{"id":6141,"date":"2020-01-08T11:49:07","date_gmt":"2020-01-08T16:49:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/mormontherapist\/?p=6141"},"modified":"2020-01-10T11:50:18","modified_gmt":"2020-01-10T16:50:18","slug":"lets-stay-positive","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/mormontherapist\/2020\/01\/lets-stay-positive.html","title":{"rendered":"Let\u2019s stay positive"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>Yes!!! I have argued for a long time that the whole \u201cworld is getting worse\u201d rhetoric is harmful for our mental health and for optimism and incentives in regards to problem solving. Let\u2019s stay positive minded\u2026 while invested in solving the negatives we face as a human race.<\/p>\n<p>Thanks <a class=\"profileLink decorated-link\" title=\"Anthony D. Miller\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/anthonydmiller.mt?__tn__=%2CdK-R-R&amp;eid=ARCY4idGi_KZssOyS8tWl9p6O4oLcrH5qF9BVFqQQuX2XNN0wvVpNsgRvEfbu86b5SElaV5TCenH3JdO&amp;fref=mentions\" data-hovercard=\"\/ajax\/hovercard\/user.php?id=1224567487&amp;extragetparams=%7B%22__tn__%22%3A%22%2CdK-R-R%22%2C%22eid%22%3A%22ARCY4idGi_KZssOyS8tWl9p6O4oLcrH5qF9BVFqQQuX2XNN0wvVpNsgRvEfbu86b5SElaV5TCenH3JdO%22%2C%22fref%22%3A%22mentions%22%7D\" data-hovercard-prefer-more-content-show=\"1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Anthony D. Miller<\/a> for the great reminder:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"color: #000080;\">As I sit here this morning, I do so with a tremendous sense of gratitude for this past decade and optimism about the next\u2014not just in my personal life, but with<span class=\"text_exposed_show\"> what is happing in my community and in the world.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"text_exposed_show\">\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Yes. There are problems in the world, but the overall trajectory of things is really quite amazing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Let\u2019s lean in to dealing with the problems, but let\u2019s also celebrate and experience gratitude for the progress.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Here is a WSJ opinion piece and other images about our progress, and hopefully, our continued trajectory for humanity.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<div class=\"text_exposed_show\">\n<div class=\"patheos-gallery\"><div class=\"gallery-image-container\">\n    <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/153\/2020\/01\/81539123_10214400602628610_2815952211920551936_n-550x550.jpg\" alt=\"81539123_10214400602628610_2815952211920551936_n\" class=\"img-responsive\">\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"gallery-blurb\"><!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><\/html>\n<\/div>\n\n<!-- MOBILE AD -->\n<div class=\"col-xs-12 visible-xs-block\">\n    <div class=\"ad ad-container visible-xs-block\" id=\"incontent-mobile\" style=\"height: 320px !important;\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"by-line clearfix pull-left wide-decorated\">\n    <div class=\"pull-left\">Slide: 1 <i class=\"styled\">of<\/i> 3<\/div>\n    <\/div><!-- START GALLERY CONTROLS BUTTONS -->\n\t<div class=\"patheos-gallery-control\">\n\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/mormontherapist\/2020\/01\/lets-stay-positive.html\/2\/\" class=\"full-width btn btn-prime-1 continue-btn fc-preview-contextmenu\"><i class=\"glyphicon glyphicon-chevron-right pull-right\"><\/i>Continue Reading<\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n<!-- END GALLERY CONTROLS BUTTONS --><\/div>\n<div class=\"patheos-gallery\"><div class=\"gallery-image-container\">\n    <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/153\/2020\/01\/81484054_10214400604028645_3772998103745953792_n-550x550.jpg\" alt=\"81484054_10214400604028645_3772998103745953792_n\" class=\"img-responsive\">\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"gallery-blurb\"><!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><\/html>\n<\/div>\n\n<!-- MOBILE AD -->\n<div class=\"col-xs-12 visible-xs-block\">\n    <div class=\"ad ad-container visible-xs-block\" id=\"incontent-mobile\" style=\"height: 320px !important;\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"by-line clearfix pull-left wide-decorated\">\n    <div class=\"pull-left\">Slide: 1 <i class=\"styled\">of<\/i> 6<\/div>\n    <\/div><!-- START GALLERY CONTROLS BUTTONS -->\n\t<div class=\"patheos-gallery-control\">\n\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/mormontherapist\/2020\/01\/lets-stay-positive.html\/2\/\" class=\"full-width btn btn-prime-1 continue-btn fc-preview-contextmenu\"><i class=\"glyphicon glyphicon-chevron-right pull-right\"><\/i>Continue Reading<\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n<!-- END GALLERY CONTROLS BUTTONS --><\/div>\n<hr>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-6150 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/153\/2020\/01\/80596179_10214400602388604_6612671123689570304_n.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"280\" height=\"405\"><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<hr>\n<p><i><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-5994 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/153\/2019\/11\/42c76f_c52e0cf43b7b492e919aad90297a5272mv2_d_1536_1684_s_2.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"115\" height=\"126\" data-pagespeed-url-hash=\"3060353197\"><\/i><i>Natasha Helfer Parker, LCMFT, CST, CSTS\u00a0<\/i><i><\/i><i>can be reached at\u00a0<\/i><a class=\"decorated-link decorated-link\" href=\"http:\/\/natashaparker.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><b><i>natashaparker.org<\/i><\/b><\/a><i>\u00a0and runs an online practice,\u00a0<\/i><a class=\"decorated-link decorated-link\" href=\"http:\/\/symmetrysols.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><b><i>Symmetry Solutions<\/i><\/b><\/a><i>, which focuses on helping families and individuals with faith concerns, sexuality and mental health. She hosts the\u00a0<\/i><a class=\"decorated-link decorated-link\" href=\"http:\/\/mormonmentalhealth.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><b><i>Mormon Mental Health<\/i><\/b><\/a><i>\u00a0and <strong><a class=\"decorated-link decorated-link\" href=\"https:\/\/mormonsex.info\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Mormon Sex Info<\/a><\/strong>Podcasts, is the current past president of the\u00a0<\/i><a class=\"decorated-link decorated-link\" href=\"http:\/\/mormonmentalhealthassoc.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><b><i>Mormon Mental Health Association<\/i><\/b><\/a><i>\u00a0and runs a sex education program,\u00a0<\/i><a class=\"decorated-link decorated-link\" href=\"http:\/\/sextalkwithnatasha.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><b><i>Sex Talk with Natasha<\/i><\/b><\/a><i>. She has over 20 years of experience working with primarily an LDS\/Mormon clientele.<\/i><\/p>\n<div class=\"text_exposed_show\"><\/div>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yes!!! I have argued for a long time that the whole \u201cworld is getting worse\u201d rhetoric is harmful for our mental health and for optimism and incentives in regards to problem solving. Let\u2019s stay positive minded\u2026 while invested in solving the negatives we face as a human race. Thanks Anthony D. 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