{"id":418,"date":"2009-09-01T22:31:00","date_gmt":"2009-09-01T22:31:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/mormontherapist\/2009\/09\/we-cant-discover-the-joys-of-sex-together\/"},"modified":"2009-09-01T22:31:00","modified_gmt":"2009-09-01T22:31:00","slug":"we-cant-discover-the-joys-of-sex-together","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/mormontherapist\/2009\/09\/we-cant-discover-the-joys-of-sex-together.html","title":{"rendered":"We can’t discover the joys of sex together…"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<\/head>

I have been wondering about <\/span>similar things<\/span><\/a> recently. I\u2019m dating someone who has only been in the church for four months. He has amazing potential and his faith and testimony are already amazing. But when I think about marrying him, I worry about sexuality. I certainly believe that his sins have been washed away and forgive him for making those decisions though he wasn\u2019t a believer at the time. But that doesn\u2019t get rid of the fact that we can\u2019t discover the joys of sex together. I think I will always feel insecure about\/second to his previous experiences and can imagine myself using that as an argument against him if we were to ever disagree about something. I think I\u2019d always wonder if he was comparing me to his ex-girlfriend and if he didn\u2019t say anything about it, I\u2019d wonder and wonder and probably ask about it, but knowing would just upset me more. But he deserves a happy eternal marriage as much as any child of God, and I can see that otherwise, the partnership would be great.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019d love to see more on this subject. Thanks for all your tips. <\/p>\n


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Well, I\u2019m not going to beat around the bush on this: in my opinion, it would be selling yourself short to make your decision on whether or not this person is the right one for you based on this subject. Here are some thoughts:<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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