{"id":9092,"date":"2011-09-15T17:24:01","date_gmt":"2011-09-15T21:24:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.nakedpastor.com\/?p=9092"},"modified":"2011-09-15T17:24:01","modified_gmt":"2011-09-15T21:24:01","slug":"to-judge-is-not-to-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/nakedpastor\/2011\/09\/to-judge-is-not-to-love\/","title":{"rendered":"to judge is not to love"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/328\/2011\/09\/love-the-love.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-9093\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/328\/2011\/09\/love-the-love.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"459\" height=\"640\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I was talking with an acquaintance today who is gay. I was telling him about my upcoming weekend in Dallas, speaking at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.northaven.org\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Northaven United Methodist Church in Dallas Texas<\/a>. He was asking me why I was going there. I said it was because of my blog. He said, \u201c<em>You\u2019re a blogger? What\u2019s your blog?<\/em>\u201d I said, \u201c<em>Nakedpastor!<\/em>\u201d He exclaimed, \u201c<em>You\u2019re <strong>him<\/strong>?<\/em>\u201d I laughed because it struck me so funny because we\u2019ve known each other so long and I never brought it up. I\u2019m my own worst promoter!<\/p>\n<p>Ya, I\u2019m \u201chim\u201d! Funny. The two things I get most flack over on this blog is:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>my <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nakedpastor.com\/?s=z-theory\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">z-theory<\/a>; and<\/li>\n<li>my position on <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nakedpastor.com\/?s=gay\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">homosexuality<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>The common denominator in these two controversial topics is that they are both\u00a0<strong>universal<\/strong> and <strong>inclusive <\/strong>in substance.<\/p>\n<p>My gay friend reminded me of what Mother Teresa said, \u201c<em>If you judge people, you have no time to love them.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>My take on the gospel accounts of Jesus is that he was so rejected because of his <em>universality<\/em> and his <em>inclusivity<\/em>. It was the provincial exclusivists that terminated him.<\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #978e43\">Visit my online <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nakedpastor.com\/?openstorepage=home\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">gallery<\/a> where you can buy my most popular cartoons and art.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/nakedpastor101-Cartoons-David-Hayward\/dp\/1453898417\/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1302774960&amp;sr=8-1\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/328\/2011\/08\/NP-Book-012.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"250\" height=\"100\"><\/a><\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was talking with an acquaintance today who is gay. I was telling him about my upcoming weekend in Dallas, speaking at Northaven United Methodist Church in Dallas Texas. He was asking me why I was going there. I said it was because of my blog. He said, \u201cYou\u2019re a blogger? What\u2019s your blog?\u201d I [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":349,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[533],"tags":[19,540,1111,448,791,2223,722],"class_list":["post-9092","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-comics","tag-cartoon","tag-comic","tag-david-hayward","tag-gay","tag-homosexual","tag-mother_teresa","tag-nakedpastor"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.1 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>to judge is not to love<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"I was talking with an acquaintance today who is gay. 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