originally posted in April 2013, with more and more states approving gay marriage, this post seems even that much more prescient:<\/em><\/p>\n I believe that gay marriage is coming, whether we like it or not, whether we agree with it or not. Rather than another conservative evangelical diatribe on the rights and wrongs of the issue, these next two posts will be suggestions on how we should respond once gay marriage becomes legal nationwide. (Although I doubt it will happen with these Supreme Court cases currently pending, I do think the time is coming, as the current is running swiftly in that direction).\u00a0**Update: The recent ruling against DOMA did not make gay marriage legal nationwide, but legal in states that have already voted for it.<\/p>\n 1. Jesus tells us to be as shrewd as snakes and as innocent as doves.\u00a0<\/strong>The world will always force us to take one of two options: either support gay marriage (and compromise our biblical beliefs) or violently condemn gay marriage (and lose our influence in the culture). When the world gives you only two options, choose option three. There\u2019s a way to navigate the minefield. \u201cI\u00a0am sending you out like sheep among wolves. Therefore be as shrewd as snakes and as innocent as doves.\u201d\u00a0<\/b><\/em>Matthew 10:6<\/p>\n 2. Why have we singled out gay marriage as the greatest evil in America today? Is it because we don\u2019t struggle with it?<\/strong>\u00a0The merits or evils of gay marriage aside, here\u2019s my question: where\u2019s the same moral outrage against pornography? Against materialistic excess, the love of pleasure and recreation, against the fact that many of us love our sports teams more than God? Where\u2019s the moral outrage against that? Do we single out gay marriage as the greatest evil simply because we tend not to struggle with it as much?\u00a0\u201cWhy do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother\u2019s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?\u201d<\/em>\u00a0Matthew 7:3<\/p>\n 3. Our moral argument against homosexual marriage is destroyed because of the utter decay of heterosexual marriages.\u00a0<\/strong>Many claim to want to protect the \u2018sanctity of marriage.\u2019 When one in two marriages end in divorce, when immorality is rampant, there\u2019s not much \u2018sanctity\u2019 left to protect. To claim the moral high ground is hypocritical.\u00a0He replied, \u201cIsaiah was right when he prophesied about you hypocrites; as it is written: \u201c\u2018These people honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me.\u201d Mark 7:6<\/em><\/p>\n 4. Is our goal to preserve conservative values in America or to reach the world for Christ?\u00a0<\/strong>Let\u2019s keep our eyes on the prize. What\u2019s our ultimate goal? To protect conservative values, or to win the world for Christ? Satan would love nothing more than to distract us on issues that are ultimately secondary.\u00a0Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of faith. Hebrews 12:2<\/em><\/p>\n 5. Paul tells us that it\u2019s not our job to judge the world. That\u2019s God\u2019s<\/strong>\u00a0job<\/strong>. This one hurts. It\u2019s not our job to be the morality police. It shouldn\u2019t surprise us when non-believers actually act like non-believers. Paul makes it very clear: judging the world is God\u2019s job, not ours.\u00a0What<\/em>\u00a0business is it of mine to judge those outside the church? Are you not to judge those inside? God will judge those outside. 1 Corinthians 5:12-13<\/em><\/p>\n 6. Jesus died for homosexuals and heterosexuals alike.<\/strong>\u00a0Whether we like to admit it or not, God did not discriminate based on sexuality when he died on the cross. If someone embraces the homosexual lifestyle, then they stand in the same position as a person who\u2019s embraced the heterosexual lifestyle: a sinner desperately in need of God\u2019s grace and forgiveness.\u00a0<\/strong>But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.<\/em>\u00a0Romans 5:8<\/p>\n QUESTION: Your thoughts? How should Christians respond to gay marriage?<\/em><\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" originally posted in April 2013, with more and more states approving gay marriage, this post seems even that much more prescient: I believe that gay marriage is coming, whether we like it or not, whether we agree with it or not. Rather than another conservative evangelical diatribe on the rights and wrongs of the issue, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2490,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[1493],"class_list":["post-1413","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-uncategorized"],"yoast_head":"\n