{"id":51,"date":"2011-01-08T11:14:00","date_gmt":"2011-01-08T11:14:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/muslimahinprogress\/2011\/01\/08\/the-whole-virgins-in-paradise-thing\/"},"modified":"2011-01-08T11:14:00","modified_gmt":"2011-01-08T11:14:00","slug":"the-whole-virgins-in-paradise-thing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/muslimahinprogress\/2011\/01\/the-whole-virgins-in-paradise-thing.html","title":{"rendered":"The Whole Virgins in Paradise Thing&#8230;."},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b>Bismillahi Rahmani Rahim<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b><br><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b>Salaam Alaikum wa Rahmatullah<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b><br><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b>Okay, let\u2019s deal with this whole \u201c72 virgins\u201d thing. \u00a0Non-Muslims, most often those hostile to Islam, always bring this up as an accusation against Muslims claiming that Muslim men are lustful beasts and even our concept of heaven proves that. \u00a0Of course, some of the people who believe this are upright moral Christians like Newt Gingrich, who had an affair and then went to his wife to discuss a divorce while she was in the hospital recovering from cancer treatment. \u00a0But that\u2019s neither here nor there. \u00a0There are reasonable men and women who have trouble with this concept, so I thought I\u2019d put in my two cents\u2019 worth and try to explain it. \u00a0Here goes:<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b><br><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b>Okay, first of all, most people nowadays do not practice polygyny, where a man can have more than one wife, but the concept is well-rooted in history and met with no opprobrium until modern times. \u00a0Moses, pbuh, did not forbid it, nor did Jesus, pbuh. \u00a0Until Islam came along there was little regulation of it. \u00a0Prophet Muhammad, pbuh, taught that a man was limited to no more than four wives, and if he felt he could not be fair with them, he should limit himself to only one. \u00a0He also taught that if a man was not fair in dividing his wealth in an equitable fashion, and dividing his time equally, he would come leaning to one side on the Day of Judgment, like a stroke victim. \u00a0So Islam was the first religion to deal with this issue and set protections for women. \u00a0Islam also taught that women were not property who could be inherited, women could not be married off without their consent, they had the right to have their own business and property, and they had the right to be supported financially 100% by their husbands. These are rights that were not given to women in the West until relatively recently. \u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b><br><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b>Okay, so now most westerners are not comfortable with polygyny, but that does not detract from the wisdom of allowing it. \u00a0We\u2019ll leave aside that discussion for another day and jump to the topic of the beautiful women, the <i>hoor al ayn<\/i>, of Jannah.<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b><br><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b>I don\u2019t know about the number 72; I\u2019ll just keep the number to one for simplicity\u2019s sake. \u00a0So, let\u2019s say that a man and a woman are married in this world. \u00a0They are married for, oh, 40 years. \u00a0They are Muslim, they are good people, they raise up good Muslim children and have nice lives full of the usual ups and downs. \u00a0They pass away. \u00a0Islam teaches that they will be together in Jannah if they both get in; they will be married there just as they were in this world. \u00a0In addition to his worldly wife, a man will also have a wife from among the hoor al ayn, who are a separate creation of Allah. \u00a0They are not human women.<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b><br><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b>Muslims have no problem believing in another creation of Allah, because we believe in humans, angels, and jinns, all different sentient groups with unique attributes. \u00a0So Allah created these hoor al ayn only for men in Jannah, for a specific purpose, which is companionship.<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b><br><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b>Aha! \u00a0Companionship. \u00a0<i>Companionship<\/i>? \u00a0Isn\u2019t that a euphemism for <i>sex<\/i>? \u00a0Well, sort of, but not really, because there will be no sex as we understand it in Jannah. \u00a0What? \u00a0Correct. \u00a0Try and wrap your head around this: \u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b><br><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b><i>Jannah is not like this world. \u00a0Its pleasures are purified and what we call food in Jannah is perfect and only resembles food of this world like a weak shadow on a cloudy day resembles the person who casts it. \u00a0 <\/i>\u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b><br><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b>The same can be said of sexual relations. \u00a0The best sex any person ever had at any time in this world is nothing compared to the perfection of pleasure in Jannah. \u00a0Everything in Jannah will be purified, perfect, and unique from anything this world has to offer: \u00a0We have food, Jannah has food; we have drink, Jannah has drink; we have sex, Jannah has sex. \u00a0But in Jannah, everything is purified and on a higher plane; food is not be prepared over a hot stove, juice does not have to be squeezed. \u00a0Our bodies will not have stool or urine or mucus. \u00a0We won\u2019t get colds, or diseases. \u00a0Sex will be similarly purified, which we with our worldly limited brains cannot understand.<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b><br><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b>Because we cannot understand this, we have a hard time relating to descriptions of Jannah even as they are given to us in the Qur\u2019an and the authentic sayings of Prophet Muhammad, pbuh. \u00a0We can read that there will be no jealousy or enmity in Jannah, but our real life selves can\u2019t imagine turning loose of all the baggage we have, the petty jealousies and hurts and very real memories of betrayal or pain. \u00a0We can intellectually accept that sex in Jannah is different, but we can\u2019t turn loose of knowledge of worldly sex with its complications, lust, fear, guilt, disease, rape, regret. \u00a0There is no date rape, there is no uh-oh, there is no \u201cwhat was I thinking?\u201d in Jannah.<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b><br><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b>So, \u00a0you and your husband are in Jannah. \u00a0You look wonderful; your bodies are at their best shape, they are in perfect health, and you won\u2019t age or decay; \u00a0You and your husband love each other and any arguments you may have had back in the world are gone, wiped from your mind so that you only have love and respect for one another. \u00a0<i>Quick note to husbands: \u00a0this is not \u00a0a reason for you to not take out the trash or lower the toilet seat.