06:55:38","date_gmt":"2013-03-02T11:55:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/monkeymind\/?p=6367"},"modified":"2013-03-02T07:03:35","modified_gmt":"2013-03-02T12:03:35","slug":"sometimes-you-have-to-decide-which-side-youre-on","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/monkeymind\/2013\/03\/sometimes-you-have-to-decide-which-side-youre-on.html","title":{"rendered":"Sometimes You Have to Decide Which Side You&#8217;re On"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/81\/2013\/03\/king-kong.jpeg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/81\/2013\/03\/king-kong-300x200.jpeg\" alt=\"\" title=\"king kong\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-6368\"><\/a><br>\nOn this day in 1933 King Kong opened at Radio City Music Hall in New York City\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Me, first I saw it sometime in the nineteen fifties in glorious black and white on television.<\/p>\n<p>My goodness, I was scared. And, ultimately, as I was supposed to be, I found myself on the ape\u2019s side.<\/p>\n<p>When it was over, I was sad.<\/p>\n<p>And\u2026<\/p>\n<p>It was a dramatic illustration of what I would gradually see as much of the way things are. And it helped me to realize which side I wanted to be on\u2026<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"420\" height=\"315\" src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/E2tr-UctURQ\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>On this day in 1933 King Kong opened at Radio City Music Hall in New York City\u2026 Me, first I saw it sometime in the nineteen fifties in glorious black and white on television. My goodness, I was scared. And, ultimately, as I was supposed to be, I found myself on the ape\u2019s side. 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