{"id":5105,"date":"2019-05-23T17:15:03","date_gmt":"2019-05-23T22:15:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/mormontherapist\/?p=5105"},"modified":"2019-05-23T17:15:03","modified_gmt":"2019-05-23T22:15:03","slug":"moving-in-the-right-direction","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/mormontherapist\/2019\/05\/moving-in-the-right-direction.html","title":{"rendered":"Moving in the right direction?"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-5120 size-newsletter_thumb_medium alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/153\/2019\/05\/blank-daylight-direction-1638830-279x213.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"279\" height=\"213\">Looks like some of the language is starting to shift at least in the right direction in regards to safety measures within <a href='https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/library\/mormonism' target='_blank'>LDS church<\/a> functions\/services. This is thanks to the efforts of many who bring concerns to the table on a regular basis without acknowledgment\u2026 and instead often face ostracism and discipline.<\/p>\n<p>Also it\u2019s unfortunate that these types of changes aren\u2019t announced from the pulpits; that these changes are done in quiet ways\u2026 (not sure why\u2026 maybe to avoid embarrassment or accountability\u2026). It does nothing to engage the culture\u2026 the people\u2026 and pretty much guarantees that actual change will be slow coming, if at all.<\/p>\n<p>We could move to much healthier spaces if these things were addressed openly\u2026 and if training\/resources would be consistently available to congregants and leaders.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-5111 \" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/153\/2019\/05\/60340209_10100394524467829_8449908852740063232_n.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"637\" height=\"784\"><\/p>\n<hr>\n<p>Natasha Helfer Parker, LCMFT, CST can be reached at\u00a0<a class=\"decorated-link decorated-link\" href=\"http:\/\/www.natashaparker.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><strong>natashaparker.org<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0and\u00a0runs an online practice,\u00a0<a class=\"decorated-link decorated-link\" href=\"http:\/\/www.symmetrysols.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><em><strong>Symmetry Solutions<\/strong><\/em><\/a>, which focuses on helping families and individuals with faith concerns, sexuality and mental health. She hosts the\u00a0<a class=\"decorated-link decorated-link\" href=\"http:\/\/www.mormonmentalhealth.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><strong>Mormon Mental Health<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0and\u00a0<a class=\"decorated-link decorated-link\" href=\"http:\/\/www.mormonsexinfo.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><strong>Mormon Sex Info<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0Podcasts, is the current past-president of the\u00a0<a class=\"decorated-link decorated-link\" href=\"http:\/\/www.mormonmentalhealthassoc.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><strong>Mormon Mental Health Association<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0and runs a sex education program,\u00a0<a class=\"decorated-link decorated-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.patreon.com\/sextalkwithnatasha\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><strong>Sex Talk with Natasha<\/strong><\/a>. She has over 20 years of experience working with primarily an LDS\/Mormon clientele.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Looks like some of the language is starting to shift at least in the right direction in regards to safety measures within LDS church functions\/services. This is thanks to the efforts of many who bring concerns to the table on a regular basis without acknowledgment\u2026 and instead often face ostracism and discipline. 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