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But then on the other hand they themselves are completely inaccessible and instill a unsettling sense of insecurity and suspicion among the members.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t have both. Either you encourage authenticity with all of its chaos, or you run a uncompromisingly tight ship of subjects. In the first case people come first and the goal follows. In the second case the goal comes first and people fall in behind that.<\/p>\n

Take your pick.<\/p>\n

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