<\/i><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b><br><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b>Now, you are individuals, and even in Jannah you have the same personalities, though purified, that you had back in the dunya, the world before you died. \u00a0So, say, if your husband enjoyed woodworking and you loved to garden, you will still have a love of these things when you are in Jannah. You may even be able to pursue such loves as \u201chobbies\u201d sort of, in Jannah. \u00a0How do we know? We have this hadith:<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b><br><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b><i>One of the inhabitants of Paradise will seek permission from his Lord for cultivation. Allah will ask him: Are you not in a state that you like? He will \u00a0say: \u201cyes, but I like to cultivate (the land). (When the man is permitted) he will soon sow the seeds. The plants will grow up get ripe and be ready for harvesting. Then the yield will develop into conglobation like huge mountain\u2026 (Bukhari,5, p.413\/10119).<\/i><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b><br><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b>So we know that if we have a permissible desire in Jannah, Allah will allow us to pursue it. \u00a0I always envision, that if Allah grants me Jannah, that I would love to learn every textile art, like weaving and knitting and lacemaking. \u00a0I can while away hours praising Allah and learning these crafts.<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b><br><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b>Okay, now back to our topic. \u00a0So, you\u2019ll have hobbies and your husband will have hobbies, right? \u00a0And you\u2019ll love and respect each other and there will be plenty of time for purified sexual relations that you can enjoy with one another. \u00a0But what if YOU are busy teaching yourself how to knit a scarf out of some rareified yarn and you are in the midst of it and your husband is in the mood? \u00a0Well, in the worldly world before Jannah, you would be expected to respond to your husband even if you are busy and not particularly in the mood:<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b><br><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b><i>Allah\u2019s Messenger said, \u201cWhen a man calls his wife to satisfy his desire she must go to him even if she is occupied at the oven.\u201d (Hadith \u2013 Tirmidhi 3257)\u00a0<\/i><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b><br><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b>This is because a woman gets a great reward from Allah for responding to her husband, and a husband\u2019s needs are often very intense and by responding to him a woman protects him from being attracted to any woman outside the house. \u00a0But this is Jannah. \u00a0Jannah is not a place of serving, it is a place of being served; it is a place of rest and doing what you want, not doing what someone else, even a beloved husband, wants. \u00a0So how do we reconcile his desire to have purified sexual relations and your desire to continue knitting? \u00a0This is where the hoor al ayn come in. \u00a0She was created to be a companion for your husband; she was created to be perfectly obedient to him with no free will and no desire to do anything but serve him. \u00a0She won\u2019t be busy knitting. \u00a0Your husband can fulfill his desires \u2013 because Jannah is not a place for him to wait any more than it is a place for you to serve him \u2013 you can finish your knitting, and later, when you both are focused on one another, you can enjoy each others\u2019 company.<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b><br><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b>Be honest, ladies. \u00a0In this worldly life, there are always going to be times when you\u2019re just not in the mood to respond to your husband. \u00a0If the reason is legitimate, like you were up all night with a sick child, or you have a horrible sinus headache or something, then your husband does not have the right to force you and he should be patient, and Allah will not hold you responsible for what is beyond your ability. \u00a0But if you have no legitimate reason beyond \u201cI\u2019d rather be watching Seinfeld\u201d, then you are expected to respond. \u00a0You may have thought, just for a moment, that it would be cool for him to have another wife so you can have a night off and put on face cream, wear \u00a0fuzzy slippers, eat Ben &amp; Jerry\u2019s and watch a chick flick without having to make tea or get him a snack or take a tumble in the bed. \u00a0Well, in Jannah, that\u2019s why the man has the hoor al ayn.<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b><br><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b>I hope this helps clarify the issue for you a bit. \u00a0If you have a knot in your stomach at the thought of your husband being with that lovely hoor al ayn, just relax and remember that Allah knows best and you will be a better you when you are in Jannah, Allah willing. \u00a0You won\u2019t have jealousy, you won\u2019t have self-consciousness and worry if the robes of Jannah make you look fat. \u00a0You won\u2019t have any negative thoughts at all. \u00a0So leave Jannah to Jannah; it will be there. \u00a0Your job now is to be the best Muslimah you can in this world so that you CAN be in Jannah. \u00a0Allah knows our innermost selves and He will make Jannah perfect for each of us. \u00a0My Jannah has gardens and cute little dragons and knitting and growing things; your Jannah might have flying and painting and pomegrantes that peel themselves. \u00a0It will be perfect, so let us work on perfecting our characters so Allah will grant it to us. \u00a0Don\u2019t worry about those hoor al ayn. \u00a0They\u2019ve got nothing on you. \u00a0And Allah knows best.<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b><br><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, sans-serif\"><b><br><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"blogger-post-footer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" src=\"https:\/\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/tracker\/8276196425188955527-2135882771026764777?l=muslimahinprogress.blogspot.com\" alt=\"\"><\/div>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bismillahi Rahmani Rahim Salaam Alaikum wa Rahmatullah Okay, let\u2019s deal with this whole \u201c72 virgins\u201d thing. \u00a0Non-Muslims, most often those hostile to Islam, always bring this up as an accusation against Muslims claiming that Muslim men are lustful beasts and even our concept of heaven proves that. \u00a0Of course, some of the people who believe [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":81,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-51","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.1 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>The Whole Virgins in Paradise Thing....<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Bismillahi Rahmani RahimSalaam Alaikum wa RahmatullahOkay, let&#039;s deal with this whole &quot;72 virgins&quot; 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