{"id":7622,"date":"2013-11-29T14:05:04","date_gmt":"2013-11-29T19:05:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/monkeymind\/?p=7622"},"modified":"2018-02-04T17:42:27","modified_gmt":"2018-02-05T01:42:27","slug":"mothers-dont-let-your-children-play-football","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/monkeymind\/2013\/11\/mothers-dont-let-your-children-play-football.html","title":{"rendered":"Mothers! Don&#8217;t Let Your Children Play Football"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/81\/2013\/11\/children-playing-football.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-7623\" title=\"children playing football\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/81\/2013\/11\/children-playing-football-190x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"290\" height=\"400\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s a word for moms.<\/p>\n<p>You have a kid in the house who wants to play football?<\/p>\n<p>You need to give it some serious thought.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, football is pervasive. As American as apple pie, they say. Just a bit ago, as I flipped on the radio to NPR I found myself listening to a story on various grudge matches in college football. Mildly disgusted I turned the radio off then turned the television on to my favorite politically oriented channel, to hear a \u201cdebate\u201d between conservative and progressive political activists featuring an extended football metaphor.<\/p>\n<p>We swim in football culture.<\/p>\n<p>Now, in fact I owe football a lot, specifically my first call as a parish minister. I was being interviewed by the pulpit search committee. We were discussing this and that, and then, it certainly seemed, out of the blue I was asked what I thought of football. It was Wisconsin, so it seemed maybe there was some issue hanging in the air. But, as they say, when in doubt, tell the truth. So, I answered honestly. \u201cI think any school that offers football should be denied federal funding.\u201d Usually that got a small smile, from those who picked up on the point. This time it was a roaring laugh. Turned out the person who would be my predecessor played football in college and football was his abiding metaphor. The search committee realized if they presented me to the congregation and I was elected, for the term of my tenure there would be no football metaphors. Got the job.<\/p>\n<p>Football is here. And let\u2019s be frank.<\/p>\n<p>Football is a canker sore on our collective soul.<\/p>\n<p>Its been a while since some liberal friend justified their obsession with football as cathartic. The Richie Incognito scandal gives the lie to that little bit of self-deception. People who act like thugs, act like thugs. They don\u2019t burn it off doing or watching thuggery and then do good things. You sit in a cesspool, well, you get poop all over yourself.<\/p>\n<p>I think the Penn State child sex abuse scandal no coincidence. It shows how profoundly skewed values get in the wild support of the team. Again, sitting in the cesspool, what might you expect? Football is about brutality and brutalizing. Pretty much period.<\/p>\n<p>But, that\u2019s been known for years, at least by those willing to look. But those who point it out have been voices crying in the wilderness.<\/p>\n<p>Now, however, there\u2019s something \u201cnew\u201d mothers need to hear.<\/p>\n<p>Here it is\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Football causes brain damage. Google the terms \u201cfootball\u201d \u201cbrain damage\u201d and \u201cscience.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Yes, other sports can be dangerous, as well.<\/p>\n<p>But, football, where its very purpose is as much about inflicting pain on others as moving a ball down a court, makes head crushing contact inevitable.<\/p>\n<p>And the science is irrefutable.<\/p>\n<p>You let your child play football and he (almost always he) is in real danger of suffering brain damage.<\/p>\n<p>Permanent.<\/p>\n<p>Lasting.<\/p>\n<p>Is it really worth it?<\/p>\n<p>Really?<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/cyy1URzWmms\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 \u00a0 Here\u2019s a word for moms. You have a kid in the house who wants to play football? You need to give it some serious thought. Yes, football is pervasive. As American as apple pie, they say. 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